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Topic: Does a sexy Profile Picture attract more attention?
Goofball73's photo
Sat 08/03/13 08:01 PM
Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses. laugh

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Sat 08/03/13 08:16 PM

Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses. laugh


ummmmm.......



drool

Goofball73's photo
Sat 08/03/13 08:21 PM


Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses. laugh


ummmmm.......



drool


Oh hush! laugh

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Sat 08/03/13 08:55 PM


This is all good in theory.

Sexy is bad....men are shallow...love me for the person I am...guys only want me for my looks.....

Try the other end of the spectrum....

Post up the crappiest pix ya got....hair looking like crap...no make up....beer belly...Chili stained shirt...looking like ya just spent a hard weekend in the drunk tank at the county jail.

Really put that "love the inner me " to the test.....

Personally, I always spiffy up to hang out socially .....either here or in actual gatherings.

Looking like I am ashamed, a slob or I just don't give a damned has always gotten me ZERO attention.

Catching someones attention is pretty danged important if you ever want to meet them.



Bad hygiene, beer belly showing, stained shirt etc. just shows disrespect and a "I don't give a crap" attitude.

It should get you zero attention.

No Charles1962150, women don't "fall all over" these types. There is a difference between ruggedly handsome and a slob.




I kid you not, What I said was the absolute truth. The guy I spoke of above,Every time I see him his hair is sticking straight up and looks like it's got five pounds of dirt in it. Sometimes I wonder if he ever takes a bath.

And here is another one. This is the gods honest truth. It happened to me. I met a woman on POF. We talked for a good while. Everything seemed OK. I'll be honest. I'm over weight. I've got a gut on me. But, When I go out to meet someone I try my best to put my best foot forward. I'm clean,I shave and I wear clean clothes. Nothing fancy. Just nice.

I'm gonna make this story short and get to the good part. This is gonna be hard for some to believe,but it's the truth. This woman stopped dating me because I smelled to good every time we met. She told me straight to my face that she liked the smell of sweat on a man. It turned her on. I was floored. I never thought I would ever in this life time be told that by a woman. I don't want to date you anymore because you smell to good.

She told me that if I really liked her that I would have to stop using deodorant. She said that she could not get turned on with a man that smelled to good. I was really floored. This woman told me that the only way she could have sex with a man,He had to smell like a man that had worked all day in the sun. The stinker,The better.

I never saw her again after that. I couldn't help but think she was a few fries short of a happy meal. That's just something I'm not going to do. I'm not going to stink for anyone.

But, Lets say nothing is wrong with this woman between the ears. It's just her personal preference. That would mean that if there is one that way,There are others that are that way. Which would explain the good looking lawyer lady being attracted to the walking pile of dirt I see in town.

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 08/04/13 06:49 AM

Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses. laugh


Quit hacking into my dreams! grumble :laughing:

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 08/04/13 06:54 AM



This is all good in theory.

Sexy is bad....men are shallow...love me for the person I am...guys only want me for my looks.....

Try the other end of the spectrum....

Post up the crappiest pix ya got....hair looking like crap...no make up....beer belly...Chili stained shirt...looking like ya just spent a hard weekend in the drunk tank at the county jail.

Really put that "love the inner me " to the test.....

Personally, I always spiffy up to hang out socially .....either here or in actual gatherings.

Looking like I am ashamed, a slob or I just don't give a damned has always gotten me ZERO attention.

Catching someones attention is pretty danged important if you ever want to meet them.



Bad hygiene, beer belly showing, stained shirt etc. just shows disrespect and a "I don't give a crap" attitude.

It should get you zero attention.

No Charles1962150, women don't "fall all over" these types. There is a difference between ruggedly handsome and a slob.




I kid you not, What I said was the absolute truth. The guy I spoke of above,Every time I see him his hair is sticking straight up and looks like it's got five pounds of dirt in it. Sometimes I wonder if he ever takes a bath.

And here is another one. This is the gods honest truth. It happened to me. I met a woman on POF. We talked for a good while. Everything seemed OK. I'll be honest. I'm over weight. I've got a gut on me. But, When I go out to meet someone I try my best to put my best foot forward. I'm clean,I shave and I wear clean clothes. Nothing fancy. Just nice.

