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| Topic: Is Watching Indecency Considered Cheating? | |
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It always amazes me when someone posts asking for opinions, but if you don't agree with them they jump all over the chance to tell you how wrong you are. Reminds me of my uncle walking into a room full of people and asking if Mary really was a virgin then watching the chaos unfold and walking out. I am a good person who makes bad choices sometimes, but it is no ones place to judge me or the things I do. Thank you. Now hold it right there Peachy. If I'm going to father your next row of beanstalks then you have to at least allow me the indispensable tool of discerning judgment.  Alright, but just to be honest, others judgement of me doesn't change who I am so judge away but don't be surprised if it doesn't change anything.  Lol, and I wouldn't ask that. I wouldn't condemn you for who you are or what you do. T'would be damn hypocritical of me dontcha' think? What infallible being is there on earth that has the ability, much less the right to sit on thrones of judgment and decide with perfect discernment the quality of another person's character and what that character deserves. Saying 'discerning judgment' isn't that kind of judging. It's just the careful assessment of situations and things that can lead to wiser choices. It's certainly not a method for typical 'judging', although many use it for that very purpose unfortunately. |
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Watching porn or looking at other people is not cheating. I agree. But if you happen to be watching other people through a window. It is probably illegal. lol Lol. You're funny 
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It always amazes me when someone posts asking for opinions, but if you don't agree with them they jump all over the chance to tell you how wrong you are. Reminds me of my uncle walking into a room full of people and asking if Mary really was a virgin then watching the chaos unfold and walking out. I am a good person who makes bad choices sometimes, but it is no ones place to judge me or the things I do. Thank you. Now hold it right there Peachy. If I'm going to father your next row of beanstalks then you have to at least allow me the indispensable tool of discerning judgment. Alright, but just to be honest, others judgement of me doesn't change who I am so judge away but don't be surprised if it doesn't change anything. Lol, and I wouldn't ask that. I wouldn't condemn you for who you are or what you do. T'would be damn hypocritical of me dontcha' think? What infallible being is there on earth that has the ability, much less the right to sit on thrones of judgment and decide with perfect discernment the quality of another person's character and what that character deserves. Saying 'discerning judgment' isn't that kind of judging. It's just the careful assessment of situations and things that can lead to wiser choices. It's certainly not a method for typical 'judging', although many use it for that very purpose unfortunately. I feel I do when ever I'm on the toilet since that is called a thrown by so many people. hahaha |
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Watching porn or looking at other people is not cheating. I agree. But if you happen to be watching other people through a window. It is probably illegal. lol Lol. You're funny It was one of the first things that popped into my head and it was to perfect. |
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It always amazes me when someone posts asking for opinions, but if you don't agree with them they jump all over the chance to tell you how wrong you are. Reminds me of my uncle walking into a room full of people and asking if Mary really was a virgin then watching the chaos unfold and walking out. I am a good person who makes bad choices sometimes, but it is no ones place to judge me or the things I do. Thank you. Now hold it right there Peachy. If I'm going to father your next row of beanstalks then you have to at least allow me the indispensable tool of discerning judgment. Alright, but just to be honest, others judgement of me doesn't change who I am so judge away but don't be surprised if it doesn't change anything. Lol, and I wouldn't ask that. I wouldn't condemn you for who you are or what you do. T'would be damn hypocritical of me dontcha' think? What infallible being is there on earth that has the ability, much less the right to sit on thrones of judgment and decide with perfect discernment the quality of another person's character and what that character deserves. Saying 'discerning judgment' isn't that kind of judging. It's just the careful assessment of situations and things that can lead to wiser choices. It's certainly not a method for typical 'judging', although many use it for that very purpose unfortunately. I feel I do when ever I'm on the toilet since that is called a thrown by so many people. hahaha ... ... O.o |
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It always amazes me when someone posts asking for opinions, but if you don't agree with them they jump all over the chance to tell you how wrong you are. Reminds me of my uncle walking into a room full of people and asking if Mary really was a virgin then watching the chaos unfold and walking out. I am a good person who makes bad choices sometimes, but it is no ones place to judge me or the things I do. Thank you. Now hold it right there Peachy. If I'm going to father your next row of beanstalks then you have to at least allow me the indispensable tool of discerning judgment. Alright, but just to be honest, others judgement of me doesn't change who I am so judge away but don't be surprised if it doesn't change anything. Lol, and I wouldn't ask that. I wouldn't condemn you for who you are or what you do. T'would be damn hypocritical of me dontcha' think? What infallible being is there on earth that has the ability, much less the right to sit on thrones of judgment and decide with perfect discernment the quality of another person's character and what that character deserves. Saying 'discerning judgment' isn't that kind of judging. It's just the careful assessment of situations and things that can lead to wiser choices. It's certainly not a method for typical 'judging', although many use it for that very purpose unfortunately. I feel I do when ever I'm on the toilet since that is called a thrown by so many people. hahaha ... ... O.o It's so nice when one of my jokes leaves someone speechless. hahaha |
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nope...it is betrayal to ur self goodness.
