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Topic: New here, looking for a cougar!
misterpleasure Joined Thu 01/03/13 Posts: 15	Sat 01/05/13 11:49 AM
Thos poor boy is gonna need a hospital bed after his first encounter. Cat or older woman, he's gonna lose the fight. :) I just hope I'm still alive...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/05/13 11:51 AM
Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for a cougar that could rock this young boy's world. No judgements son.... but at 19 what can you offer a 30 yr old woman? Other than physical Someone that young probably doesn't have a whole lot of experience in the physical part of it either.

misterpleasure Joined Thu 01/03/13 Posts: 15	Sat 01/05/13 12:01 PM
Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for a cougar that could rock this young boy's world. No judgements son.... but at 19 what can you offer a 30 yr old woman? Other than physical Someone that young probably doesn't have a whole lot of experience in the physical part of it either. If you're not into younger men it's probably not attracting but a cougar is so I'm not expecting that you would like it...

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 01/05/13 12:28 PM
Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for a cougar that could rock this young boy's world. No judgements son.... but at 19 what can you offer a 30 yr old woman? Other than physical Someone that young probably doesn't have a whole lot of experience in the physical part of it either. If you're not into younger men it's probably not attracting but a cougar is so I'm not expecting that you would like it... DAMN STRAIGHT! Don't let anyone rattle your cage if you know what you want. I want a woman younger than me but I am supposed to be a creep according to some. All I tell them is WHATEVS and dismiss them. I think the biggest hypocrisy is that when we turn 18 we are supposed to be adults but are treated like children. Here I am 47 and I still get that same condescending treatment here and there. You are one leg up more so than most others here. You know what you want. You spell out your expectations. And none of it is unreasonable. Troll forth with honor my friend! I am sure if you keep looking that lucky cougar will rock your world but really most of the time women in their 30s and 40s are MILFs where you hit 50s to 60s and now you are in Cougar Land! Past that are GMILFs but that to me is a little on the Fetish side of things! Still we only limit our horizons where we feel safe. Just promise us you have a good safe word if you get the leather out! Mommy may think you have been a very bad boy in need of a good spanking! A good safe word is BANANA! <---Any excuse to break this guy out is a good one.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 01/05/13 12:42 PM
What about protection? Just saying though, as you won't be wanting to get her pregnant. IF you don't want to, that is. Just my two cents. good luck and welcome :)

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Sat 01/05/13 12:50 PM
Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for a cougar that could rock this young boy's world. No judgements son.... but at 19 what can you offer a 30 yr old woman? Other than physical Someone that young probably doesn't have a whole lot of experience in the physical part of it either. If you're not into younger men it's probably not attracting but a cougar is so I'm not expecting that you would like it... Kid's got a point! Cougars get something from the youngins that we who date within our age group don't see.. Carry on kid! Be safe...

Cracker813 Joined Sun 10/16/11 Posts: 218	Sat 01/05/13 12:56 PM
Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for a cougar that could rock this young boy's world. You are on the right site kid, Most of the profiles of women my age that I look at, are looking for a guy your age. Don't get it personally, I have probably have more money, a car, and going to buy a house this year. Most likely working for the government and being way overpaid I probably have a better job. Not bragging, I am just older, have way more time to accumulate. Ironically still see online profiles wanting guys like you. Good luck it is hard to please any woman over 40, no 35. Heck even Hugh Hefner with all his millions and his cool Mercedes has to dip into the twenty year old dating pool. By personal experience, if I were you I would go for the ladies that are your age. They are real sweeter, less judgemental, realistic, and easier to please. As old and as ugly as I am they seem to be the only ones that write. a lot of them that I have met online would be thrilled to meet a guy like you. Please go for your dreams, and I hope that in thirty years that you are way more successful than I.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 01/05/13 01:51 PM
Eat your Wheaties young man! All the best in your quest. Welcome.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 01/05/13 02:25 PM
. By personal experience, if I were you I would go for the ladies that are your age. They are real sweeter, less judgemental, realistic, and easier to please. That is an interesting point of view Cracker that reminded me of previous conversations. I am not a cougar and don't typically date younger men but I do get approached by younger men a lot. When I ask them why they aren't dating in thir age range, they have the same complaints about younger women.. more of a sense of entitlement, less accepting, more judgmental. They find older women more secure in who they are, less drama. Their words, not mine. For every assumption, there will be an exception. It just goes to show how inaccurate stereotypes really are. All the more reason to just see people as people and to get to know them just as they are. All the best to you in your own search.