I'm gonna make this story short and get to the good part. This is gonna be hard for some to believe,but it's the truth. This woman stopped dating me because I smelled to good every time we met. She told me straight to my face that she liked the smell of sweat on a man. It turned her on. I was floored. I never thought I would ever in this life time be told that by a woman. I don't want to date you anymore because you smell to good.

She told me that if I really liked her that I would have to stop using deodorant. She said that she could not get turned on with a man that smelled to good. I was really floored. This woman told me that the only way she could have sex with a man,He had to smell like a man that had worked all day in the sun. The stinker,The better.

I never saw her again after that. I couldn't help but think she was a few fries short of a happy meal. That's just something I'm not going to do. I'm not going to stink for anyone.

But, Lets say nothing is wrong with this woman between the ears. It's just her personal preference. That would mean that if there is one that way,There are others that are that way. Which would explain the good looking lawyer lady being attracted to the walking pile of dirt I see in town.


I wonder where the conversation would have gone had you asked HER to give up soap for a week? sad :laughing:

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Sun 08/04/13 09:49 AM
Well then that just proves there is someone for everyone. Even smelly slobs.


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Sun 08/04/13 06:09 PM

Well then that just proves there is someone for everyone. Even smelly slobs.




There are millions of people out there. One likes this,another one likes that. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Some I guess are OK,While others,strange to say the least. It takes all kinds of different people to make the world spin. I guess?

sparkyae5's photo
Tue 08/06/13 08:22 AM
i guess your normal female. men are very very visual, both sides typecast others with in min of seeing each other . it never hurts to be good to yourself and take care of yourself hint. we only go forth in our awareness. work on the inside and the outside will take care of its self. the inside is where you will find what you want. ....being conscious, with self awareness.... good luck

whattheheywastaken's photo
Fri 08/09/13 06:57 AM
How's this?

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:16 AM
I have a friend that thinks now that he is divorced he has to go to the gym and look like Hugh Jackman to be attractive.I personally do not like a six pack. I would rather have a small gut (not beer belly) on a man. I think it looks more natural. Each to their own. We are like snowflakes, no two are the same

1just9curious73's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:33 PM
Everyone's idea of sexy is different. We should allat least try to put a good impression the first meet. I think we are all visual creatures..hence why we skim through some photos and stop at others. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!

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Fri 08/09/13 08:41 PM

Everyone's idea of sexy is different. We should allat least try to put a good impression the first meet. I think we are all visual creatures..hence why we skim through some photos and stop at others. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!



Yep.. it is.


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Fri 08/09/13 08:42 PM

I have a friend that thinks now that he is divorced he has to go to the gym and look like Hugh Jackman to be attractive.I personally do not like a six pack. I would rather have a small gut (not beer belly) on a man. I think it looks more natural. Each to their own. We are like snowflakes, no two are the same



My X had a six pack..... of beer.bigsmile

1j9b6c5's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:49 PM
I'm sporting a keg these days.

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Fri 08/09/13 09:30 PM


Everyone's idea of sexy is different. We should allat least try to put a good impression the first meet. I think we are all visual creatures..hence why we skim through some photos and stop at others. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!



Yep.. it is.




That's one ugly eye beholder.

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Fri 08/09/13 09:46 PM

I have a friend that thinks now that he is divorced he has to go to the gym and look like Hugh Jackman to be attractive.I personally do not like a six pack. I would rather have a small gut (not beer belly) on a man. I think it looks more natural. Each to their own. We are like snowflakes, no two are the same


I like your way of thinking. I've got a friend that's the same way. Except he is a little ridiculous sometimes. He likes Levi Jeans. He will not buy his jeans from Wal-Mart. They have to come from JC Penny. I've told him several times that Levi's are Levi's no matter which store you buy them from. Except the fact that between the two stores,JC Penny is a little higher. He thinks that because he pays more for his Levi's at JC Penny,They are better.

He thinks he has to go to the gym 4 times a week to keep in shape so the women will notice him. It gripes him to his very soul because women will talk to me and treat him like he isn't even there. A lady told me one time that she didn't mind if a man wanted to keep in shape because "he wanted to for himself" It he was doing it just because he thought it made him more desirable to women, That was a turn off.

Because in her way of thinking he wasn't being "real". He wasn't being true to himself.
I've tried to tell my friend that. He doesn't listen. To this day he still refuses to see that it's his fault that he stays home a lot of weekends alone. OR, He either winds up with some bimbo that is even more shallow than him.

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