Topic: what is your definition of a true freind?
stevil342001's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:35 AM
freinds ........... on the outside not so much in this internet world...you see iam coming up on 2 months sober... my old drinking buds still try to call me to see if am going to those "AA CLASSES" MOST OF THOSE OLD FREINDS DONT TALK TO ME ANYMORE CUZ i dont drink anymore i have nothing in common with them..... this is what a true freind is to me stands by your side whether you down and out or happy... allows you to grow and be the best you can be .. and give encoragement to those who struggle...i have some some true freinds on here and outside the internet world thank god for you!!!

TheShadow's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:36 AM
MOMbigsmile and that is if anyone here knows who i'm talking about...

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:38 AM
someone who loves you for you
no matter what
someone you can trust-- even with your boyfriend
someone who is there for you

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:38 AM
Unfortunately we lose old friends when we get sober...

But we really should'nt have the old ways around...

True friend's are there no matter what and thay don't push
you into anything... they are just there! flowerforyou

LAMom's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:43 AM
((((( Steve ))))))

First off I want to say Once again Congrats on your success,,, Hugs to you.

((((( Familia )))))) thats my true Friendship,,, For within the arms of those close to me I find my strength to overcome Life's obstacles,,

A true friend see's my Soul knows the burdens and hardships and stands by my side,, lifting me when i can no longer lift myself,,,,, My friends are those who leave footprints in my Soul.......humbling me in the Awe of thier Light.


:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart:

geo54's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:43 AM
you have a host of friends.
someone who never leaves you...
sounds like god

honu's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:50 AM
the people that are honest, brutally honest with you
the people that you can call at any hour of the day
the people that love and embrace you and your flaws
the ones that will visit you in the hospital or jail
the ones that you would do the same for

Winx's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:53 AM
Almost 2 months!!! Awesome.

creationsfire's photo
Sun 09/09/07 10:57 AM
Ones that say all those lovely things is the post above and then ditch you the first time you have a tiff.brokenheart

WhispersandWinks's photo
Sun 09/09/07 11:11 AM
A friend is someone who knows you INSIDE and OUT~~~~~~~~~~~~~and likes you anyway! flowerforyou :heart: :wink:

MiSSLiNDS's photo
Sun 09/09/07 11:18 AM
i CAN HONESTLY SAY i AM BLESSED WiTH THREE BEST FRiENDS.. THOSE ARE THE GiRLS i CAN COUNT ON NO MATTER WHAT.. FOR EXAMPLE, ONE TiME i GOT A FLAT TiRE AND i CALLED ONE OF THOSE GiRLS AND SHE CAME TO CHANGE iT [[MY EX-BOYFRiEND SAT THERE AND WATCHED HER CAUSE HE'S AN iDiOT]] BUT i SAVED HER YESTERDAY WHEN HER BATTERY DiED.. i LOVE THOSE GiRLS! CHECK EM OUT ON MY PROFiLE..

no photo
Sun 09/09/07 12:21 PM
well to me a friend is someone you call to bail you outta jail when things got to crazy but a best friend is sittin in the cell with you talkin about how much fun you had. I need more friends i got plenty of best friends lollaugh laugh

no photo
Sun 09/09/07 12:38 PM
:heart: Stevil, Honu, has my thoughts on true friends.
But I think ANYONE who will not ONLY give YOU words, but ALSO
GIVE YOU THEIR TIME, to share YOUR accomplishments and your
struggles with, ANYTIME you feel the NEED to talk..
DUDE your two months STRONG, and TRY to FORGET your OLD friends, if THEY do NOT support YOU NOW...THEIR LOSS..
I don't know you and can only take you for your words, as YOU ME.
But I really do know YOUR STRUGGLE and I really am PROUD of
YOUR fight to BEAT this daily desire. HOLD THE LINE and talk to US, or email some friends to get it under your thoughts, and just keep reaching out for FRIENDS and MINDS,,and YOU will FIND some GREAT FRIENDS to HELP YOU BE STRONG...

Email me anytime, and I can give you my number if ya want to talk?? YOU ARE DOING GREAT MAN....:heart: :wink: smokin

no photo
Sun 09/09/07 12:42 PM
A friend is someone who will support and defend you....even when they think you are wrong.

celticricket's photo
Sun 09/09/07 01:33 PM
i think i read somewhere that a friend will help you move, but a best friend will help you move a body. laugh :wink:

mishaellyn's photo
Sun 09/09/07 01:57 PM
A true friend is someone who cares about you when you are having a good day or just need to vent. Someone that may not like your significant other but is polite because they care about your happiness. And someone that you can be there for when they are having a great day or a bad day and just need to talk. Give and take for both of you. I have a friend like that and we have been friends for 11 years. I cant remember a time when she wasnt there.

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 09/09/07 02:00 PM
Friends know everything about you...even the bad stuff and still wants to spend time with you. The are supposrtive when you need them to be. They just make you feel good...especially when your DOWN