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Is this a new trend?
People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? NO Judgements.. you do what you do HOWEVER Intimate encounter... it's sort of hard NOT to say " Fend for your GD self, some of us want REAL relationships" !!! Ok... That was a vent.  A guy said something really stupid to me and it peeved me off! 
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Is this a new trend? People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? NO Judgements.. you do what you do HOWEVER Intimate encounter... it's sort of hard NOT to say " Fend for your GD self, some of us want REAL relationships" !!! Ok... That was a vent. A guy said something really stupid to me and it peeved me off! |
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Is this a new trend? People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? Why shouldn't they? Looking for an intimate encounter doesn't mean to say you're some low-life bimbo / jack @ss, does it? |
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Is this a new trend? People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? NO Judgements.. you do what you do HOWEVER Intimate encounter... it's sort of hard NOT to say " Fend for your GD self, some of us want REAL relationships" !!! Ok... That was a vent. A guy said something really stupid to me and it peeved me off! Are you telling me what I can rant about, sir?  Cause this would really make me angry... ALL jokes aside |
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Edited by
teebee79
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Mon 12/09/13 02:44 PM
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Is this a new trend? People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? Why shouldn't they? Looking for an intimate encounter doesn't mean to say you're some low-life bimbo / jack @ss, does it? No, Not at all... which is why I don't judge them, you want what you want. But... I still think this HAS to be new? Please look over my profile.. for a person I don'twish to know further than the night I am with them? No?  If it's me it's me.... Maybe Ive finally hit that age 
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They don't read profiles, they perv your pics and send emails, friend requests, nudges and view you multiple times, hoping to attract your attention. You could have an empty profile and get the same responses.
As for it being a new trend, I don't think so, I've been here on and off for years, I'm pretty sure it was a thing back then, too. |
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They don't read profiles, they perv your pics and send emails, friend requests, nudges and view you multiple times, hoping to attract your attention. You could have an empty profile and get the same responses. As for it being a new trend, I don't think so, I've been here on and off for years, I'm pretty sure it was a thing back then, too. Actually, I posted this because I thought it was " odd" that people wnated a rate for the " intimate encounter" profile? Not because I was getting them... A nut did p'ss me off but not the intimate encounter thing ... I'm use to that.. I just delete, like everyone else. |
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Is this a new trend? People wanting intimate encounters CARING about what their profile looks like and says? Why shouldn't they? Looking for an intimate encounter doesn't mean to say you're some low-life bimbo / jack @ss, does it? No, Not at all... which is why I don't judge them, you want what you want. But... I still think this HAS to be new? Please look over my profile.. for a person I don'twish to know further than the night I am with them? No? If it's me it's me.... Maybe Ive finally hit that age I don't think it's new. If they're just looking for sex, it's all about attraction. Perhaps they want to see if their profile is attractive to others? I see no problem with that. |
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They don't read profiles, they perv your pics and send emails, friend requests, nudges and view you multiple times, hoping to attract your attention. You could have an empty profile and get the same responses. As for it being a new trend, I don't think so, I've been here on and off for years, I'm pretty sure it was a thing back then, too. Actually, I posted this because I thought it was " odd" that people wnated a rate for the " intimate encounter" profile? Not because I was getting them... A nut did p'ss me off but not the intimate encounter thing ... I'm use to that.. I just delete, like everyone else. Oh I misunderstood the post.  In that case, yeah it's odd. And it's odd to rate someone who's looking for that, because if you give them a positive rate, they'll assume you're into them and what they're looking for. I usually pass on rating those people. |
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I don't think it's new. If they're just looking for sex, it's all about attraction. Perhaps they want to see if their profile is attractive to others? I see no problem with that. I agree, I don't think we should judge someone just because they are honest about what they want. As far as the rate thing goes, what's wrong with asking other fish in the pond if you are using the right type of bait...understanding that not every fish is going to want to be on the that fishing pole(pun fully intended) |
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People have been doing the intimate encounter thing as long as the computer has been around and really before that in other media such as CB and newspapers.
I don't know but I think they see the profile as part of the package. Like they are able to create this persona like sex with them is all that and a bag of chips. I doubt it but I am not letting myself to be used to verify it as truth or what I suspect a lie. My experience is when a man suggests he is a great lover he is not even good at kissing so I have not pursued proving the greater intimacy. My belief is a man or women who puts themselves out there as only an intimate encounter have so distance themselves from what intimacy can be that it is really not much more than someone "sneezing" on someone else and exchanging whatever germs might be in the fluids. You will never convince me that either care about the other's experience or really their own because anonomous sex doesn't allow for enough communication for it to be a quality experience. |
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People have been doing the intimate encounter thing as long as the computer has been around and really before that in other media such as CB and newspapers. I don't know but I think they see the profile as part of the package. Like they are able to create this persona like sex with them is all that and a bag of chips. I doubt it but I am not letting myself to be used to verify it as truth or what I suspect a lie. My experience is when a man suggests he is a great lover he is not even good at kissing so I have not pursued proving the greater intimacy. My belief is a man or women who puts themselves out there as only an intimate encounter have so distance themselves from what intimacy can be that it is really not much more than someone "sneezing" on someone else and exchanging whatever germs might be in the fluids. You will never convince me that either care about the other's experience or really their own because anonomous sex doesn't allow for enough communication for it to be a quality experience. 
