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Topic: Is being 100% honest is solution for all ..?
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Tue 07/02/13 01:10 AM
Look it adversely too.
Suggest me ..
% of honesty requires for being great,superb,excellent or average ?
Its may sound funny but a wizard to look within..!!!

josie68's photo
Tue 07/02/13 03:56 AM
I dont think that anyone can really be 100 percent honest all the time, there will always be times that you twist things a little so that you dont hurt peoles feelings.

Journeyman236's photo
Tue 07/02/13 05:01 AM
The all time top trick question from a woman
Is "Honey does my butt look big in this" Depending on the butt an honest answer could get you severely injured or killed, not to mention the amount of time sex would be withheld! The correct answer while still being honest is..."your butt looks great in whatever you have on"
:smile:

pkh's photo
Tue 07/02/13 05:37 AM

The all time top trick question from a woman
Is "Honey does my butt look big in this" Depending on the butt an honest answer could get you severely injured or killed, not to mention the amount of time sex would be withheld! The correct answer while still being honest is..."your butt looks great in whatever you have on"
:smile:
lol you are right that is the correct answer

msharmony's photo
Tue 07/02/13 07:52 AM
it is best not to lie

not sure what 100 percent honest is,,

for me there is deceptive or honwar

as long as one is not being deceptive,,they are honest,,,,

MindTraveling's photo
Tue 07/02/13 08:03 AM

it is best not to lie

not sure what 100 percent honest is,,

for me there is deceptive or honwar

as long as one is not being deceptive,,they are honest,,,,


I like this.

Honesty has hindered my progression in a big way. I feel like Jim Carrey in Liar Liar, I don't lie, although I wouldn't blurt out anything that could/would hurt someone's feelings. I would love to be able to bend the truth slightly.

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 07/02/13 08:06 AM
I agree with what others have already said, sometimes you need to be more tactful than honest.

TBRich's photo
Tue 07/02/13 08:08 AM
I once dated a woman who said all I needed to do was be honest with her, within 2 months she said- ok you don't have to be so honest any more. Go figure.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 07/02/13 09:22 AM
there will always be times that you twist things a little so that you dont hurt peoles feelings.


I might want to do that for a minor, but why should I do that for an adult who isn't somehow mentally ill or disabled?

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 07/02/13 09:23 AM

I agree with what others have already said, sometimes you need to be more tactful than honest.



Tactfulness and honesty aren't mutually exclusive.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/02/13 09:32 AM
I'm honest, hasn't worked out for me so far...But then again, would anything work out for a guy who carries around a box of matches?smokin

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Tue 07/02/13 09:49 AM
d Bible requires 100% honesty as a child of God bt d world expects u 2 b less honest so we dont hurt pples feelns.d choice is urs

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 07/03/13 04:28 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 07/03/13 05:15 AM


I agree with what others have already said, sometimes you need to be more tactful than honest.



Tactfulness and honesty aren't mutually exclusive.


To clarify, my meaning was that I believe you can be tactful without being dishonest, apologies for any confusion, an example.

Her Question. Does my backside look too big in these jeans?

His Honestt Answer. Yes.

His tactful answer. You look really nice in those jeans.

More tactful than honest, without being dishonest, because he believes she does look nice in those jeans even though her backside may look a bit big.

no photo
Wed 07/03/13 04:35 AM

Look it adversely too.
Suggest me ..
% of honesty requires for being great,superb,excellent or average ?
Its may sound funny but a wizard to look within..!!!


Is it right..?

0% honesty is required to be great..?
25% ----------------------- superb..?
40%------------------------ excellent..?
50%------------------------- average..?

Journeyman236's photo
Wed 07/03/13 04:47 AM


Look it adversely too.
Suggest me ..
% of honesty requires for being great,superb,excellent or average ?
Its may sound funny but a wizard to look within..!!!


Is it right..?

0% honesty is required to be great..?
25% ----------------------- superb..?
40%------------------------ excellent..?
50%------------------------- average..?


I would say based on that chart 0% honesty would
make you an A-hole!

Mustanggirl0788's photo
Wed 07/03/13 05:17 AM

I once dated a woman who said all I needed to do was be honest with her, within 2 months she said- ok you don't have to be so honest any more. Go figure.


Rather him be comfortable enough with himself to be straight up honest with me and run the risk of upsetting me. Maybe I need that little push because he can see something I already know and help me with the problem.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 07/03/13 05:18 AM



Look it adversely too.
Suggest me ..
% of honesty requires for being great,superb,excellent or average ?
Its may sound funny but a wizard to look within..!!!


Is it right..?

0% honesty is required to be great..?
25% ----------------------- superb..?
40%------------------------ excellent..?
50%------------------------- average..?


I would say based on that chart 0% honesty would
make you an A-hole!


Or a politician. :tongue:

willing2's photo
Wed 07/03/13 05:26 AM
After making yer claim be sure to always add, 'That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

DirtyRagnar's photo
Wed 07/03/13 05:02 PM
100% not a chance, man would destroy itself in a heartbeat. we are all from top to toe actors, the superficial intelligence conrol the mental dialogue that control all of our internal reflections. we are nothing more than a mirror, we are feeding information / refeletioner constant and when it gets silent, we eat up the information we received, everything is just one big web of lies. I call it mass hypnosis. but if we struggle to reach down to zero, we might see something that is true. :) Gl hf

dean1012's photo
Thu 07/04/13 12:57 PM
my honesty differs from people I care about and everyone else, I'm 100% brutally honest with those I care for and yes it gets me in trouble with some of them but there are a few who stay and return the favor, as a result we become far closer than we ever could have been otherwise.

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