Topic: Inferiority Complex?
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Mon 07/22/13 05:45 PM

Only always. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she said that, among other personal issues she had to work out, she didn't feel like she was good enough for me, despite my protests to the contrary. I believed her, but part of me still believes she may have been trying to be nice to me knowing how fragile I am and was trying to avoid hurting me any more than she already knew she was.



You probably were too good for her and she has probably been looking for a real bad boy who could give her a mind blowing orgasm.



tongue2

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Mon 07/22/13 05:48 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 07/22/13 05:48 PM

Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?



(Only when I was listening to and believing my verbally abusive X husband.)

Perhaps your feelings stem from a bad experience when you were very young. (Remember.... the past does not actually exist.) Tomorrow is a new day and you are awesome and powerful.


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Mon 07/22/13 05:50 PM

No, its usually the other way around, next Question!

I've had girlfriends say that, they were victims

but it sure doesn't make me feel good, especially

if they say they don't even want to be alive

its like, I'm glad I make you happy! frustrated



Wow. You need to look for less depressed women.




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Mon 07/22/13 05:51 PM

it's more like not feeling good enough for some of the women i like... but never "no good"...


Occasionally this. ^^^

If I'm really into a great guy, I can blow them up in my mind as probably being out of my league. I don't worry about it though, cause it just feels that much better if it turns out they actually like me. :laughing:

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Mon 07/22/13 06:09 PM
i m very confident nd i hv never felt inferior anyday

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Mon 07/22/13 07:29 PM

I suppose that you humans might feel inferior when you compare yourselves to the sheer awesomeness of us Melmacian. bigsmile

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Mon 07/22/13 07:50 PM

it's more like not feeling good enough for some of the women i like... but never "no good"...


huh?...that's nuts Moe...ur a sweetyflowerforyou

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Mon 07/22/13 07:52 PM

Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?


no

I am aware of my own self worth and humility and that balance. if others around me feel I am no good I would expect it is more a reflection of how they feel about themselves

everbody is good and worthy of respect and dignity

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Mon 07/22/13 07:54 PM

Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?


Its usually the opposite. Lots of negativity in people.

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Mon 07/22/13 08:02 PM


Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?


Its usually the opposite. Lots of negativity in people.



this really can be true - it's infectious in a group. at my job right now we are doing exercizes almost everyday to learn to eliminate it. I say just whack it outta 'emgrumble

but my boss is a little more conservative... lollaugh

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Mon 07/22/13 09:17 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Mon 07/22/13 09:30 PM

No, its usually the other way around, next Question!

I've had girlfriends say that, they were victims

but it sure doesn't make me feel good, especially

if they say they don't even want to be alive

its like, I'm glad I make you happy! frustrated


pony own quote

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Mon 07/22/13 09:18 PM
Edited by ridewytepony on Mon 07/22/13 09:42 PM

l have good self-esteem flowerforyou


here's one for "the wost pick up lines"

were conducting an exexperiment, spend a year with me and see if you still

want to be alive. its for science and there's a bit of a sign on bonus:wink:

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Mon 07/22/13 09:31 PM

Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?


Yes. I'm a weird mix of super confident in some areas and then hoplessly insecure in others; comfortable in my skin, but also a perfectionist.

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Mon 07/22/13 09:51 PM


No, its usually the other way around, next Question!

I've had girlfriends say that, they were victims

but it sure doesn't make me feel good, especially

if they say they don't even want to be alive

its like, I'm glad I make you happy! frustrated



Wow. You need to look for less depressed women.






no kidding, I get away from that now, I'm depressed a little, just from reading it, it sounds terrible. ohwell

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Tue 07/23/13 06:19 AM


Did you ever feel that you are no good even if the people around you think that you are?


Yes. I'm a weird mix of super confident in some areas and then hoplessly insecure in others; comfortable in my skin, but also a perfectionist.


thst sounds pretty normal to me. I think we all have insecurities but I still dont ever feel that I am "no good"

there times when it is more appropriate to feel a little insecure...it shows a good grip on reality in certain situations...imo

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Tue 07/23/13 06:32 AM
I mainly only tend to feel like that, whenever I go to use the toilet. I've always had a fear of toilet's. I know why. Sometimes we just get traumatized by something that happened to us.

I feel that again right now, but this time it's because I've just seen a weird lump on the side of my face. It makes me look like I have a pouch in my cheek like a hamster. So I'm hiding it with my long hair. Jesus. laugh.

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Tue 07/23/13 10:03 AM


Only always. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she said that, among other personal issues she had to work out, she didn't feel like she was good enough for me, despite my protests to the contrary. I believed her, but part of me still believes she may have been trying to be nice to me knowing how fragile I am and was trying to avoid hurting me any more than she already knew she was.



You probably were too good for her and she has probably been looking for a real bad boy who could give her a mind blowing orgasm.



tongue2

She had only ever been with ******** because she knew how to deal with them and what was expected of both parties. I was the first nice guy she had ever been with, and she didn't quite know how to handle being treated with respect at first.
That being said, every orgasm I gave her was mind blowing. You don't just dump a guy and look for a better lay when he literally makes you pass out unconscious half the time or lose the ability to stand and properly enunciate for ten minutes.

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Tue 07/23/13 10:52 AM



Only always. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she said that, among other personal issues she had to work out, she didn't feel like she was good enough for me, despite my protests to the contrary. I believed her, but part of me still believes she may have been trying to be nice to me knowing how fragile I am and was trying to avoid hurting me any more than she already knew she was.



You probably were too good for her and she has probably been looking for a real bad boy who could give her a mind blowing orgasm.



tongue2

She had only ever been with ******** because she knew how to deal with them and what was expected of both parties. I was the first nice guy she had ever been with, and she didn't quite know how to handle being treated with respect at first.
That being said, every orgasm I gave her was mind blowing. You don't just dump a guy and look for a better lay when he literally makes you pass out unconscious half the time or lose the ability to stand and properly enunciate for ten minutes.



Good for you ((Keith)) waita knock em out of the park!:smile:
unfortunately a woman's love is not measured though the abilitie a man makes her
eyeballs rolls in the back of her head, its just false hype (confidence) on our part.
I've learnt just because she gets it good at home, it still dosent mean anything.
it really just sets you up for a bigger fall.

the girlfriend sounds identical to my last girlfriend, right down to the Orgasms,
laying there in a ten minute trance like state, it was kinda cool, the best part was I
never got smothered directly afterwards, guys gota drop some body temperature
ASAP :wink: I certainty wouldn't contest that story.
(watching that is even more satisfying that you own orgasm)
I know its hard on the c*ck confidence, but we have to learn not to take it personally
as ones like that are just not avalible emotionally.
peace》《 out
pony

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Tue 07/23/13 11:29 AM
I also feel inferior of braggers. You know the type. "I slept with 500 women", and "I give good head!". It just doesn't give me a good feeling. Sounds like they're exaggerating. laugh. Maybe the 500 women he slept with, were the people on his Facebook friend list. laugh

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Tue 07/23/13 12:38 PM
Not at all, NEVER lose faith in who YOU are...that'll be the most amazing thing to the person that comes along for you :)