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Topic: What Would You Do?
ErinxCx's photo
Sun 06/17/12 08:06 PM
What would you do if you caught your boyfriend messaging married women, saying vulgar things to them, and when you confronted him about it and he denied it?
What would you do or say to him?

lilott's photo
Sun 06/17/12 08:15 PM
Nothing cause I don't believe in boyfriends.

Winx's photo
Sun 06/17/12 09:01 PM
I would say, "Good-bye".

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/17/12 09:10 PM

What would you do if you caught your boyfriend messaging married women, saying vulgar things to them, and when you confronted him about it and he denied it?
What would you do or say to him?


Well, let's assume for the sake of argument I had a vagina and was in fact, not a lesbian. I'd leave.

Okay, and now, let's assume for a moment, I also had low self-esteem and low self-confidence... I'd complain to everyone I know and stay.

He's just not worth it, you know.

ErinxCx's photo
Sun 06/17/12 09:28 PM
We did end it. :)

I just wanted to ask other people what they would've done in that situation. He was a complete jerk. And I know that I didn't deserve any of that crap that I put up with. And I'm a happier person because he's not in my life anymore. biggrin

ErinxCx's photo
Sun 06/17/12 09:36 PM
I am very slowly adjusting to being single again.
And I'm wondering why I even left single-ville. laugh

Jtevans's photo
Sun 06/17/12 09:54 PM
you should probably offer to give him a lap dance.we like those kinds of things ya know smokin

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 06/17/12 10:03 PM

What would you do if you caught your boyfriend messaging married women, saying vulgar things to them, and when you confronted him about it and he denied it?
What would you do or say to him?


I would not waste the breath it would take to say or do anthing more in his direction. I would have dropped him like the piece of trash that he revealed himself to be and do my best to disassociate myself from anything related to him.

Sorry you tangled with this kind of guy. Nobody gets a crystal ball.

But if you look back you might see where some of the warning signs were and maybe avoid them in the future. Good Luck. Keep your standards high.

teadipper's photo
Sun 06/17/12 10:04 PM

I would say, "Good-bye".


Or as the younger set say "B-Bye".

Movie07's photo
Sun 06/17/12 10:08 PM
I would say good-bye n be over it and also throw all his stufff out the door....laugh

teadipper's photo
Sun 06/17/12 10:10 PM

I would say good-bye n be over it and also throw all his stufff out the door....laugh


Out an upstairs window onto the lawn or driveway is more dramatic. LOL.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 06/17/12 10:27 PM
I don't know if you have any of his stuff but dramatic gestures will only make you look like you actually care when why should you? Doing demonstrative things only make you look like you are stooping to his level.

Since this guy's character is questionable and he could be dangerous I would suggest if you have any of his property remove it immediately to a nuetral location. Someplace where you can document his reciept of it. I would suggest video tapeing it being placed and locked in a prepaid storage locker and the key mailed to him that he must claim with in 30 days or loose with notification by reciepted mail.

If all you have is gifts or momentos be mature and responsible and put them in the trash if you don't want them. Since it is only going to remind you of this miserable experience I would quietly purge them and forget about it.

no photo
Sun 06/17/12 11:38 PM

What would you do if you caught your boyfriend messaging married women, saying vulgar things to them, and when you confronted him about it and he denied it?
What would you do or say to him?
rant First of all he has no business texting married or un-married women vulgar things if he's your bf, so I'd have his bags packed and the locks on the doors changed before he could even begin to try to explain his SORRY *ss story! That's just what I would do. Don't put up with it, you deserve better. Good luck.flowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 06/18/12 12:16 AM

We did end it. :)

I just wanted to ask other people what they would've done in that situation. He was a complete jerk. And I know that I didn't deserve any of that crap that I put up with. And I'm a happier person because he's not in my life anymore. biggrin


Good girl!

ErinxCx's photo
Mon 06/18/12 08:26 AM

I don't know if you have any of his stuff but dramatic gestures will only make you look like you actually care when why should you? Doing demonstrative things only make you look like you are stooping to his level.

Since this guy's character is questionable and he could be dangerous I would suggest if you have any of his property remove it immediately to a nuetral location. Someplace where you can document his reciept of it. I would suggest video tapeing it being placed and locked in a prepaid storage locker and the key mailed to him that he must claim with in 30 days or loose with notification by reciepted mail.

If all you have is gifts or momentos be mature and responsible and put them in the trash if you don't want them. Since it is only going to remind you of this miserable experience I would quietly purge them and forget about it.


I had a few gifts. One in particular that I knew I didn't want. And I told him very calmly that I didn't want it and if he didn't want it that I was going to throw it away. I ended up giving it to his daughter because she was upset that we had ended things. And I felt like that was probably better than throwing it away.


Tizar's photo
Mon 06/18/12 10:57 AM
Enjoy your life, drop the dead weight.

Desi18's photo
Mon 06/18/12 12:25 PM
Yeah, noone deserves to be treated like that. You deserve so much more :smile: And you'll find it, because youre worth it

no photo
Mon 06/18/12 12:29 PM
I would move on...to someone that enjoyed sexting with ME.


Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/18/12 01:15 PM

I would move on...to someone that enjoyed sexting with ME.




Best thing about sexting? Disease free!!!

no photo
Mon 06/18/12 02:25 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Mon 06/18/12 02:27 PM


I would move on...to someone that enjoyed sexting with ME.




Best thing about sexting? Disease free!!!



Right...lol..so true..and can be very erotic and sexy if done the right way...Mental is stronger than physical ..I think, sometimes.

flowers

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