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Topic: Is there really life after Divorce?
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Mon 07/23/07 05:56 PM
I was married for almost 7 years when my husband walked out on me and our 2 year old little girl. i was 17 when i married him and now i am alone. Is there anything out there left for me or should i just go on the rest of my life alone?

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:01 PM
life does not end.
he lost it.
u have all ur life ahead.
and now ur little daughter is the most important thing in ur life.
u r not going to find love. Love will find u.
meanwhile make friends

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Mon 07/23/07 06:05 PM
I just never thought it would be so hard to be alone i have never been alone until he left im 24 and scared to death. is it always this scary?

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:05 PM
Hey girl I've been through the BIG D myself and yes life goes on & on & on.Just pick up the pieces, and do the best you can for you and your kids.It all gets easier day by day.And things have a way of working themselves out.If you ever need to talk just email me I can talk to you. be glad to help
Heahter:smile:

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Mon 07/23/07 06:07 PM
Don't be scared. It just takes a while to realize that you CAN make it without him. Just hang in there it gets easier. It's really hard to raise a 2year old by yourself. I know, I've done it. But now my littlest is 4 and things are getting much easier! You are strong, believe in yourself!

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Mon 07/23/07 06:08 PM
Humm well I was married 12 now been divorced for 16 in that time I took it to raise my kids. I still dated but no one lived with me and my kids hummm my choice one that came back and bit me in the ass for sure but........ I would do it all over again. I don't see that life has ended for me just had me on hold for awhile lol. And well there is always hope that we will find that special one someday. Just don't give upbigsmile flowerforyou

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:10 PM
My motto... Eat, Drink and Remarry!

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Mon 07/23/07 06:10 PM
me and my ex have been apart since Aug. 2006 so i have been alone for almost a year but it was final a little less then a month ago

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:13 PM
GOOD-LUCK!!!!drinker DRINKS ON ME

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Mon 07/23/07 06:15 PM
lol can i have a mountain screw please?

mountain dew and vodka

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:21 PM
sure anything you want.!!!drinker drinker I'll even make it a double

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:23 PM
My motto... Eat, Drink and Remarry!
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that was my motto too

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

freeangel's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:25 PM
No, it does get better. My husband of 17 years left me and my 3 boys in January. Like you I got married at 17, and I was scared to be alone too. But I have found out there is life after him, and it's pretty good. But I can tell you that you are probably a lot stronger than you think you are. You'll be surprised what you can handle. Just be there for your daughter right now. Everything else will fall into place eventually. You're very young, just give it time.

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Mon 07/23/07 06:30 PM
the sad part is where i live in a small town word gets around and the really selfish thing he did was he started rumors so now no one wants to come near me and hell he walked out on me for the most dumb azz reason so now i have no friends no one to hang out with no one to get to know nothing

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Mon 07/23/07 06:32 PM




It will be alright...

nu2topcat's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:32 PM
it is always scary at first. the old adage is almost true. time heals all wounds. it does not heal them but it does make them more tolerable. some day you will meet some one and you will say to your self, damn why was i so worried, life is greatflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 07/23/07 06:40 PM
Just remeber what goes around comes around.He'll it he's It's not all fun and games.Its been almost 2years since my x left,now he wants back.Well he wanted back before but it didn't work.So now I have finally & truelly moved on with my life,And it suck to to him. He does all he can to say how sorry he is & such blah blah blah.I've heard it all before.I won't fall for it again.So now he's the one thats lonely & blue.And I happier then I've been in a long long time.And this is counting some of the time before he left.:wink:

mishaellyn's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:41 PM
I was married for almost 8 years and just got divorced last year. I am just now getting back into dating. And I am really enjoying it. Take time to find you again. The rest will follow. I know my prince charming is out there. I may just have to kiss a few frogs to get to him. :smile:

countrybelle6471's photo
Mon 07/23/07 06:41 PM
should say sucks to be him !!!

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Mon 07/23/07 06:48 PM
I can sympathize with you babygirl.......I've been divorced for 24 years now and swore I'd never marry again! Well, I'm looking for another man, but at least this time I know exactly what I'm looking for! Hang in there, things will get better! Love that little girl and be happy and make sure she's happy!

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