Is my profile bad? or am I rushing to be in a relationship with someone or worst,am I rushing for marriage? Why am I not getting any responses here?..

Maybe I should quit this site,maybe look somewhere else or maybe this isn't the right place or time for me to be in a relationship.I thought 25 was the right time,that was why I waited all these years and so I tried this dating site coz I also heard about success stories here.Well maybe it's for others,not me.

Anyways,I'm cool here,no problem.I can wait till 30 to begin a relationship with a man (the kind I like).

I'll give it another week,and if there's still no response from other members,then I'll quit this dating site.

I've been to ST Thomas and orangestaad a few times but I never seen you there, too bad you seem nice.

According to the data about you displayed below your image, you have been a member of this site for little more than two days. That is not enough time to judge the effectiveness of this site.

I don't know why people get so impatient. I like to think of these sites as trapping as opposed to hunting. When you hunt, you go out and get your target. When you go trapping, you set the trap and let the targets come to you. You can't dictate when it'll happen. It just happens.

So, on this site, you can come on every day, instant-messaging and emailing to guys here that you want (hunting), or you can make your profile and invite them to contact you (trapping). No matter how nice your profile is, some guys just won't see it, right away. Be patient and they'll come. Your photo is good. The description is a little light, but not bad. If I was closer to your location and age, you'd hear from me, now that I've seen you.

Good luck!

Trapping and hunting? Are we food to be devoured? Men are usually the hunters and women the trappers. Someone called me a man trap once. I corrected him. I'm a male magnet. lol

Well, you have on your profile that you're looking for marriage and I'm afraid that that's just going to put a lot of guys off. It's not so much that you're looking for husband material that's offputting. There are quite a few nutters on these sites that actually expect men to propose to them over the internet and a few nutters I've heard about that do propose by email.

Correct me if I'm wrong but I read your profile and your post here and I'm thinking that this girl is a catholic that doesn't believe in sex before marriage. There aren't really all that many people from Scotland on this site and trying to find someone that shares your values and is prepared to wait could be tricky.

It's hard enough to persuade the women on these sites to just agree to meet you and it's hard to know what people are really like from just emails or even telephone calls and I think a date with you would be a high pressure situation. I have no idea how many men you have talked to in the short time you've been on here but with a profile like that you are likely to attract scammers from all over the world. If you are prepared to talk to people from other countries they will tell you what you want to hear, say that they are going to come to Scotland to meet you and then give you a BS story about how there's a problem and they need you to send them money.

You must be a lover of magic or maybe miracle. Your profile says you've been here for 3days or less. If actually you want a fat bone, you need patience.

I hear you... this is something you have to get the hang of ... and you can look around to see how other people write their posts

I see 3 main reasons you're not getting responses. 1. You've only been here a couple of days which is really no time at all. Especially during Xmas/New Years week when lots of people are preoccupied with the holidays and not with being here. 2. Your profile only has one pic and not all that much about you or what you're looking for. 3. The only post you've made was the one wondering why you haven't been having much luck. The more you post the more people will notice you and get to know you. Also, you didn't say how many people you messaged. If you haven't messaged many people that could be another reason. It's also very possible many of them just haven't been online in the last few days.

Yeah, this is true but it's your call. If you don't find a man on this site there are other ones.

You thought that you're ready for a relationship at twenty five but if it doesn't happen in a week you'll maybe leave it for another five years...

Dating sites are full of women that aren't really ready for a relationship. Then there are newbies that expect instant sunshine and picky types that want the moon on a stick.

Sure, there are success stories and it does work for some people. You resorted to internet dating and I guess it isn't happening for you in the real world, so give it a bit of time and maybe change that profile.