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Topic: Not a Back-Room Mistress
Cat1952's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:09 PM
I'm a reasonably female and great relationship material. Here's the dilemna: the relationship is going very well for several months and he's met your family or your kids but he never acknowledges your existence with his own family. Everytime they call up, you go in the other room or make sure you're quiet so they don't know you're around. I feel as though after a certain period of time, if it has potential----when can I come out of the closet?

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Tue 09/04/07 12:12 PM

If you're asking the question, then it's well past that time.

Did you ask him why he hasn't introduced you to his famiy yet?

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Tue 09/04/07 12:12 PM
no idea but have you asked him why he wants you to be quiet? under normal circumstances i would've thought it would have happened already.

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Tue 09/04/07 12:13 PM
maybe he is still married?????


MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:13 PM
Woah RED FAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
That is not good! He is hiding something big time...
You should of meet the family along time ago!
Somethings wrong dear... check it out.huh

oldsage's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:15 PM
Agree, get the truth & do it quick.
No truth, he can tell his story WALKING.

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Tue 09/04/07 12:15 PM
LMAO...Ms Teddy ...Did you say red fag?
laugh laugh
Is that politically correct? j/k drinker

Cat...I think there is definately something wrong with that!

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Tue 09/04/07 12:17 PM


LMAO!!! I haven't heard f*g used in the longest time!

What exactly is a red f*g, anyway??

laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 09/04/07 12:18 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I like mine red and white.....with a pretty maple leaf!!!

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:18 PM
OH S*IT... FLAG guys FLAG...

laugh blushing laugh

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Tue 09/04/07 12:18 PM
LMAO...That was funny Ms. Teddy..and she didnt even mean it!!

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:20 PM
A flag, a neon sign and a newspaper ad ....oh dear ...I'd be wondering ...

Good luck to you flowerforyou

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Tue 09/04/07 12:22 PM
i don't know. since he's being so secretive maybe ms.teddy had it right the first time lol

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Tue 09/04/07 12:30 PM
My first thought is that he's married or otherwise involved with someone. Have you asked him why the "hiding"? I would. It doesn't need to be confrontational but I'd try to work it into the conversation somehow.

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Tue 09/04/07 12:33 PM
Work it into the conversation, HELL.
Just bold as brass, let him know you want the truth.
Something rotten in Denmark & before you go any further, know the truth. Get it VERIFIED.

SMELLS like a big game & YOUR getting USED.

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Tue 09/04/07 12:38 PM
haha I didn't even notice that you said that msteddy!!! Thats to funny!!
I do agree though...something is not right!!! The first thing I thought was that maybe he is still married!! I would refuse to be hid, if I wasn't good enough to be around his family....then I would dump him in a heartbeat!!
Obviously something is going on, hes really not worth your time or trouble to figure it out! I think hes a liar because you are a well hidden secret!!
Good luckflowerforyou

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Tue 09/04/07 12:42 PM
:heart: I AGREE with the REST, HE SHOULD HAVE DONE LET "YOU" BE A PART OF "HIS", NOT hide them, or "YOU".....:angry: :heart:


:wink: bigsmile :heart: I wish YOU the BEST, and hope HE has a very GOOD REASON for HIS lack of SHOWING YOU his family....

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Tue 09/04/07 12:44 PM
Well, while I certainly can't think of a good reason for this, there very well could be a very plausible explanation, which is why I suggested not being confrontational, at least at first. Work it in, see what he says, go from there. I guess I believe in giving someone the benefit of the doubt, until there's absolute proof that they don't deserve it. But, yes, I do think something is not quite right. Good luck to you!

hotandspicey's photo
Tue 09/04/07 12:45 PM
Run run run away fast! noway noway noway

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Tue 09/04/07 04:50 PM
He is hiding something
leave him be!!!

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