Topic: is it possible?
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Tue 11/19/13 11:18 AM
can anyone fall in love with a girl without seeing her pic..

GuardianAngelMan's photo
Tue 11/19/13 11:36 AM
for m I would have to say no! and that's only because you don't know if they are! I mean for me even if they do have a picture that maybe is not real. Unless you have spoke to them directly then I would not even waste my time. To fall in love with someone I think it takes time, don't rush into it because sometimes it can only lead to heartache.

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Tue 11/19/13 11:42 AM
Well said GuardianAngelMan!

I think you also need to be careful of falling in love with who you think he/she is!
So, my advice would be to take one step at a time and let each puzzle piece fall where it will.
Take your time and let your instincts be alert for any off-signals or red lights!

flowerforyou

amrindersingh2012's photo
Tue 11/19/13 12:00 PM
Not a chance..... Unless u r a special kind of stupid or sumthin....
Cuz first comes d eyes . N then d talkin.... Dats a basic rule..

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Wed 11/20/13 03:25 AM
don't u think Ofcourse,,,,,
But whole the thing depends upon
daa girl,

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/20/13 05:27 PM

can anyone fall in love with a girl without seeing her pic..


I've seen people fall in love for sillier reasons so yeah....I am sure it has happened.

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Wed 11/20/13 05:32 PM
I couldn't, but I'm a visual person...

Lost_in_reverie's photo
Wed 11/20/13 05:38 PM

can anyone fall in love with a girl without seeing her pic..


I, personally, don't see how you can truly love someone without knowing them. I suppose that could mean you don't know what they look like, but you still have to have met them in person. Maybe a person could wear a mask to test the theory?

It really depends on the other person though. Some people value looks above everything else, others value personality. Either way though, I don't think you can really say you actually love someone until you know them in person.

We can all be whatever we want online, it's only in knowing how people are in person (their mannerisms, their speech, their attentiveness, their unplanned/ungoogled/unedited responses...) that we can truly know a person to know if we could (or do) love them.

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Wed 11/20/13 07:06 PM
"Falling in love" is basically a fantasy mutual admiration society.

If a person makes you feel good about yourself you can fall in love with them sight unseen. Then your imagination takes over. But if they are not what they claim to be, then the entire fantasy falls apart.

If you want someone to love you for what you are, then you must be true to yourself and be honest to a fault.


PacificStar48's photo
Thu 11/21/13 10:05 AM
I struggled with the whole picture thing when I first went online with the idea of pictures. In the beginning days of the internet significant number of women on line were pretty "non-traditional" and I was nervous about maybe being lumped together with values I did not share. Now there are so many on line there is just about as many people alike as different.

I think it is a personal choice if a person wants to start out with out a picture. It comes off as being deceptive and I would consider anyone who could not send a discreet picture at some point as just that but I don't think it requires putting it up there for just everybody.

MrBoJingles's photo
Thu 11/21/13 10:08 AM
Average falling in love time is with in 8 to 10 weeks. Until you actually spend serious time with someone it's a fantasy of the mind

kissablekiss's photo
Thu 11/21/13 10:18 AM
Anything is possible

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Thu 11/21/13 11:40 AM

Average falling in love time is with in 8 to 10 weeks. Until you actually spend serious time with someone it's a fantasy of the mind


I agree. drinker You are a smart guy.

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Fri 05/16/14 10:21 AM
you are right..

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Fri 05/16/14 10:24 AM
^^^^^^Nice of you to come back 7 months later...to answer..flowers

msharmony's photo
Fri 05/16/14 10:34 AM
I think so, if they are presenting their true selves to you, you can definitely fall in love with who they are and not what they look like

blind people fall in love ,, so assuming that love can occur BEFORE physical intimacy,, Id imagine seeing people can fall in love before seeing each other too


but the flesh might make it harder to stay in love if physical expectations are not met later on,,,