i wasnt really sure where to put this.
it was come to my attention,i need new friends,im not talking about the people i met on here..

my friend tried to hook me up with a pot head cuz she didnt wanna ruin the friendship with him i turned him down cuz he smokes pot

now shes dating him

she needs to make up her mind,i told her hes a pot head so i wont hang around him

god i need more new friends that have standards

good for u, southern..u dont need to hang with losers

lots of cool people out there..

good for you southern....you definatly don't need to hang with losers!!!! I've had encounters with some recently and walked away from it....any regrets, no way.....I just prefer not to be around losers!!!!!

southern i live with pot head a nd drunks in my building the only one who isnt is my g/f here good for you and i will be your freind .. high ^ fives sweetklp!!

I don't blame you, I would have done the same thing...just look at my profile LOL...I don't/won't have anything to do with anyone who participates in the smoking of illegal substance, or any illegal drugs of any kind. I refuse to be branded through association. Yanno the saying "Birds of a feather" "you reap what you sew" ?...no thanks..i'll pass

~*IndyB*~

You are judged by who you hang with,sad but true so tell your friend to call you when she is done in Loserville.

amen to that. you could be good as gold...but if you're around them, you'll be seen to be just as low.

keep urself above them
and u'll see how u start meeting other people with higher standards

southern...

Some people are just losers. The good thing is, you don't have to associate with them, you have US!!!!

shes just a bad person always claiming shes pregnant i tell her god loves her but she never hangs out with me but calls me when she has drama

i dont have time for other drama im trying to go to school and hold down a full time job!

*pulls hair out*

and ive been friends with her sence 01 freshman year of high school..

i mean ive been there for her everytime it feels like shes my kid and not my friend

Hey Southern. I can only say this: If you truly want to stay friends with her, you have to lay down the law. Just tell her flat out. You will not associate with her while she is doing all that mess. Tell her you still luv her and care about her, but as long as she continues this crazy behavior, you will not be around her. Now, she may take it Ok, or she may get an attitude and tell you off. You just have to stand your ground and be firm with her. You know, it's called "tough love". You have to use it on your friends as well as your kids. It works for everybody. I know your feelings are very hurt right now, but, it will all work out for the best. Ok??????? Hope I could help you.

im just more annoyed than anything,ive tried to guide her and help her out,but she contines to make bad choices

she always says how she dont wanna date but i guess herself esteem is valitated if shes got a man or not

Then my best advice to you hon, is cut her loose. Who needs friends like that ? if she's only gonna call you to vent, and divulge you with HER drama...you don't need her. Life is too short, live it, love it, have fun...without friends that bring you down.

yeah i know i need yo cut her loose

i just cant take her "me me me me drama"

this would make the second friend i had to cut outta my life in a month b.c of drama and them being immature

my best friend has a very rare disease called gastroparesis.

anywho, she spends half of her life in the hospital, and she has two internal pace-makers, one for her stomach, one for her kidneys. she's had her chest cracked so very many times...

she's dying, and i know that. my children have always loved her...i've known jen since i was maybe ten. over the past couple years, she's also started having seizures and black-outs. she's started using cocaine to numb the pain...nothing else much touches it.

*sighs* while i love her, i still cut off all ties with her and my kids. she screamed and raged...was very furious. she's been there since they were born, and how DARE i take her babies from her! but i won't have them see the person she's become, either.

well her step mom just messaged me and said she wont stop crying..tuff **** imma tell her when she stops hanging around losers and stops callin me with her drama then we can talk

aww lulu im sorry to hear that

i've tried everything i could. i went to her mother...who said she's straighten her out.

turned out, her mom was BUYING the coke FOR her.

omg thats just awful