Topic: Why do younger guys like older women?
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Sat 01/11/14 09:01 AM



Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho


I agree..The young me I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....


lollaugh right they make great friends!

my sons did quite a lot of their own potty training. I stayed out of it as much as I could. They did fine

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Sat 01/11/14 09:07 AM




Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho


I agree..The young men I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....


lollaugh right they make great friends!

my sons did quite a lot of their own potty training. I stayed out of it as much as I could. They did fine


:thumbsup: I'm sure they did, they have a great mom...flowerforyou :heart:

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Sat 01/11/14 09:12 AM



Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....

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Sat 01/11/14 09:13 AM
For myself, as long as they are still above ground, age is irrelevant.

My limit for younger women is no more than 12 years younger than me.

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Sat 01/11/14 09:15 AM





Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho


I agree..The young men I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....


lollaugh right they make great friends!

my sons did quite a lot of their own potty training. I stayed out of it as much as I could. They did fine


:thumbsup: I'm sure they did, they have a great mom...flowerforyou :heart:


thank you

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Sat 01/11/14 09:18 AM




Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....


I agree with your statement but I really think it true of the majority of men on here on internet sites irrespective of age. I have met a few very polite and respectful men on here, mostly from the forums. But much of my mail is from "horny harry" types and I could care less...lol

Candiapples's photo
Sat 01/11/14 09:27 AM





Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....


I agree with your statement but I really think it true of the majority of men on here on internet sites irrespective of age. I have met a few very polite and respectful men on here, mostly from the forums. But much of my mail is from "horny harry" types and I could care less...lol

LOL yup! or from other continents trying to get into ours.

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Sat 01/11/14 09:31 AM





Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....


I agree with your statement but I really think it true of the majority of men on here on internet sites irrespective of age. I have met a few very polite and respectful men on here, mostly from the forums. But much of my mail is from "horny harry" types and I could care less...lol


@ Both Sweet and Candi...Yeah, there seems to be a pronounced influx lately too!!grumble ...Especially,as Candi pointed out, other countries trying to get here...All I do lately is clean out my friend requests from twenty somethings I never even talked to!slaphead

Candiapples's photo
Sat 01/11/14 09:32 AM




Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


I tend to agree. and I'm not saying that all younger men are like that either. there are exceptions to just about everything. What they will learn from their fathers is how to treat women.waving
But..I was talking about being mothered, not fathered :smile:

Candiapples's photo
Sat 01/11/14 09:32 AM



Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho


I agree..The young men I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....
Oh really? lol

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Sat 01/11/14 09:34 AM




Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho


I agree..The young men I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....
Oh really? lol


laugh Yep, I can not tell a lie!...*crosses fingers behind back*:wink:

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Sat 01/11/14 09:35 AM
Edited by Candiapples on Sat 01/11/14 09:40 AM






Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....


I agree with your statement but I really think it true of the majority of men on here on internet sites irrespective of age. I have met a few very polite and respectful men on here, mostly from the forums. But much of my mail is from "horny harry" types and I could care less...lol


@ Both Sweet and Candi...Yeah, there seems to be a pronounced influx lately too!!grumble ...Especially,as Candi pointed out, other countries trying to get here...All I do lately is clean out my friend requests from twenty somethings I never even talked to!slaphead

I have my settings set to 38 and older. I can't be bothred with any younger. Its such a waste of time

Yes..those time consuming friend requests lol

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Sat 01/11/14 09:41 AM







Because they can laugh

I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women?

Just saying [my babble of the day]


honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men.

I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger)

I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.


On this, I agree that many (don't know about most) younger men on this site are hitting on us older gals for ulterior reasons, but I think those types ( the users ) are pretty easy to spot....


I agree with your statement but I really think it true of the majority of men on here on internet sites irrespective of age. I have met a few very polite and respectful men on here, mostly from the forums. But much of my mail is from "horny harry" types and I could care less...lol


@ Both Sweet and Candi...Yeah, there seems to be a pronounced influx lately too!!grumble ...Especially,as Candi pointed out, other countries trying to get here...All I do lately is clean out my friend requests from twenty somethings I never even talked to!slaphead

I have my settings set to 38 and older. I can't be bothred with any younger. Its such a waste of time

Yes..hose time consumming friend requests lol


I thought about doing that, Candi...But then I would have missed mail from people like MarkTheMansmitten and several other youngsters, both male and female, whom I have come to love and admire!!!...Guess I'll just keep cleaning them out *sigh*.....flowerforyou

Candiapples's photo
Sat 01/11/14 09:56 AM
Thats true :smile:

Candiapples's photo
Sat 01/11/14 10:13 AM
Its so hard being a woman this age. Im done with babysitting and I dont want an old fuddy duddy.

Seems the longer I.m single, the more I like it these days and the less tolerence I have for men [sighs]

Shakaykay's photo
Sun 01/12/14 01:06 PM
They like older women cause we are sexy thats why!
We got our money and they think we are going to be their sugar momma while the play ps4 or xbox 360 all day!

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 01/12/14 01:10 PM

They like older women cause we are sexy thats why!
We got our money and they think we are going to be their sugar momma while the play ps4 or xbox 360 all day!


Shakaykay, I wouldn't mind you being my sugar momma. :wink:

navygirl's photo
Sun 01/12/14 01:27 PM

Because they can laugh

I've noticed tht the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future.

Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men?

Isn't it their job to teah their sons how to ewspect and treat women?


Yeah; everyone guy that was interested in me is more interested in having me teach them about sex or about when they can move in with me. Haven't met one yet that wasn't trying to use me for something.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 01/12/14 01:31 PM

Yeah; everyone guy that was interested in me is more interested in having me teach them about sex or about when they can move in with me. Haven't met one yet that wasn't trying to use me for something.


navygirl, I haven't tried to use you for something. bigsmile

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Sun 01/12/14 01:34 PM


Yeah; everyone guy that was interested in me is more interested in having me teach them about sex or about when they can move in with me. Haven't met one yet that wasn't trying to use me for something.


navygirl, I haven't tried to use you for something. bigsmile


I actually haven't met you in person. LOL