Every boy n girl has right to choose their loving and carying frend....so it is natural thing nything special.

tia i think this is not a great place to get advise or opinion. you better consult a relationship counselor as they can give u professional advise. generally relationships and love are over rated its better to improve our own life in a way that we dont need to depend on someones love to feel good or happy.

Is divorce the way of solution

and if you have baby then think deeply that if you go extramarital affair then simply not only you also your baby will suffer. and out of marriage you can get only sex. and sex is not love. sex is lust and lust and lust. that's why government suggest that just after marriage we should not plan for baby.first understand each other and spend atleast 5 years. now c if you want to think about your baby than simply ask questions to yourself , that do you love your baby? if yes then ask what you want baby or your new life? if new life then ask will you keep baby alongwith you or leave it to its dady? if you want to start new life and relationship then it better you left it for its dady. and openly talk on this matter alongwith your and your husband's family. and just simply give up and openly talk to your parents and your husband's parents. cuze this relation is not going any where. either you or your baby will suffer in this.
simply open your problem alongwith your husband, tell him what you want and what not.tell him why you got married to him. marriage is not sex.and if he doesn't listen then tell your parents openly and tell them you cant live in this situation and rise your problems and questions openly.and give up as soon as possible nai to der ho jaygi samji.
it is out of understanding why people keep extramarital affairs. you know what not I did for my girl.??? even I purchased a gold ring from my scholarship and pocket money for her , but what I got? simply she betrayed me and I got her red handed behind my back having sex and relation with other boy. and in all that it was I who suffered.you can emegin what goes on heart when a person, whom you love and like most and whom you trust more than anyone else, and when he/she betrayed you then what happens. would you like to know what she replied to me when I caught her red handed? she said she had pity on others and situation made her to do so. mujsey puch ke dekho mere qa haal hua tha g kar raha tha ki usko ___________end. aur please me suggest karuga ki agar sadi se khus nai ho to divorce le lo.par kabi dhoka mat do. pati/patni ak dusrey par trust kartey he.wesey to ajkal na to pati dhang ka reh gaya he aur na patni. sabko sex chaia bus. meney us ladki ko dil se pyar kiya tha. jo merey pas ni tha wo b usko diya. acha hua usney dhoka diya. ab kam se kam koi dusri ladki to mileygi jo mujey us se jada pyar kareygi.wo mere layak he ni thi. please dhoka mat do apney pati ko.saf saf bol do ki tum qa chati ho. sex,pyar,care,saath, jo b chaia apney pati ko bolo. agar ni suntan to simply divorce lo. aur sadi karlo dusri. baby ka qa karna he wo tum socho. it will be better that you give it to its dady and move on with your life.and also it will be better for you and your baby.

Cheer up...i think both of us are in the same boat. im a 37 yr old man having the similar problem. In my case my wife neither stays with me nor does she want to give divorce. She keeps the kids away too. My life is just work n lonliness, in this situation how can it be wrong if you have someone close to you ,to whom you can talk to and share things.