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Topic: Do u think Sex is necessary for this age....
Shollybaba's photo
Wed 03/13/13 01:06 AM
Do u still fill like having SEX.....

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 03/13/13 05:40 AM
Feeling like and being able to might be two different things. LOL

midnightlov1959's photo
Wed 03/13/13 05:43 AM
Yes a lot

msharmony's photo
Wed 03/13/13 06:19 AM
sex is in the mind

all we NEED is rest, human contact, food, water, and shelter

so,no its not 'necessary' on an individual level

it is necessary to the survival of the human race


ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/13/13 08:34 AM
Personally? I crave it. I want to continue having a healthy sex life for as long as possible. Having said that, I will note that a lot of different things can constitute "sex", depending on the variable and possibly changing abilities of the partners involved. As far as I'm concerned, at it's core sex is more a matter of intent than of mechanics, in that it is possible to share pleasure by multiple avenues.

Sometimes, people just have to get creative. :smile:

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 03/13/13 09:47 AM
Sex is necessary to maintain a man's, at least, well being till he can't do it no more.

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/13/13 09:54 AM

Sex is necessary to maintain a man's, at least, well being till he can't do it no more.

I can't speak for all women, but it certainly helps with my well-being. And if he can't "do it" the traditional way... like I said, it's time to get creative. :smile:

jacktrades's photo
Wed 03/13/13 10:53 AM
Yes the act and the personal connection.

no photo
Wed 03/13/13 05:58 PM

Do u still fill like having SEX.....

Sholly you do not even look close to 52, you don't even look 30

no photo
Wed 03/13/13 06:06 PM
i'm 58 and still enjoy sex

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/13/13 06:41 PM

Feeling like and being able to might be two different things. LOL


laugh laugh

jackdwal's photo
Thu 03/21/13 05:49 PM
YES YES YES YES we still have to have sex my ex is a nurse she says its good for the prostate and we all have heard about that haven't we?

womaninperth's photo
Sat 03/23/13 08:43 PM
hello
new to this site but i have been single for many years.

My thoughts - Good sex is like a drug the more you have the more you want but when the supply dries up after a while you don't miss it.

Its finding a man who knows what good sex is because I cant be fussed if they don't know what they are doing. I do find it hilarious how many guys want to tell you how extraordinary they are when it comes to sex.

Maybe its just Aussie men who have a problem there.
So I remain celibate by choice until I find someone who wants to connect on other levels before I look to make it to the bedroom, lounge or kitchen table.

Just my thoughts on being over 50 and sex.flowerforyou

Cheers
Sharon

Shollybaba's photo
Sun 03/24/13 03:01 AM
I luv sex cant remember when last i have it....but fill like nw..

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 03/24/13 03:48 AM
Are you kidding? When I stop wanting sex, I'll gladly put a bullet through my own head.

frenchlover6's photo
Sun 03/24/13 02:41 PM
For sure

Mikeeijk's photo
Mon 03/25/13 06:53 AM
Hi all,
Lots of good ideas shared.
I think before any kind of sexual activity takes place there has to be some sense of a relationship or connectedness. This might develop or it might not. It might develop over a few hours or days, weeks...........
For me it has been so long I'm not sure how things might work out but I think that within a relationship things would flow naturally.
I agree with the idea of what constitutes sex is down to the participants and again part of the relationship.
I wouldn't want to leap on a woman any more than I would want her to leap on me.
Let's get that relationship first !

oldsage's photo
Tue 03/26/13 06:38 AM
Basic nutrition, water & air are all that is NECC.

The body can survive on that.

Sex is for the soul.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 03/26/13 03:59 PM

Hi all,
Lots of good ideas shared.
I think before any kind of sexual activity takes place there has to be some sense of a relationship or connectedness. This might develop or it might not. It might develop over a few hours or days, weeks...........
For me it has been so long I'm not sure how things might work out but I think that within a relationship things would flow naturally.
I agree with the idea of what constitutes sex is down to the participants and again part of the relationship.
I wouldn't want to leap on a woman any more than I would want her to leap on me.
Let's get that relationship first !


Well Said! :angel:

Human1234's photo
Thu 04/04/13 03:31 PM
Edited by Human1234 on Thu 04/04/13 03:35 PM
(I don't know how to QUOTE, sorry.)
ViaMusica, you said--
"I can't speak for all women, but it certainly helps with my well-being."

You're the only woman on this site I've ever seen talk so openly about (the S-word, s-e-x, shhhh!). You're a "breath of fresh air"! I exchange messages with a girl, and after a few messages, I mention the (s-word) . . . And she stops writing back to me! What's THAT all about?

I guess the ladies LIKE sex but don't like to TALK about sex?

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RELATED point, seems like sex and emotional-health are related. No, this isn't just a male "line" to get a woman to have sex with him ("because it's GOOD for you, healthwise"). I'm referring to the fact that even people who are beyond the age where they have an interest in SEX still want to MEET SOMEONE. --I think it's the emotional-health thing.

For ME, I've got both things together, the want-sex and the want-to-be-emotionally-CLOSE-to someone. One woman that I was exchanging messages with said she'd have to take a prescription for couple weeks before she'd feel the desire for sex. (But she said she might be willing to do that. So at least she wasn't just "putting me down" in any way, on that point, fortunately.)

My point is, emotional-closeness is STILL desired by humans even if they no longer feel a desire for sex, is that right? (I can't say that from my OWN experience, because I'm so thinking-about-sx the last year or two, there's no explanation why. I mean, I'm 66 years old. Why NOW!!!)

Would be glad to hear other members' opinions regarding all of these points.

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