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love is a magical bond which cant be expressed in words. its eternal and always there in everyone in some form. It is really magical.. 
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Surely it is possible. If you respect the partner, and his/her need and always prior their need in your relation then there is no need of intimacy. Love is not the emotion from body, it occurs from heart. When 2 hearts get intimated its called love, and when 2 bodies get intimated without any respect of other its called GREED. Good one.. 
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I would like to add my story too I loved a girl when I was in 9th class and she was in 8th.... I proposed her after 1 year and she said no.... But I was not able to get away from her. I had done many mad things 4 her.. Even u can't imagine a guy can do this much... Let it be... I again proposed here in my 11th class and she said yes.... She was scared as I m Sikh and she is rajput... Then I went to pune for engineering and she was doing graduation from hometown... 3 years went very good and sweet... I even once tore my arm for her and remained in hospital for 3 days because just she said can u do this for me.... That's how much I loved her... But in my fourth year of engineering... Suddenly she started behaving differently... I thought it may be due to family tension.... But when I got there finally after my engineering, I was told by my friend that she is dating someone else... That's was like my death foe me... Seriously... Why she was continuing relationship with me when she is dating someone.... I asked her and what she replied... You wouldn't believe it.... She said she loves me a lot but she needs some spice in life... I never done sex and all with her... Ya so. Even touching and hugging.. That's it... She was expecting more than this... I never thought she would cheat me for intimacy only.... That day I left her.... Still she calls me once in a month... But I never receive her call.... I still love her like a mad.. But I cannot trust her anymore.... And I will not love any girl again in my life ever.... This is all my life story.... Sad one Hi Singh.. Its heartbreaking to read your story.. At times.. you are surprised by the demands of your loved ones.. You try to treat them with respect but instead they understand you simple and uninteresting.. And after all this happens.. Surely.. ur heart seals itself.. But, life is about moving on.. One good thing is..you..yourself.. You respected her.. You were right at your place.. Not today, may be tommorow.. or may be now.. she would miss you.. That time can never come back.. but watz use of taking old stones out.. let it go.. let love enter your life.. Watever happens..happens for good.. The good thing is..you got to deal with the truth at time.. Wish you happiness and love.. Don't close your heart doors.. smile.. Who knows.. some one completes their day looking for it... |
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@ Tia It's easy to say but hard to digest...
Now I will love that girl to whom... my parents will say to marry ...will give 100% to my wife... But sorry I can't make a girlfriend again... |
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I believe....that mentally people must bond...develop their connection..once that develops and grows....physical intimacy automatically follows and becomes more enjoyable
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@ Tia It's easy to say but hard to digest... Now I will love that girl to whom... my parents will say to marry ...will give 100% to my wife... But sorry I can't make a girlfriend again... That is wonderful..if you have a thought of loving your would be wife completely.. and the best part is.. you will save it all for her.. No one is perfect but make sure.. wat you experience in past.. don't take it out on your future.. and never compare.. neither the person nor the circumstances.. All the best.. |
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I believe....that mentally people must bond...develop their connection..once that develops and grows....physical intimacy automatically follows and becomes more enjoyable People have recently different choices..opinions.. some give priority to something else.. no doubt.. the best way is to become friends first.. understand each other..thn take a step further... but its very rare..both of the partners think the same.. |
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hi tia...i m an example...i am with a girl from last 7 years we r college sweet hearts.she is conservative and thts why she asked me "can v have sex after marriage? her feelings were more important to me, so i agreed".but i kept on conviencing her after 6 years she agreed because we have problems with parent abt marriage and for sure we cant get along further...so she submitted herself to me and she asked me to do what i have been asking for years.....but i rejected just because i feel if i do that thing with her rest of her life she will feel guilt abt having sex with the man other than she married. I dont know i m wrong or right but the thing is that her feelings are much more important than myself.....in these 7 years i got plenty of chances ( couple of dozens) to satisfy my sexual urge with married women and girls...i exchanged no too. cause i was literally exausted of my sexual life( masterbating everyday)...but tht was not possible for me to have that thing with anyone other than my love....and now i got the ultimate result mind and body are connected in each and every way....men cant have sex with female gorilla's though they have what really men want...u need love for intimacy or else couple shots of vodka....and if u have sold ur soul already u can have sex with each and every gorilla.
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hi tia...i m an example...i am with a girl from last 7 years we r college sweet hearts.she is conservative and thts why she asked me "can v have sex after marriage? her feelings were more important to me, so i agreed".but i kept on conviencing her after 6 years she agreed because we have problems with parent abt marriage and for sure we cant get along further...so she submitted herself to me and she asked me to do what i have been asking for years.....but i rejected just because i feel if i do that thing with her rest of her life she will feel guilt abt having sex with the man other than she married. I dont know i m wrong or right but the thing is that her feelings are much more important than myself.....in these 7 years i got plenty of chances ( couple of dozens) to satisfy my sexual urge with married women and girls...i exchanged no too. cause i was literally exausted of my sexual life( masterbating everyday)...but tht was not possible for me to have that thing with anyone other than my love....and now i got the ultimate result mind and body are connected in each and every way....men cant have sex with female gorilla's though they have what really men want...u need love for intimacy or else couple shots of vodka....and if u have sold ur soul already u can have sex with each and every gorilla.
