hi all i need help...........im in love with this girl and and she dont want me to tell no one i want to show my love to her and she dont want people to know so what do i do ?

wow---my personal opinion
red flag!!!! you do not deserve that kind of a relationship.

I agree with nurjoyce.

I would have to agree,with Joyce.If it were me I'd shout it from the rooftops.BuT I wish yo all the best.

I agree with Joyce. Usually, if a woman loves a man she wants to shout it from the roof tops (and in the bedroom!!) If not, she's hiding something...just my opinion!

Tell her to commit or quit!

i just want to be happy and show some one im happy wih her and all im looking for is some one to love me for who i am

haha bliss, commit or quit!

When they want you to keep it a secret, there's usually some kind of underlying problem there....if she doesn't want anyone to know about it, you can bet there's a reason....like she doesn't want some certain somebody else to know about it....

Personally, I would ask her why it has to be kept a secret, maybe there's a legitimate reason (although, admittedly, I can't think of one) -- and if I wasn't satisfied by what she told me, I'd move on....

<<<<<<<<<<<agrees with everyone..why doesnt she want anyone to know? ashamed? ahhhhhhhhhhh, doesnt sound right to me

GEE,,NO COMMENT as I to have well,,,been there, and its kind-of a YOU and HER thing,,but HER motive would have to be a good one,,,but if she's afraid someone else will see that,,then SO???? Why would THAT be a concern??
But, she might just be a playing ya....
but two can play,,,if THAT, is what THEY want??
Good luck on finding that LOVE YOU THING,,,I seem to have missed it myself,,lol....

I'd cut the woman some slack unless she has a really good reason. Maybe the relationship is moving too fast and she just wants to enjoy couplehood for a while before getting other people involved. But, if you've been involved for a while, it's definitely a red flag.

Why, how old is she?

Sounds like things are moving too fast for the woman. I'm with Bay on this one, give the gal some slack and take your time.

In addition to that you might go easy about professing your unending devotion and love. That can be a little creepy too.

she is 19

if a woman feels the same as you do or is inlove with a man she will want everyone to know she will love to jump in right away if she wants it a secrete your being warned something is wrong it may end it heartbreak

but every woman is different maybe she wants to take it slow because she isn't sure herself

She does not deserve YOU.....You are an affection man...she is not...Maybe she has something to hide...or maybe she likes you...but doesnt "like" you like you like her....hey its just me guessing....for trying to spare you your feelings...it doesnt seem like she is being honest with you......and with out honesty...you really have nothing....

reevaluate your love......I know im one to fall in love easily...and of lately i have had to be a little more guarded with my heart....

Well you get it....but regardless what ever you do....Just be carefull....and always ENJOY

why what is the reason

is it a reasonable reason

if so give it a time line

if not run forest run

I think everyone is right on with this one....just give it time, maybe she wants to make sure...

Hey Doc?? Doesn't make much sense to me. Why in the world wouldn't she be happy and want to share her love with you with the world??????????????. Is she in love with you? Or are you just in love with her? Do you know her real feelings?? You need to find out. We don't want to see your heart broken. I know men get broken just as well as us women do. Good luck