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Topic: What turns you on?
odd_rod Joined Fri 07/05/13 Posts: 130	Fri 07/19/13 06:44 AM
I think people can have their own fantasies. When two people decide to get together and explore their common fantasies that is their own thing. If those things are out there on the edge of 'normal', just make sure you have a partner that has the control to back off when you have had enough. Sometimes things look like 'fun' from the outside, but once you are in the middle of something on the edge, you can fall either way. I don't think most people are built for living on the edge, but it is the province of youth to explore the boundaries. If you don't explore and see the dangers for yourself then there can always be a longing for what never happened. That can create problems later on. Just have a partner that cares for you and not the dangerous things. Tread carefully. There are many people that would take advantage of someone with dark desires.

lilredhollyhood Joined Thu 07/04/13 Posts: 223	Fri 07/19/13 03:09 PM
Normal is one of those words I don't believe in and it causes so many people a lot of problems because they aspire to be "normal". But what is normal? Normal is based on what one perceives in their life as being the average for their part of the world. Just like in Mexico or some where is South America it is "Normal" for guys to have sex with donkeys. While here in the US you are very much ridiculed for even saying you would want to have sex with a donkey. Normal for you might be getting beaten with a belt on a daily basis. While normal for your neighbor is is being touched in inappropriate ways. Normal for one of your friends might be shooting crack and cook Meth in the basement. So who are you to say that her desires aren't normal. If you did enough searching you may find that even women who have no tragedy for what ever reason just like to be dominated. If that is what she is truly into then there is nothing wrong with it. Preach it brother.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 07/19/13 03:26 PM Edited by FearandLoathing on Fri 07/19/13 03:26 PM
This escalated quickly...I'll just leave my mark.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 07/19/13 03:38 PM
A woman that fills a bikini well does wonders for my libido.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Fri 07/19/13 03:42 PM
Pyro girls are awesome. I like danger.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 07/19/13 04:26 PM
Lol what? What?

lilredhollyhood Joined Thu 07/04/13 Posts: 223	Fri 07/19/13 05:43 PM
I'm there now, it's not all that glamorous. That ^

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 07/19/13 05:50 PM
I'm there now, it's not all that glamorous. That ^ I was just kidding, please don't beat me. Unless you're into that, in which case I'll rephrase. Please don't beat me unconscious.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Fri 07/19/13 05:52 PM
Every little thing he does is magic

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 07/19/13 05:54 PM
everything she does just turns me on.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Fri 07/19/13 05:56 PM
everything she does just turns me on. Nods in approval

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45342	Fri 07/19/13 05:59 PM
Edited for not observing PG-13 guidelines and targeting other users rather than the topic. soufie Site Moderator

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 07/19/13 06:00 PM
<<<bows almost to the ground. clumsily falling flat on his face.

quest2013 Joined Fri 07/19/13 Posts: 19	Sat 07/20/13 06:25 PM
Intelligence (education doesn't equal intelligence), humor. Kissing.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sat 07/20/13 07:25 PM
I think that's alleged education. Since so many people cheat their way through school and out of an education. hahaha

odd_rod Joined Fri 07/05/13 Posts: 130	Sun 07/21/13 03:29 PM
A sense of humor that ranges from slapstick to British humor. Intelligence. A desire to explore.

lilredhollyhood Joined Thu 07/04/13 Posts: 223	Sun 07/21/13 04:16 PM
Him:

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sun 07/21/13 05:07 PM
Him: Guess I loose. I'll never be a paper towel. hahaha

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 07/21/13 05:37 PM Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Sun 07/21/13 05:39 PM
I'm there now, it's not all that glamorous. I understand. I don't blame you not letting those journalists in the room, while the dentist was working on your teeth.

izzyphoto1977 Joined Thu 06/06/13 Posts: 5016	Sun 07/21/13 08:59 PM
http://media.zenfs.com/en-US/blogs/movietalk/gillan-jpg_044153.jpg Yahoo is calling this a mistake. I want to know why. I think she looks pretty cute bald.