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hi tia...i m an example...i am with a girl from last 7 years we r college sweet hearts.she is conservative and thts why she asked me "can v have sex after marriage? her feelings were more important to me, so i agreed".but i kept on conviencing her after 6 years she agreed because we have problems with parent abt marriage and for sure we cant get along further...so she submitted herself to me and she asked me to do what i have been asking for years.....but i rejected just because i feel if i do that thing with her rest of her life she will feel guilt abt having sex with the man other than she married. I dont know i m wrong or right but the thing is that her feelings are much more important than myself.....in these 7 years i got plenty of chances ( couple of dozens) to satisfy my sexual urge with married women and girls...i exchanged no too. cause i was literally exausted of my sexual life( masterbating everyday)...but tht was not possible for me to have that thing with anyone other than my love....and now i got the ultimate result mind and body are connected in each and every way....men cant have sex with female gorilla's though they have what really men want...u need love for intimacy or else couple shots of vodka....and if u have sold ur soul already u can have sex with each and every gorilla.
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Tatz nice.. that you have kept her feelings for priority.. But at the same time, look at yourself..you are dying for that thing.. but just because you can't hurt her.. you have kept a control.. Hope..u don't change your mind.. because frustration or couple of shots of vodka.. if mixed.. will stop your control and u can wonder wat can happen..
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In today's world, People are so forward, to them Intimacy is more important but there are still few people who still believe in true love.. Is it possible to have a relationship of love without intimacy just based on emotional bond? I could had spent my life just looking at my ex-gf before she dumped me for her career. |
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I would like to add my story too I loved a girl when I was in 9th class and she was in 8th.... I proposed her after 1 year and she said no.... But I was not able to get away from her. I had done many mad things 4 her.. Even u can't imagine a guy can do this much... Let it be... I again proposed here in my 11th class and she said yes.... She was scared as I m Sikh and she is rajput... Then I went to pune for engineering and she was doing graduation from hometown... 3 years went very good and sweet... I even once tore my arm for her and remained in hospital for 3 days because just she said can u do this for me.... That's how much I loved her... But in my fourth year of engineering... Suddenly she started behaving differently... I thought it may be due to family tension.... But when I got there finally after my engineering, I was told by my friend that she is dating someone else... That's was like my death foe me... Seriously... Why she was continuing relationship with me when she is dating someone.... I asked her and what she replied... You wouldn't believe it.... She said she loves me a lot but she needs some spice in life... I never done sex and all with her... Ya so. Even touching and hugging.. That's it... She was expecting more than this... I never thought she would cheat me for intimacy only.... That day I left her.... Still she calls me once in a month... But I never receive her call.... I still love her like a mad.. But I cannot trust her anymore.... And I will not love any girl again in my life ever.... This is all my life story.... Sad one |
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Edited by
tia26
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Mon 11/10/14 01:39 AM
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Thatz not every one can do.. |
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I would like to add my story too I loved a girl when I was in 9th class and she was in 8th.... I proposed her after 1 year and she said no.... But I was not able to get away from her. I had done many mad things 4 her.. Even u can't imagine a guy can do this much... Let it be... I again proposed here in my 11th class and she said yes.... She was scared as I m Sikh and she is rajput... Then I went to pune for engineering and she was doing graduation from hometown... 3 years went very good and sweet... I even once tore my arm for her and remained in hospital for 3 days because just she said can u do this for me.... That's how much I loved her... But in my fourth year of engineering... Suddenly she started behaving differently... I thought it may be due to family tension.... But when I got there finally after my engineering, I was told by my friend that she is dating someone else... That's was like my death foe me... Seriously... Why she was continuing relationship with me when she is dating someone.... I asked her and what she replied... You wouldn't believe it.... She said she loves me a lot but she needs some spice in life... I never done sex and all with her... Ya so. Even touching and hugging.. That's it... She was expecting more than this... I never thought she would cheat me for intimacy only.... That day I left her.... Still she calls me once in a month... But I never receive her call.... I still love her like a mad.. But I cannot trust her anymore.... And I will not love any girl again in my life ever.... This is all my life story.... Sad one Good suggestion.. |
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It depends n yes it may be possible.. Infact it is. And how do you define INTIMACY?
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Agree with u tia
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Agree with u tia Thankyou |
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It depends n yes it may be possible.. Infact it is. And how do you define INTIMACY? Tatz a good point.. |
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both are essential for long term relationship
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