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Mon 12/09/13 03:42 PM
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People have been doing the intimate encounter thing as long as the computer has been around and really before that in other media such as CB and newspapers. I don't know but I think they see the profile as part of the package. Like they are able to create this persona like sex with them is all that and a bag of chips. I doubt it but I am not letting myself to be used to verify it as truth or what I suspect a lie. My experience is when a man suggests he is a great lover he is not even good at kissing so I have not pursued proving the greater intimacy. My belief is a man or women who puts themselves out there as only an intimate encounter have so distance themselves from what intimacy can be that it is really not much more than someone "sneezing" on someone else and exchanging whatever germs might be in the fluids. You will never convince me that either care about the other's experience or really their own because anonomous sex doesn't allow for enough communication for it to be a quality experience. I doubt these individuals are concerned with Quality what they probably want is Quantity and after all if you eat enough pizzas you are bound to find at least one really good slice.....however it still probably won't compare to the one you made at home with all of your own personal favorite ingredients. |
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People have been doing the intimate encounter thing as long as the computer has been around and really before that in other media such as CB and newspapers. I don't know but I think they see the profile as part of the package. Like they are able to create this persona like sex with them is all that and a bag of chips. I doubt it but I am not letting myself to be used to verify it as truth or what I suspect a lie. My experience is when a man suggests he is a great lover he is not even good at kissing so I have not pursued proving the greater intimacy. My belief is a man or women who puts themselves out there as only an intimate encounter have so distance themselves from what intimacy can be that it is really not much more than someone "sneezing" on someone else and exchanging whatever germs might be in the fluids. You will never convince me that either care about the other's experience or really their own because anonomous sex doesn't allow for enough communication for it to be a quality experience. I doubt these individuals are concerned with Quality what they probably want is Quantity and after all if you eat enough pizzas you are bound to find at least one really good slice.....however it still probably won't compare to the one you made at home with all of your own personal favorite ingredients. I'll never think of pizza in quite the same way again... 
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Mon 12/09/13 04:06 PM
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People have been doing the intimate encounter thing as long as the computer has been around and really before that in other media such as CB and newspapers. I don't know but I think they see the profile as part of the package. Like they are able to create this persona like sex with them is all that and a bag of chips. I doubt it but I am not letting myself to be used to verify it as truth or what I suspect a lie. My experience is when a man suggests he is a great lover he is not even good at kissing so I have not pursued proving the greater intimacy. My belief is a man or women who puts themselves out there as only an intimate encounter have so distance themselves from what intimacy can be that it is really not much more than someone "sneezing" on someone else and exchanging whatever germs might be in the fluids. You will never convince me that either care about the other's experience or really their own because anonomous sex doesn't allow for enough communication for it to be a quality experience. I doubt these individuals are concerned with Quality what they probably want is Quantity and after all if you eat enough pizzas you are bound to find at least one really good slice.....however it still probably won't compare to the one you made at home with all of your own personal favorite ingredients. My home made pizzas were never as good as the ones I got elsewhere, hahaha. I AM talking real pizza here, not the figure of speech one. Just so we're clear
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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I have to reference you red6mist.
 He would get further in his "goal" if he said less and showed more. Right? Or is this old skill thinking? Are intimate encounters more personable now? |
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Sure. Writing a five page bio on your profile about how all you want is to find "The One", how you don't do drama, how you want to fall in love....only to really want some sex is just real.....2013. In 2014 it will be all about throwing in how you are a surgeon and you cure cancer when in reality you are a tow truck driver (nothing against Tow Truck drivers...they do good work).
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Sure. Writing a five page bio on your profile about how all you want is to find "The One", how you don't do drama, how you want to fall in love....only to really want some sex is just real.....2013. In 2014 it will be all about throwing in how you are a surgeon and you cure cancer when in reality you are a tow truck driver (nothing against Tow Truck drivers...they do good work). You joke... But this is what I'm finding Brain surgeons who are waiting on a residency, which is why they live with their Mom!
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I think it does matter. Have you ever thought about what an IE is? IEs aren't necessarily sleazy, cheap, unhygienic happenings. Let's say you'd be looking for an intimate encounter, hypothetically speaking. Would you do it with just about anyone? Regardless whether he sells hot-dogs in the street, is a backwater redneck, an office-worker or whatever? Don't you think you'd be just as selective as with a partner for a committed relationship, and possibly even more so as you intend to swap bodily fluids? Wanting an intimate encounter doesn't mean you're just going to open your legs for a piece of meat, you can still want a click, both physically AND mentally. So someone similar / same level of intelligence etc DOES matter. Like with a normal date, you usually meet first to see if there is a click. So what would a lawyer or office manager do with a garbage man when they meet? What would they talk about over their coffees? They probably have nothing in common so it likely won't work out in bed either. |
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There are sites out there that are solely for the purpose of finding an intimate encounter. A few of which end up being advertized at the top of the screen.
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