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No it isn't.
To the people that said "lusting after someone other than spouse is cheating....what about watching porn with a spouse who enjoys it? is it then OK?? I think it depends on circumstances, men are visual people, I have a buddy who his wife thinks watching porn is cheating, however, he's getting shipped off to Afghanistan for year, is it ok for him to look at porn while he's there so he doesn't physically cheat? or are they the same? If they are the same to some, and completely not to others I think that is a moral judgment of that persons beliefs(no morality doesn't transcend time, the definition of what morality is varies by culture) For example, if we see naked woman here and consider that porn, and immoral doesn't that mean every child raised in a tribe where the women go topless is addicted to pornography and immoral because he may find the site of a naked woman arousing?....i'd think not. To everyone saying "i don't lust after anyone other than my Significant Other"....you're liars. Because I don't believe for one second that when you dating/married etc..that you NEVER looked at someone and though "they are attractive" People can't help who they are attracted to that's why women/man can say a guy(or girl) is hot/pretty/attractive, what they can do is CHOOSE what to do with that attraction. |
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There's no way it can be considered cheating! If that were the case then every time you watched a film that had a Bank job in it, you'd be guilty of Armed Robbery, or a horror film and you'd be guilty of Murder? Come on and get real here? You'd only be guilty if you actually carried out the act? If someone tried to stop me from watching something and came out with that excuse why. I wouldn't be with them for long, as that tells me what their insecurities are like and where does it end? 
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No it isn't. To the people that said "lusting after someone other than spouse is cheating....what about watching porn with a spouse who enjoys it? is it then OK?? I think it depends on circumstances, men are visual people, I have a buddy who his wife thinks watching porn is cheating, however, he's getting shipped off to Afghanistan for year, is it ok for him to look at porn while he's there so he doesn't physically cheat? or are they the same? If they are the same to some, and completely not to others I think that is a moral judgment of that persons beliefs(no morality doesn't transcend time, the definition of what morality is varies by culture) For example, if we see naked woman here and consider that porn, and immoral doesn't that mean every child raised in a tribe where the women go topless is addicted to pornography and immoral because he may find the site of a naked woman arousing?....i'd think not. To everyone saying "i don't lust after anyone other than my Significant Other"....you're liars. Because I don't believe for one second that when you dating/married etc..that you NEVER looked at someone and though "they are attractive" People can't help who they are attracted to that's why women/man can say a guy(or girl) is hot/pretty/attractive, what they can do is CHOOSE what to do with that attraction. If there was an applause icon on here, I'd use it.
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nope...it is betrayal to ur self goodness. What if I'm nor a good person? Then there is nothing to betray. hahaha |
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There's no way it can be considered cheating! If that were the case then every time you watched a film that had a Bank job in it, you'd be guilty of Armed Robbery, or a horror film and you'd be guilty of Murder? Come on and get real here? You'd only be guilty if you actually carried out the act? If someone tried to stop me from watching something and came out with that excuse why. I wouldn't be with them for long, as that tells me what their insecurities are like and where does it end? make that two thumbs up! I think I like this argument. It sums it up nicely, well put.
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nope...it is betrayal to ur self goodness. |
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If you want to learn interesting things about behavior. I suggest following porn stars on twitter. You can learn some of the most interesting things about people. Like shortly after I started following Janna Haze this guy had sent her a tweet saying he hated her because she was banging to many black guys.
I could make sense out of him saying to many orgies, banging to many guys period and basically doing something that is a high risk behavior with the risks of catching an STD. But nope. This guy was simply a racist prick who hated her for banging to many black guys. I'm sure it made sense to him. But since that is only a fraction of the people she was having sex with through her career. It just sounds stupid. Makes about as much sense as telling a vegan I hate you because you eat to many oranges. hahaha |
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