ok its like this. girls who grew up without a father or somekind of father figure in their life, like to be controlled cause then they feel they are getting the love that they never got as a child. getting mistreated and talked down to to them, is better than having nothing at all.

i dated a guy who was a pathological liar. he'd say he was coming over, and never showed up. i'd go to bed in tears more often than not. it took me six months to realize that he was just a useless emotional leech. he apparently only wanted me for sex and when he didn't get it he just stopped talking to me for a long time. he tried to force himself on me but that wouldn't fly. also about a week before i dumped him i found some strong evidence that he wasn't as faithfull as he said.

apparently his "crazy ex" sent him a comment saying "i'm so glad we're back together" i looked at her page and there were pictures of my guy all over it. with things like "he's my baby's daddy" and "this is my man" and the like. the next day her comment vanished and all the pics on her profile were gone. i figured he was cheating on her with me because he couldn't get any since he knocked her up.

i didn't stay with him because i realized he was a depressed psycho and he was draining me emotionally.

~DCR