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Mon 02/02/15 08:11 AM


well i personally do believe that loveing someone dosent mean just haveing sex...its something more emotional,soothing n spiritual feeling....ithas to be nurtured with care n selflessness...its a heavenly feeling...whyare v just polluting the word LOVE...just for your insane activies... just to drive someone to your bed...please stop this ****...else the day will come when a mom says i love you son...n son will ponder is she asking me to have her...???plz stop haveing sex randomly...keep it for only the one you belong to..??lets join our hands to make dis world a better place..??


Well said..

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Mon 02/02/15 07:55 AM
Thr r so many boundations.. wish.. one cud understand..

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Tue 01/20/15 09:01 AM
All have different sorts of opinions

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Tue 01/20/15 08:50 AM
Divorce is not so easy..especially for the women..

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Wed 11/26/14 07:48 PM

It depends n yes it may be possible.. Infact it is. And how do you define INTIMACY?


Tatz a good point..

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Wed 11/26/14 07:45 PM

Agree with u tia

Thankyou

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Wed 11/26/14 07:43 PM

The sufferer alone knows where the shoe pinches. It's not right for others to say it is not right! In fact, extramarital affairs are increasing because many find a loveless marital life unbearable and society insensitively insists you bear with it! No one expects to live in an earthly heaven, but at least one wants to live outside of a suffocating hell.

Absolutely true.. only the sufferer knows.. wat z the feel...

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Wed 11/12/14 10:04 AM
hi all..

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Mon 11/10/14 01:41 AM


I would like to add my story too

I loved a girl when I was in 9th class and she was in 8th.... I proposed her after 1 year and she said no....

But I was not able to get away from her. I had done many mad things 4 her.. Even u can't imagine a guy can do this much... Let it be... I again proposed here in my 11th class and she said yes.... She was scared as I m Sikh and she is rajput...

Then I went to pune for engineering and she was doing graduation from hometown... 3 years went very good and sweet... I even once tore my arm for her and remained in hospital for 3 days because just she said can u do this for me.... That's how much I loved her...

But in my fourth year of engineering... Suddenly she started behaving differently... I thought it may be due to family tension.... But when I got there finally after my engineering, I was told by my friend that she is dating someone else...

That's was like my death foe me... Seriously... Why she was continuing relationship with me when she is dating someone.... I asked her and what she replied... You wouldn't believe it....

She said she loves me a lot but she needs some spice in life... I never done sex and all with her... Ya so. Even touching and hugging.. That's it... She was expecting more than this... I never thought she would cheat me for intimacy only.... That day I left her....

Still she calls me once in a month... But I never receive her call.... I still love her like a mad.. But I cannot trust her anymore.... And I will not love any girl again in my life ever....

This is all my life story.... Sad one


Get a new gal who is more stable emotionally. Ex's like ur's and mine's seem to be suffering from bi-polar effect....Goodluck mate!

Good suggestion..

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Mon 11/10/14 01:37 AM
Edited by tia26 on Mon 11/10/14 01:39 AM



Thatz not every one can do..

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Sun 11/02/14 08:57 AM
Thankyou..

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Sun 11/02/14 08:54 AM
Tatz nice.. that you have kept her feelings for priority.. But at the same time, look at yourself..you are dying for that thing.. but just because you can't hurt her.. you have kept a control.. Hope..u don't change your mind.. because frustration or couple of shots of vodka.. if mixed.. will stop your control and u can wonder wat can happen..

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Thu 10/30/14 04:14 AM


It all depends on one thoughts.. what one thinks...

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Sun 10/26/14 05:04 AM
Adding a new subtopic for the blog.. People who find comfort for themselves in the extramarital affair prefer people who are in same situiation or in the company of those who can give time to them.. If the person you are finding comfort in is married? Aren't you keeping that one distant from his family and making another person cheat with their family members?

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Sun 10/26/14 05:02 AM

I believe....that mentally people must bond...develop their connection..once that develops and grows....physical intimacy automatically follows and becomes more enjoyable


People have recently different choices..opinions.. some give priority to something else.. no doubt.. the best way is to become friends first.. understand each other..thn take a step further... but its very rare..both of the partners think the same..

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Sun 10/26/14 04:58 AM

@ Tia It's easy to say but hard to digest...

Now I will love that girl to whom... my parents will say to marry ...will give 100% to my wife... But sorry I can't make a girlfriend again...




That is wonderful..if you have a thought of loving your would be wife completely.. and the best part is.. you will save it all for her.. No one is perfect but make sure.. wat you experience in past.. don't take it out on your future.. and never compare.. neither the person nor the circumstances.. All the best..

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Sat 10/25/14 07:57 AM

I would like to add my story too

I loved a girl when I was in 9th class and she was in 8th.... I proposed her after 1 year and she said no....

But I was not able to get away from her. I had done many mad things 4 her.. Even u can't imagine a guy can do this much... Let it be... I again proposed here in my 11th class and she said yes.... She was scared as I m Sikh and she is rajput...

Then I went to pune for engineering and she was doing graduation from hometown... 3 years went very good and sweet... I even once tore my arm for her and remained in hospital for 3 days because just she said can u do this for me.... That's how much I loved her...

But in my fourth year of engineering... Suddenly she started behaving differently... I thought it may be due to family tension.... But when I got there finally after my engineering, I was told by my friend that she is dating someone else...

That's was like my death foe me... Seriously... Why she was continuing relationship with me when she is dating someone.... I asked her and what she replied... You wouldn't believe it....

She said she loves me a lot but she needs some spice in life... I never done sex and all with her... Ya so. Even touching and hugging.. That's it... She was expecting more than this... I never thought she would cheat me for intimacy only.... That day I left her....

Still she calls me once in a month... But I never receive her call.... I still love her like a mad.. But I cannot trust her anymore.... And I will not love any girl again in my life ever....

This is all my life story.... Sad one




Hi Singh.. Its heartbreaking to read your story.. At times.. you are surprised by the demands of your loved ones.. You try to treat them with respect but instead they understand you simple and uninteresting.. And after all this happens.. Surely.. ur heart seals itself.. But, life is about moving on.. One good thing is..you..yourself.. You respected her.. You were right at your place.. Not today, may be tommorow.. or may be now.. she would miss you.. That time can never come back.. but watz use of taking old stones out.. let it go.. let love enter your life.. Watever happens..happens for good.. The good thing is..you got to deal with the truth at time.. Wish you happiness and love.. Don't close your heart doors.. smile.. Who knows.. some one completes their day looking for it...

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Sat 10/25/14 07:52 AM

Surely it is possible. If you respect the partner, and his/her need and always prior their need in your relation then there is no need of intimacy. Love is not the emotion from body, it occurs from heart.

When 2 hearts get intimated its called love, and when 2 bodies get intimated without any respect of other its called GREED.


Good one.. :smile:

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Sat 10/25/14 07:50 AM

love is a magical bond which cant be expressed in words. its eternal and always there in everyone in some form.

It is really magical.. :heart:

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Mon 10/20/14 05:01 AM

How does one define love? Its a feeling of belongingness..
Intimacy is one of the ways to showcase d belongingness..
So.. Doesnt mean.. Both go hand in hand.. Ever heard of unrequitted love? Or blind love? We can safely say DAT.. One z d cause n d latter z d effect.. Or vice versa as d sitauation arises..
Both while it is important... It z not indispensible


Quite true.. its just that there are some people.. who pretend to be in love but actually want something else..

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