3Rutez Joined Fri 10/19/12 Posts: 107	Sat 01/05/13 03:48 PM
What a hoot. A good laugh indeed. Hehe. Let me set it straight though...... a Milf is ANY hot woman with child, while a cougar is over 40 and ONLY looking for BOYS. There we go. Oh, and FYI I'm a Dilf. Lmfao

misterpleasure Joined Thu 01/03/13 Posts: 15	Sat 01/05/13 05:04 PM
What about protection? Just saying though, as you won't be wanting to get her pregnant. IF you don't want to, that is. Just my two cents. good luck and welcome :) Ofcourse there needs to be protection, I maybe young but I'm old enough to know that kind off stuff. ;)

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 01/05/13 05:37 PM
BANANA!

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 01/05/13 06:06 PM
Apple :)

misterpleasure Joined Thu 01/03/13 Posts: 15	Sat 01/05/13 06:09 PM
big melons

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 01/05/13 06:45 PM
The moderators get mad when you show real ones!

misterpleasure Joined Thu 01/03/13 Posts: 15	Sat 01/05/13 07:08 PM
Hehe, nice one!

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sat 01/05/13 07:56 PM
You two lucky ladies just got mail. Lol When I think of cougars, I think of ladies older than myself. More like late 40s - 50s? Personally I wouldn't mind someone mid 30s. Now your after my stock.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/05/13 08:13 PM
You two lucky ladies just got mail. Lol When I think of cougars, I think of ladies older than myself. More like late 40s - 50s? Personally I wouldn't mind someone mid 30s. Now your after my stock. Are there a lot of women in their mid 30s who go for men in their mid 50s?

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21396	Sat 01/05/13 08:33 PM
Are you sure you'd be able to handle it OP?

Cracker813 Joined Sun 10/16/11 Posts: 218	Sun 01/06/13 12:34 AM
. By personal experience, if I were you I would go for the ladies that are your age. They are real sweeter, less judgemental, realistic, and easier to please. It just goes to show how inaccurate stereotypes really are. All the more reason to just see people as people and to get to know them just as they are. All the best to you in your own search. Thanks, do sincerely mean that. I stand by what I have said. I surf a lot on this site, usually when in red letters (1 New) who viewed me, the lady happens to be under 30. Being lonely I will write back, mainly out of boredom. Usually they tend to be nicer. I do live in reality. The only time when I got scores of women over 40 to view my profile is once, when I lied. I replaced my picture with a picture of a nice looking guy. Then I made up a really bogus profile saying that I was a successful day trader, that lived in a mansion and rode sport motorcycles hard for the fun of it. Then to make it somewhat believable, I put in all of these requirements for the ladies to go out with me. You wouldn't believe the amounts of views and mail. I didn't go any further in my charade. Ironically all the women were over 40, except 1 who was 35 or 38. Now I search in stealth mode, write alot of women and don't get no replies. Seriously though, I think that the poster would be much happier if he found someone his own age. May/December relationships kind of don't work. See it all the time with family and friends. Dating is a numbers game though, you ask out a lot of women, easily accept rejection, pray and eventually find the one. That is how players do it, except for the praying part. They tend to be successful. If you were to search women's profile as a man you would find that a lot of them will have in their filters that you have to be a young man.