Topic: pissed off
abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 10:56 AM
what the hell is this place i have friend allthough i have sent 50+ friend request...
no body is adding me...
what the hell man.....

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:02 AM
Maybe you should get to know people before expecting them to accept friend requests. The site doesn't make people connect. That's on the members

abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:08 AM
but how can i know peoples without interactinting them....?
they are not reply me too....
what to do?

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:10 AM
Get involved in the forums/games. More social interaction that way.

abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:12 AM
yeah that's what now i am doing dear....:smile:

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Tue 01/07/14 11:15 AM
Abhi, very few women will accept a friend request without having had some good conversations with the person before.

Myself, I delete every one of them. If the person doesn't want to talk to me first, why would I want to add them as my "friend"?

Good luck. flowerforyou

abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:19 AM
Edited by abhi1144 on Tue 01/07/14 11:20 AM
Thanks dear....
but i always greet everyone but....NO REPLY from their side....noway

no photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:23 AM
Well, if you're greeting them by calling them DEAR, that might be your problem!

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:26 AM
why what's the problem in DEAR?

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Tue 01/07/14 11:26 AM
So you have added me as a "favourite"! Seriously?

You're not understanding what we're trying to tell you at all.
Have conversations, get involved in the forums and games.

People don't wanna be friends if they don't know you! They don't want to be your "Favourite" either! I know that I don't!

Good luck anyways.

abhi1144's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:29 AM
thats by mistake, i want to send you request...

no photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:41 AM
rofl

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Tue 01/07/14 11:46 AM
If you're serious about connecting and making friends...fill your profile out more. Tell about yourself. What do you like to do? What qualities do you like in friends? Then search the profiles and actually read them. Stay far away from the request friends, nudges and favorite buttons. Focus on getting to know the person you're interested in. Introduce yourself and ask questions about what you learned in their profile. Its more important to make a real friend than just have a name on a list. Best wishes!

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Tue 01/07/14 11:56 AM
Edited by Ouizee on Tue 01/07/14 11:57 AM

rofl

Leigh, I LOVE your new picture! flowerforyou

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Tue 01/07/14 12:04 PM

Well, if you're greeting them by calling them DEAR, that might be your problem!

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



Uh huhdrinker

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Tue 01/07/14 12:25 PM

this is a great post abhi. There are many people who will benefit from the information you're discussing here.

You are not alone in your confusion and it would be great to clear up the misunderstandings about this.


I totally agree. The problem being most of those that need to read this never visit the community. So many are just out there with no description of themselves at all. If you have read any of my posts to this community you will know that I am not doing well here on this site at all in the regard to "men". Start with a good description of what you are looking for and describe yourself, then start learning to make good conversation about it. A lot of women will not be friends or favorites, send kisses etc. with a stranger because they want to know a person well, which would be the foundation for a relationship.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 01/07/14 12:25 PM

what the hell is this place i have friend allthough i have sent 50+ friend request...
no body is adding me...
what the hell man.....


I'm sorry, but I did not get the memo which says that everyone must respond to "Friend" requests made by a complete stranger.