Topic: what do you do
shandi69's photo
Fri 08/31/12 04:23 AM
even thou i have a man now but stay on here cause i really enjoy the forums n making friends, but now n then i have men saying they want to be friends n then hit on me with wanting a relationship or sex talk..
I have been a really good girl n polite to them but some have been very rude n persistance.. I block them but they do up new profiles...
Do i report them cause i'm tired of being polite to them...

oldhippie1952's photo
Fri 08/31/12 07:05 AM
Yes report them, it is harassment/stalking.

navygirl's photo
Fri 08/31/12 08:00 AM

even thou i have a man now but stay on here cause i really enjoy the forums n making friends, but now n then i have men saying they want to be friends n then hit on me with wanting a relationship or sex talk..
I have been a really good girl n polite to them but some have been very rude n persistance.. I block them but they do up new profiles...
Do i report them cause i'm tired of being polite to them...


Yep report them or just send them my way. I have no problem of ripping a strip off these losers.pitchfork

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/31/12 08:03 AM

Block them and quit e-mailing them back. If you block them they can't e-mail you..Now if they follow you to the forums then yes report them and let Admin look into it...

pyxxie13's photo
Fri 08/31/12 09:02 AM
Tell them you are really a man. pitchfork

no photo
Fri 08/31/12 09:04 AM

Tell them you are really a man. pitchfork


you're stealing my method.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 08/31/12 09:05 AM
Take down your pictures of yourself. It's the only thing that works.

Totage's photo
Fri 08/31/12 10:15 AM

even thou i have a man now but stay on here cause i really enjoy the forums n making friends, but now n then i have men saying they want to be friends n then hit on me with wanting a relationship or sex talk..
I have been a really good girl n polite to them but some have been very rude n persistance.. I block them but they do up new profiles...
Do i report them cause i'm tired of being polite to them...


Report them and block them.

Nothing wrong with being here just for friends or anything.

Good to hear you found someone. I hope things work out for the best.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Fri 08/31/12 10:16 AM

even thou i have a man now but stay on here cause i really enjoy the forums n making friends, but now n then i have men saying they want to be friends n then hit on me with wanting a relationship or sex talk..
I have been a really good girl n polite to them but some have been very rude n persistance.. I block them but they do up new profiles...
Do i report them cause i'm tired of being polite to them...


Yes, report them especially if they are putting up new profiles.

Ladywind7's photo
Fri 08/31/12 11:07 AM
Give up on being friendly or polite. It does not work. When men say they want to be friends, unless they are from the forums, dont believe it for one second. As for them creating new profiles, that is crazy, creeper behaviour.

shandi69's photo
Sat 09/01/12 03:19 AM
thanks ppl, taken note of all that is said and it has been a quiet few days now... And i will say since i stopped talking to them they have gone away...

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 09/01/12 07:23 AM

thanks ppl, taken note of all that is said and it has been a quiet few days now... And i will say since i stopped talking to them they have gone away...


Oh, I didn't realize you were continuing to talk to them. Yeah, ignoring works too.

wux's photo
Tue 09/04/12 03:19 AM

thanks ppl, taken note of all that is said and it has been a quiet few days now... And i will say since i stopped talking to them they have gone away...


You say you got a man... well, get another man or two, and get them to beat up these guys who don't understand when a girls says "thankyou, but no thank you" to them.

This can be done.

Tulareman's photo
Tue 09/04/12 03:29 AM

Tell them you are really a man. pitchfork
laugh laugh :banana:

Kaleijoscope's photo
Tue 09/04/12 05:48 AM
Give them the heavy drama...

no photo
Tue 09/04/12 06:11 AM

Take down your pictures of yourself. It's the only thing that works.

kudos for the right answer! it does work. but for times I have my photo up, I use the block / delete method