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Topic: i need real and reliable woman for real relationship.
ishola87's photo
Mon 11/11/13 10:33 PM
i am Eben by name,am 25 year old .i need love of life but must have humble hearth so dat we will leave forever.if yu wish just mail me .please dont decieve yurself yu dont wish.becus friendship is not by force but by wish.thanks

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Tue 11/12/13 07:06 AM
OH, OK...I'll change that order. we thought you wanted a blow up doll who no showed on occassion :)

laugh welcome to mingleflowerforyou

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Tue 11/12/13 07:28 AM
Ok.your not aloud to post personal info.

Why would you do that??? I see 2 of your
5 posts have been erased..so we will
will presume your to be a scammer until you
can provide other wise in future.
Quit doing it!

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Tue 11/12/13 07:31 AM

i am Eben by name,am 25 year old .i need love of life but must have humble hearth so dat we will leave forever.if yu wish just mail me .please dont decieve yurself yu dont wish.becus friendship is not by force but by wish.thanks




"Badda bing, badda boom"whoa

ishola87's photo
Sun 11/17/13 10:45 AM
oh i plead all with the name of God to stop called me scrammer. i know exactly what yu guys are thinking once yu saw this post of mine.I cant think of evil to yu if i do what would be my gain.is not in the world full of Vanity things.i thank God for everything he makes about me,i have work which is earn me leaving. although it maybe small but am okay with it.,..Guys good name are rear and must not be wast.i kno dat bad black guys are the root of this stain that just stain me in this post.but whatever anybody sow shall he or she would reap.God bless yu all

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Sun 11/17/13 11:20 AM
Hey bro..stay up...don't mind what people are saying...i read your face..u r nt a crammer..best of luck

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Sun 11/17/13 11:28 AM
Yeah u got it

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Sun 11/17/13 11:28 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Sun 11/17/13 11:30 AM
the chose is yours,actions speak louder than words
but here, your words can be your actions.
I didn't report your post so you could see mine
I see they just took out your email address and
Kept your thread...that was fairly polite of them.good luck, God bless

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Sun 11/17/13 11:48 AM
I'm going to go out on a limb here and just ask a question that's been burning in me for some time ever since I've been back here on this site after some years away...

I see a lot of posts on here from men- and women too- in Nigeria and India, and they seem to all be looking for American women or men. I assume they're looking for Americans, because I've been contacted by several and I figure if they just wanted a woman, any woman, they could find one in their own country....

So my question is, if you're able to make a connection with an American woman, then what? What happens next? Do you plan to come to America to be with her? Do you expect her to come to where you are to be with you? If so, who is going to pay for your trip? Once you're here, do you expect her to support you financially or do you hope to find a job and be able to work until you gain American citizenship?

The reason Americans are leery of foreigners on dating sites is because it doesn't make sense; it's one thing for me to hook up with a guy in another state in America, I can spend about 400 bucks round trip and be there in a few hours, or he can do the same to visit me.

But to go another country on the other side of the world??? Pardon my language, but what the hell for? To me, only someone who is looking for someone to pay for their travel, marry them to get them American citizenship and then deal with whatever happens after they become an American citizen (usually leaving their meal ticket to have a real life) would take up with someone from that far away. Even for a casual chat, I don't see the point, because what if you grow to actually like the person, there's nothing to be done for it. I like to look at the big picture.

So that might be why you're not getting any takers when you approach American women, they don't see the point of even getting involved. Just my opinion....

Massajdestiny's photo
Sun 11/17/13 12:10 PM
What a boring post lol

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Sun 11/17/13 12:20 PM

What a boring post lol


With two boring ones of your own I'd say that makes you an expert. Look forward to more of your boring posts.

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Sun 11/17/13 12:21 PM


What a boring post lol


With two boring ones of your own I'd say that makes you an expert. Look forward to more of your boring posts.


laugh drinker

ishola87's photo
Sun 11/17/13 12:26 PM

I'm going to go out on a limb here and just ask a question that's been burning in me for some time ever since I've been back here on this site after some years away...

I see a lot of posts on here from men- and women too- in Nigeria and India, and they seem to all be looking for American women or men. I assume they're looking for Americans, because I've been contacted by several and I figure if they just wanted a woman, any woman, they could find one in their own country....

So my question is, if you're able to make a connection with an American woman, then what? What happens next? Do you plan to come to America to be with her? Do you expect her to come to where you are to be with you? If so, who is going to pay for your trip? Once you're here, do you expect her to support you financially or do you hope to find a job and be able to work until you gain American citizenship?

The reason Americans are leery of foreigners on dating sites is because it doesn't make sense; it's one thing for me to hook up with a guy in another state in America, I can spend about 400 bucks round trip and be there in a few hours, or he can do the same to visit me.

But to go another country on the other side of the world??? Pardon my language, but what the hell for? To me, only someone who is looking for someone to pay for their travel, marry them to get them American citizenship and then deal with whatever happens after they become an American citizen (usually leaving their meal ticket to have a real life) would take up with someone from that far away. Even for a casual chat, I don't see the point, because what if you grow to actually like the person, there's nothing to be done for it. I like to look at the big picture.

