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Sat 10/18/14 09:28 PM

yes, i have loved my sister in law and she knows that and she also have feelings for me but dont want me to marry her as it can put down my reputation if anyone comes to know about us. she is living worthless life of pain, cheating, depression and of no self respect frm her in laws. i love her and she wants me to marry someone else and always try to be happy. Affair is from past 17months but i have never touched her. I just wanted her to be mine as i cant see her suffering so much


Thatz quite a example of true love.. But..she loves you this much, that she doesn't want anything to come on your reputation.. If you can take a stand.. and come in front of society with your love.. She can be saved from the suffering.. now..it depends on you..how strong you are.. as well as.. how strong she is to accept the fact.. Because here its not only reputation, its question of her reputation as well.. Indian society is such..that people blame a girl for breaking of home or for a new extramarital affair.. so.. she is afraid as well.. Good Luck..!!!

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Sat 10/18/14 09:21 PM

tia i can say i am in extra maritial affair/ i was in extra maritial affair. I couldnt see her in depression, tention :( . she was all alone but when she stopped bothering about me or her own self i am in depression as i cant let her go to that guy who dont even respect her. im completely in love with her and after she came to know she asked me to marry someone else and always be happy in life by saying that if have ever loved her, ill do as she said.and though my cousin cheated her and confessed to me and her she want to be with him and dont want me to be with her as it'll put down my reputation in family and society. but i confessed her, i have loved her and always will and tia i didnt touched her as it was pure love for her from my side


Wow.. thats something.. She loves you deeply.. For your well being.. she said that.. But if you are ready to take a stand for her.. thatz even more wonderful.. Hope she understands your point..

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Thu 10/16/14 08:04 AM

Well it is not a good idea to have extra marital affair... Be truthful to who you are with and if nothing is working out then come out of it... Just because you are married to him doesn't mean that you don't deserve to be loved... Take a stand and go for it.... Don't complicate your and others lives... All the best :blush:


You are saying 2 things at same point... Either you can be truthful or if you want to come out of it.. you would like some one to take care of you.. only one can happen at a time..

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Thu 10/16/14 07:58 AM

u hav intimacy wid ur spouse or gf bf only and the bond by which u r connected wid everyone is lov so obviously it's possible. .take ex of ur frnd family


The blog is not about being intimate.. its about.. true love.. love without intimacy..

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Sun 10/12/14 03:35 AM

I guess extra martial affair is the only way when you are stressed out to relieve yourself out of pain.


What if you feel guilty conscious??

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Sun 10/12/14 03:35 AM

If the partner keep quiet, then something wrong happened. Then first solve the problem. Then only we have to talk. If the partner again keep on the same, leave him/her. We cant do anything. Open talk is the only one way to solve all problems.


It is not easy to leave someone.. specially when you are married.. no matter how big problems are.. you have to think of the other members of family and the biggest thing which makes life hell 'the society'.

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Fri 10/10/14 11:26 PM

Y all men and women lies each other and doubt on their life partner. The mentality of men and women is changing each day. Where the world going on? All are thinking, will my life partner should good. But nobody won't think, what my life partner wants. Open sharing and open talk is the better way to make it good. I like to live with my girl as my good friend. I think the friendship in life won't create a huge problem..may be will, but i am sure there will be a solution for that after an open talk. This is what i am looking for...


What if your partner is not ready to talk? What if you partner just does not shares with you anything? What if you keep talking in front of your partner and he/she keeps sitting silent and in the last would say.. anything else?

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Fri 10/10/14 06:19 AM

well, i will have to say yes here....i know a couple who has met only once during there 2 year relationship.So yes, love is possible without being physical;)





That is Sweet..

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Fri 10/10/14 06:18 AM

a very debatable question.... many variables are there.... balancing needs regards age maturity and much more to of it being cared .... it can always happens step by step you cannot reach the top floor of a building without crossing all floors depending on by stairs or by lift ...


Good one..

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Thu 10/09/14 06:04 AM
That if every guy keeps in mind.. the God would stop creating heaven in separate..

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Wed 10/08/14 11:17 AM

No body will solve your problem expect the the one above sooooo high......

Trust in him girl.


Thanx...

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Wed 10/08/14 11:16 AM

Nice job Tia..
:smile:

Thanx

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Wed 10/08/14 11:15 AM
Edited by tia26 on Wed 10/08/14 11:15 AM

travel and think
not of despair
but wht is around u.
INDEPENDENT,
only gud shall come.



Wonderful..

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Wed 10/08/14 11:14 AM
Thatz a wonderful thought.. very few.. exceptions are seen.. and i would say..such kind of species are on extent of extinction..

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Fri 10/03/14 02:04 AM
Thanx..

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Sat 09/27/14 09:23 AM
Hi guys.. continuing with the same topic.. it is strange.. but it is true.. We know that your partner doesn't love you.. but still you keep trying.. everytime.. thinking.. this is the last try.. may be he / she will reciprocate... but alas.. you end getting hurt with yourself.. crying in a corner.. finding yourself alone.. Why it is so difficult to make the heart understand.. u cannot demand love.. it happens by itself..

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Thu 09/25/14 01:45 AM
True..

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Mon 09/22/14 12:12 PM

Tia,

I can understand your pain, I also married 6 year ago and blessed with a daughter, actually after my baby birth in excitement of love I shared with my wife that at the time of marriage I was actually not like her and was not ready for marriage but due to family pressure I said yes.

And after that day she started this as fight issue and my life become hell, I told her and try to get her conveniences that it was just an thing which I was looking forward to share and I am happy with her but she never turns up to me, and since 2 year we have an complicated relationship.

And since a year I am looking forwarding to have an secret extra marital affair with an mature lady (age no bar) in Delhi NCR.

Please share your views and if any one interested please buzz me.


Hi

Its so disheartening to hear all this.. for one thing.. some one creates an issue.. and is not ready to understand the other partner.. In arranged marriage.. it is completely true.. more than 80% of people say yes because of family pressure.. At times you get to know your partner after so many years.. And one more thing true about this kind of marriage is.. you are lucky.. if you find a friend in your partner otherwise.. you think four times before sharing anything with him/her.. and by chance if you share your thoughts.. they become a new issue for fight.. One thinks to remain silent or tries to find happiness outside.. Either you can try to talk with them.. or if it doesn't sort out things..you accept it that this will never change.. you have to live with it..and you need to find your happiness within.. or out somewhere..

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Sat 09/20/14 02:54 AM

Love is what we need. As a male or female, love is what makes us happy and help us smile always. Do whatever that makes u happy. And consequences are just some negative aspects which will always try to stop u from being happy. Try to avoid them.


Good one...

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Wed 09/10/14 09:45 AM

@Tia26

Really awesome u really are mature in ur way of thoughtlove


Thankyou...:smile: