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Topic: Sex without commitment
diegobata Joined Sun 10/27/13 Posts: 1	Sun 10/27/13 10:01 AM
People looking for casual sex

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sun 10/27/13 10:13 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!!

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sun 10/27/13 10:20 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Listen to Missy and you might learn something? You don't want yer dobber to turn into a magic mushroom, do you? Neither do I ! Wear a hat and I don't mean a Baseball cap!!

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 10/27/13 11:44 AM
Is this a statement or a question? People looking for casual sex....what about them? Are they supposed to contact you for a hot steamy session on the beach?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 10/27/13 11:45 AM
How about sex with commitment???

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Sun 10/27/13 11:56 AM
Is this a statement or a question? People looking for casual sex....what about them? Are they supposed to contact you for a hot steamy session on the beach? Could you please skip details like that ... More than I can handle

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sun 10/27/13 11:57 AM
Sorry, Crystal.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Sun 10/27/13 12:19 PM
Sorry, Crystal.

pitbull36 Joined Sun 10/27/13 Posts: 7	Sun 10/27/13 12:34 PM
Ah yes, nothing like straight people talking bout sex n commitments n no commitments, lol how come you all make it so difficult? Lol sex is sex! Making love is completely different! N nasty STD's lol, well serves anyone right if they think any human is trust worthy. Man, you all in here make me laugh. Lmbo....thanks I needed the laugh.

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Tue 10/29/13 07:52 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Sadly you are naive to believe that only promiscuous people get sexually transmitted disease as many a man and woman in marriage or a committed relationship has contracted an STD this is just hubris and ignorance to believe that only certain people get STD In a way its similar to the religious idiots who formerly claimed that AIDS was gods punishment a ludicrous unfounded belief...

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Tue 10/29/13 08:05 AM
Is this a statement or a question? People looking for casual sex....what about them? Are they supposed to contact you for a hot steamy session on the beach? Bet they'd catch the crabs off him if they did?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 10/29/13 08:25 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 10/29/13 08:25 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Sadly you are naive to believe that only promiscuous people get sexually transmitted disease as many a man and woman in marriage or a committed relationship has contracted an STD this is just hubris and ignorance to believe that only certain people get STD In a way its similar to the religious idiots who formerly claimed that AIDS was gods punishment a ludicrous unfounded belief... Also saying that it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body is rather far-fetched. And quite amusing ppl either avoid saying how they feel and deal with sex without commitment or judge it without proper thought. It makes me wonder, what if you're single for, let's say, 6 years. Do you go without sex for 6 years? And what if it takes 15 years to find 'the one'?? Denying and suppressing sexual feelings, denying your body to be touched, adored and loved, even if for the one evening, is very unhealthy in the long run. Sex without commitment doesn't mean you aren't selective.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 10/29/13 08:33 AM Edited by navygirl on Tue 10/29/13 08:33 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Sadly you are naive to believe that only promiscuous people get sexually transmitted disease as many a man and woman in marriage or a committed relationship has contracted an STD this is just hubris and ignorance to believe that only certain people get STD In a way its similar to the religious idiots who formerly claimed that AIDS was gods punishment a ludicrous unfounded belief... I think she was just saying that the more people you sleep with; the better your chances are of catching something. In marriages; if they do have STDs, its more likely they are cheating on their partner. Also as there is no love with this kind of sex; I can understand how she would feel that this would diminish a person if they felt like nothing more than a piece of meat. I think to each his or her own and some people feel that monogamy with love is the only way to go.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 10/29/13 09:59 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Sadly you are naive to believe that only promiscuous people get sexually transmitted disease as many a man and woman in marriage or a committed relationship has contracted an STD this is just hubris and ignorance to believe that only certain people get STD In a way its similar to the religious idiots who formerly claimed that AIDS was gods punishment a ludicrous unfounded belief... I think she was just saying that the more people you sleep with; the better your chances are of catching something. In marriages; if they do have STDs, its more likely they are cheating on their partner. Also as there is no love with this kind of sex; I can understand how she would feel that this would diminish a person if they felt like nothing more than a piece of meat. I think to each his or her own and some people feel that monogamy with love is the only way to go. Yeah, I get that. But sex without commitment doesn't mean you get treated like a piece of meat. There can still be care, respect and tenderness. Even if it's sheer lust. There's still attraction, otherwise one wouldn't have sex with one another. I just don't like all that black & white thinking. There's a whole world of grey ...

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 10/29/13 10:47 AM
Is this a statement or a question? People looking for casual sex....what about them? Are they supposed to contact you for a hot steamy session on the beach? Bet they'd catch the crabs off him if they did? Yeah, I'm sure..

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 10/29/13 11:25 AM
....Are very likely to be catching casual diseases!!! Not to mention it diminishes the mind, soul, heart, and body. What goes around comes around!!! Sadly you are naive to believe that only promiscuous people get sexually transmitted disease as many a man and woman in marriage or a committed relationship has contracted an STD this is just hubris and ignorance to believe that only certain people get STD In a way its similar to the religious idiots who formerly claimed that AIDS was gods punishment a ludicrous unfounded belief... I think she was just saying that the more people you sleep with; the better your chances are of catching something. In marriages; if they do have STDs, its more likely they are cheating on their partner. Also as there is no love with this kind of sex; I can understand how she would feel that this would diminish a person if they felt like nothing more than a piece of meat. I think to each his or her own and some people feel that monogamy with love is the only way to go. Yeah, I get that. But sex without commitment doesn't mean you get treated like a piece of meat. There can still be care, respect and tenderness. Even if it's sheer lust. There's still attraction, otherwise one wouldn't have sex with one another. I just don't like all that black & white thinking. There's a whole world of grey ... I guess its how we each look at it but I agree there is a grey area there. I couldn't have sex for the sake of having sex as I would feel used. For me,there has to be more than attraction; there has to be love but I guess I am talking more about making love and not just having sex. Again its just how one perceives this and to each his/her own.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 10/29/13 11:36 AM
I'm guessing you can have 1 sex to fulfill your own physical needs and desires, where the other is basically just a means to an end 2 sex because of strong attraction, but without love, infatuation 3 sex to please both, but lacking the infatuation, also without love 4 sex with love, love making 1 not my thing 2 absolutely great! Steamy windows 3 horrible, I think I'd even prefer nr. 1 4 wow!

roddyee Joined Wed 10/30/13 Posts: 1	Wed 10/30/13 02:09 AM
commitment sex

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Wed 10/30/13 05:40 AM
I'm guessing you can have 1 sex to fulfill your own physical needs and desires, where the other is basically just a means to an end 2 sex because of strong attraction, but without love, infatuation 3 sex to please both, but lacking the infatuation, also without love 4 sex with love, love making 1 not my thing 2 absolutely great! Steamy windows 3 horrible, I think I'd even prefer nr. 1 4 wow! I have to say I agree with most of this. Except that all four could technically happen within a committed relationship. Im with you on number 1. If thats all I want is physical satisfaction I already know how to push my own buttons well enough for the desired effect. 2 Is always a matter of the moment and can lead to number four. **** number three. Just thinking of it seems as awkward as the experience itself would likely be. 4. Really is where its at and this is because when emotionally involved with another even the simplest things can be awesome not just the sex.

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Wed 10/30/13 05:48 AM
Sex without commitment is meaningless, makes you at risk of sexual diseases, and is pointless, it's much much better with someone you love