So that might be why
you're not getting any takers when you approach American women, they don't see the point of even getting involved. Just my opinion....



yu are fully right madam about this yur statement but if yu look well yu would see. is bad that my black guys are completely dubious. please this issue have stain Good one..but whoever does bad shall surely reap Bad.God bless yu

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Sun 11/17/13 12:34 PM
Ok. cool down guys,,,i...i just wanna get all your attantion,,thats why ,,,,,hahahaha

ishola87's photo
Sun 11/17/13 12:45 PM
stop being deceive by my black guys.we are not the same. Like me now i have my work and how can i deman money frm yu while i am not the one work to yu pocket.stay bless

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Sun 11/17/13 12:45 PM


I'm going to go out on a limb here and just ask a question that's been burning in me for some time ever since I've been back here on this site after some years away...

I see a lot of posts on here from men- and women too- in Nigeria and India, and they seem to all be looking for American women or men. I assume they're looking for Americans, because I've been contacted by several and I figure if they just wanted a woman, any woman, they could find one in their own country....

So my question is, if you're able to make a connection with an American woman, then what? What happens next? Do you plan to come to America to be with her? Do you expect her to come to where you are to be with you? If so, who is going to pay for your trip? Once you're here, do you expect her to support you financially or do you hope to find a job and be able to work until you gain American citizenship?

The reason Americans are leery of foreigners on dating sites is because it doesn't make sense; it's one thing for me to hook up with a guy in another state in America, I can spend about 400 bucks round trip and be there in a few hours, or he can do the same to visit me.

But to go another country on the other side of the world??? Pardon my language, but what the hell for? To me, only someone who is looking for someone to pay for their travel, marry them to get them American citizenship and then deal with whatever happens after they become an American citizen (usually leaving their meal ticket to have a real life) would take up with someone from that far away. Even for a casual chat, I don't see the point, because what if you grow to actually like the person, there's nothing to be done for it. I like to look at the big picture.

So that might be why
you're not getting any takers when you approach American women, they don't see the point of even getting involved. Just my opinion....



yu are fully right madam about this yur statement but if yu look well yu would see. is bad that my black guys are completely dubious. please this issue have stain Good one..but whoever does bad shall surely reap Bad.God bless yu


It has nothing to do with you being black, it has to do with you living in a country thousands of miles away. I'm black, too, and I find people who are willing to talk to me, so the fact that you are black is irrelevant.

ishola87's photo
Sun 11/17/13 01:30 PM
hmmmm yu sound right.

ishola87's photo
Sun 11/17/13 01:33 PM



I'm going to go out on a limb here and just ask a question that's been burning in me for some time ever since I've been back here on this site after some years away...

I see a lot of posts on here from men- and women too- in Nigeria and India, and they seem to all be looking for American women or men. I assume they're looking for Americans, because I've been contacted by several and I figure if they just wanted a woman, any woman, they could find one in their own country....

So my question is, if you're able to make a connection with an American woman, then what? What happens next? Do you plan to come to America to be with her? Do you expect her to come to where you are to be with you? If so, who is going to pay for your trip? Once you're here, do you expect her to support you financially or do you hope to find a job and be able to work until you gain American citizenship?

The reason Americans are leery of foreigners on dating sites is because it doesn't make sense; it's one thing for me to hook up with a guy in another state in America, I can spend about 400 bucks round trip and be there in a few hours, or he can do the same to visit me.

But to go another country on the other side of the world??? Pardon my language, but what the hell for? To me, only someone who is looking for someone to pay for their travel, marry them to get them American citizenship and then deal with whatever happens after they become an American citizen (usually leaving their meal ticket to have a real life) would take up with someone from that far away. Even for a casual chat, I don't see the point, because what if you grow to actually like the person, there's nothing to be done for it. I like to look at the big picture.

So that might be why
you're not getting any takers when you approach American women, they don't see the point of even getting involved. Just my opinion....



yu are fully right madam about this yur statement but if yu look well yu would see. is bad that my black guys are completely dubious. please this issue have stain Good one..but whoever does bad shall surely reap Bad.God bless yu


It has nothing to do with you being black, it has to do with you living in a country thousands of miles away. I'm black, too, and I find people who are willing to talk to me, so the fact that you are black is irrelevant.


Madam yu are fully right. God bless yu for making it clear

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Sun 11/17/13 02:46 PM
Paintecards, I love your question ;) And I agree. It doesn't make practical sense to date someone so far away. If you're especially only looking for something casual, like sex, then it would be all the more difficult to get intimate, because you're far away from each other. That's just me. But don't you feel you're placing a huge burden upon yourself, with the need to constantly travel up and down, just to see a woman? Jet lag can mess your head up. The time zone's can really catch up with you. Only you know what you want. And I'm not trying to change your mind. Was just wondering why being practical about it may not matter. Surely local is more convenient. Do what you want by all means. I was just questioning if your post meant you were looking for something in particular. It's not racist. Some of us are just fascinated by others decision's.

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Sun 11/17/13 02:51 PM

Hey bro..stay up...don't mind what people are saying...i read your face..u r nt a crammer..best of luck

*very funny* please dude tell me how does my own look?

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