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renee2511 Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 150	Thu 05/16/13 11:57 PM
everyone matured here so looking for matured answers.. what should be more important in life emotions or urself? should u give up everything just for love? is it wise? or love should be something parallel to the rest of things? i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life. so give up everything for love or not?

praviinp24 Joined Sat 03/16/13 Posts: 57	Fri 05/17/13 01:36 AM
Dear Renee,, there is so many love stories is remain same till the end of life.. but love is important part of life not a life.. there is so many thing we can do except love.. thanks..

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Fri 05/17/13 02:36 AM
everyone matured here so looking for matured answers.. what should be more important in life emotions or urself? should u give up everything just for love? is it wise? or love should be something parallel to the rest of things? i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life. so give up everything for love or not? Yourself all the way ..because that's logical! I dont make decisions through emotions I make decisions through logics and I see no logic In love!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 05/17/13 02:40 AM
everyone matured here so looking for matured answers.. what should be more important in life emotions or urself? should u give up everything just for love? is it wise? or love should be something parallel to the rest of things? i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life. so give up everything for love or not? To me emotions are not life, but an integral part of life. Giving up everything means different things to different people, could you elaborate/ Falling in love is never wise, but it is what we do. Love should be a part of something else, because life is more fun in love. Yes, those stories are out there about lifelong love, just getting harder to find in the 'give it to me now' generation.

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Fri 05/17/13 02:50 AM
everyone matured here so looking for matured answers.. what should be more important in life emotions or urself? should u give up everything just for love? is it wise? or love should be something parallel to the rest of things? i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life. so give up everything for love or not? if you consider Love to be Self-Sacrifice,by all means!

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 05/17/13 04:28 AM
I think there is a balance for everything, you can give up things, but not give up yourself, that is the most important thing to keep, the person who you are. If you need to move or sell things, its not really that big a deal. but if you have to give up who you are then thats not love. But saying that, everyone is different, we are all prepared to give up different things to make a realionship work, it's mainly about being realistic and compromising so that it works for both of you.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 05/17/13 04:47 AM
I think there is a balance for everything, you can give up things, but not give up yourself, that is the most important thing to keep, the person who you are. If you need to move or sell things, its not really that big a deal. but if you have to give up who you are then thats not love. But saying that, everyone is different, we are all prepared to give up different things to make a realionship work, it's mainly about being realistic and compromising so that it works for both of you. Josie has saved me more typing, and probably phrased my thougbts nicer too.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Fri 05/17/13 08:36 AM
i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life Ahem! Love and loyalty were the story of me and my late wife until the day that she died.

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Fri 05/17/13 09:08 AM
I think there is a balance for everything, you can give up things, but not give up yourself, that is the most important thing to keep, the person who you are. If you need to move or sell things, its not really that big a deal. but if you have to give up who you are then thats not love. But saying that, everyone is different, we are all prepared to give up different things to make a realionship work, it's mainly about being realistic and compromising so that it works for both of you. So very true.I'm with you on this one!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 05/17/13 03:16 PM
If you ain't living for love... What are you dying for?

Momoiro_Usagi_7 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 1450	Fri 05/17/13 05:59 PM Edited by Momoiro_Usagi_7 on Fri 05/17/13 06:00 PM
everyone matured here so looking for matured answers.. what should be more important in life emotions or urself? should u give up everything just for love? is it wise? or love should be something parallel to the rest of things? i dont think there are much lovestories which retains love and loyalty till the last day of life. so give up everything for love or not? Well, I'm that type of person I would give everything for lOve...that's the way I'm built! It's all or nothing. Wise yes I think so how else are you going to live ..it's either fear or LOVE! Parallel, Parallel, hmmm... Love burn and it consumes ...it gives you freedoms that aren't given by the restraints of rules or limitations. I give my last breathe for love!

renee2511 Joined Wed 05/15/13 Posts: 150	Sat 05/18/13 08:52 AM
thnx all of u.. nice to hear ur thoughts.. :)