I acknowledge your views. Though I accept your views about insecurity yet I believe there is no insecurity between two true friends. They just selflessly share feelings and pains of each other and suggest ways. Both spend true and quality time with each other. Both understand each other concerns, and sorrows and joys. Its gud to see tht constant writings display true ideas.

One must not feel insecure with true friends as true friends understand everything and supports each other with their true and valued suggestions. Trust and sense of comforts brings them closer and put aside insecurity. There is only need to understanding between them.

We need to look at our life from a very positive outlook though we know that it is full of negative feelings because your other half does not support to you. One must take the life as it comes with true and right spirit. One has all rights to do what feels happy to his or her heart. Here the issue of Quality Friend comes, and quality friends are really rare these days. Looking for that kind of friend but so far no success. Waiting someone knocks my door one day. But keeping smile on my face with the spirit of respect, care, quality time and trust for that quality friend.

Agreed almost everyone changes. But as we have different shapes of fingers in our hands everyone is different. Try to trust and find out whether the other one is compatible. Majority of ppl change now and then but true ppl never change. I know I am going through the same patch as you been through but I am very positive. But this small and beautiful life has taught a lesson to weigh every pros and cons and observe ppl and then see who fulfills on your scale. Unfortunately, no one so far. Even then, taking life with all positive spirits when new sun born from the east with the smile on its face. One never forget smiling because it costs nothing.

Without hurting anyone's sentiments, I would like to communicate that one need to try and trust a friend. He or she might not change. One is ALWAYS looking for a true and long lasting friend with whom he or she could share every single feeling: good or bad, and give or take true advise. Distance never matters.

This is our unfortunacy that despite our best efforts to appease him or her, he or she never pays attention and have no quality time for us. This kinda attitude sucks but have no option but to live with him or her until you find a true and nice long lasting friend with whom you can share all your feelings and experiences. One would always adore a person who could be on your side to share all feelings. A man MUST provide real care, quality time, listen to other person and share all joys and sorrows. This brings lots of happiness in life otherwise life is just a journey that only one is driving but the other one is enjoying his or her life.

i do not say that one must not follow one's intuition. One should do but at the same time one must follow his or her heart with very careful selection. Every man and woman can find his or her mate but its very rare to see that they have always a quality time to spend with his or her. A man MUST find QUALITY time to spend with his friend, girl friend or wife. But its a sad fact that we find they do not have for us.

N tlkin abt respct..dn trust me..i do rspct u..4 discussin so brvly n n boldly out here abt ur lyf..othrwse der r alot f wmens who evn dusn't hv courge 2 raise der voice..bt d opn mentality vch u hd shown up here..z jz guttsy..n dun evr feel bd abt ur decison if ur gonna b in marital affair..coz u lso hd d equl ryt 2 b hppy s a men do...i appologise 2 u frm d bottm f ma heart if m mkin ny wrng verdict-- bt i felt dz dt if ur man duzn't feel ur silnce dn i dun think u hv 2 wait 4 his listening...u posses eql ryt 2 a man in d society..grab it,,hv it,,n do it..dts all wanna say u..n plz let me 9 if i evr evr cud console u in ur alone n nt so well tym..m lwys der 4 u tia..dts ma wrds 2 u..n m a man f ma wrds..so feel urselv free 2 contct me nytym on ma gmail r fcbuk..

Correct. Trust, time, care, respect are very rare these days. Initially all shows this but with the passage of time people begin to show their real skins. Its sad.

N i 9 dt broken mirror lwys hs a line..bt its lso acceptble..dt being a mirror brokn in our's lyf doesn't mean dt v shud nt face off 2 d new 1...
Lyf z all abt 2 learn frm ur past n move on 2 mke ur presnt bttr by doz..so u lso hv 2 move on baby..dts lyf...God blesses u !!

Big metros also have similar natured people who have no empathy and are too busy in their work to share time with friends or loved ones. None have courtesy, respect, care and affection to share. Everyone is busy in this fast-running life. It is difficult to trust people in this fast lane of life. Broken mirror always has a line.

Hey tia..read u 4 1st tym here..n lready feelin ur lonelinss in ma heart...u hv askd 2 jstify y one shud hv extramaritl affair...m nt gving ma intellignce verdict...bt m tryin 2 draw inferencs frm ur situatn nly...d thing dt brings u here z ur dstrbd mrried lyf..n wtevr ppl sy..abt dz..whthr gd r bd..bt d bottm lyn z dz..dt u urselv 9 d lvl f ur mrrige lyf..its cmplictd enugh 2 wrk 4 u agn..i wud say jz go 4 it wt ur hvin in ur mind..hv urselv in ur dreams...wt d sense 2 put a burdn f luggag full f emptinss f sm1 else who'z nt evn feelin ur lonelinss...n aftr n abv all..abt ur kids..i jz wanna ask u a qustn...if u urselv nt hppy hw cud u provide or delivr hppinss 2 sm1 else...so to mke ur kids hppy u 1 st hv 2 mde urself d sme ...so dun hv ny 2nd thought n go 4 d 2nd optn...n beliv me its d ryt dcision if u choose it wisely...

tia r u thr???? could i say u the wright soln

To find true and caring people is a rare commodity these days but one must always be positive and thinking right.

This life is too short but its full of beauties. One must not restrict him or her from enjoying the beauties of this nature. Besides, one must care the person to the most and make him or her feel good. If no one cares or rude to you then it is crystal that he or she is far away from you.

Tia the Problem of life is when people start judging you. No one can ever understand the way one feels and the way their circumstances are. Whats wrong or right is ones own perspective and everyone has a right to his/her beleif.

I liked the way you started this community and brought it us from a small town like Karnal. Ihings must be tougher in small towns compare to Delhi, Mumbai etc where nobody knows nobody.

never a good idea....always ends up hurting ppl.
it may seem a convenient and natural thing to do....but its always more complicated thn it appears on th surface.
End the marriage first...be emotionally,physically,socially and legally available to your partner.

Just trust your instincts on decision making and keep going chill