You Bad!!

Many people try to bully mr but don't succeed I have almost gone to jail because I won't even let cops bully me and on the negativity note it is reality if u can't handle that I am sorry but life isn't always sunny and rosy if I let everything I have been thru in the past 3 yrs alone beat me I would have been dead 6 months ago but I am still standin

OK I am confused. I need someone on here who seems to be in a fragile psychological state right now telling me what and how to think (regarding making judgments about partners). doesn't make sense.

those are my judgments to make, and I will make them, thank you

You need to get a grip, stop feeling sorry for yourself.
No one owes you anything so grow up.
A little forward but it is meant to help.
How on earth is a girl supposed to be attracted to self pity.

Always amazes me that people who do the most belly aching about how everyone else is wrong.

And they are right.

Then saying how unfairly they are being judged or treated.

All the while they are the the gutless wonders, that hide in shadows, mooching off the very ones they be cry have betrayed them. Even sadder yet clinging to meaningless possessions, that are much easier replaced. than their own dignity.

I make no bones I have standards and boundry's I don't let other's tread all over. And I can do that because I pay my on way in the world and live within my means.

Why should I hand over what I worked years to acquire and maintain just because some chump thinks they are the center of the universe?

Sorry I will bring into my home the person of courage and courtesy that stands before for me proving his good name.

First of all I don't feel sorry for myself reality has been cold cruel but I have withstood everything it has thrown at me including the loss of a child because of a drunk driver I don't mooch off anyone I don't make a ton of money but I get by I don't ask anyone for anything in that regaurd so u can stuff that bs where the sun don't shine I work ev erything I get I do it on my own I don't need someone s money and its funny I have never asked anyone on a dating site for a dime but I get asked all the time for it and I am a mooch? Yeah ok smoke another 1 I don't get nor do I want any financial help from anyone how many of you get food stamps n welfare? When yoiu are able bodied to work? So don't sit there n start callin names I can't help you don't like my opinions your problem

It has been told to me over the years and miles that if you want to chanhe something you have to get out there n do it so thayts why I am here to change things I don't have the time or the access for most conventional methods so I use the option I have the internet and you stop with the attacks on me all u r doin is makin me mad and fightin back harder been fightin battles all my life of one type or another so its no big deal I don't quit and I don't run and I don't back down and there are a lot not all but a lot that need to get a grip not me wake up to reality afain sorry u can't handle the truth but it is what it is

You have posted more replies to your own topic than anyone.
Enough said

I do too. I fully expect to be judged right back tho. Lol

you've been judged...

Moe, I kiked u Earlier.

Good. It's only fair to be judged. Not criticized. Big diff

oh, chit... i reset my phone and all the autologins are off... checking it now

So true but I don't let anyone bully me I got it a lot as a kid but more than one found out this lil fat boy could fight lol I have stood toe to toe n nose to nose with cops I don't run or back down from noone I have had guns pulled on me and they ate them for their stupidity I am not violent unless I am pushed

Let me tell you something pacific star I have pulled complete strangers out of the line of fire in gang battle grounds and rescued innocent people caught in hurricanes tornadoes and floods I was on the ground at the murrah building in okc ok 2 days after the bombing I found 16 people I knew personally when doing all this I never took a dime from anyone but I am a mooch really? I have a job n I am quite good at it

i think your missing the point here...people are trying to tell you to lighten up, have fun... being on here with an attitude is not going to help you here, if your really looking to meet someone. thanks for your service, all the Americans here will thank you and respect you for that... have fun and be respectful to yourself and others and you will meet someone...

good luck and welcome

Aaw, Moe. You little softie. :)


Welcome to Mingle, driverbob42! :)

People only judge because they are still carrying baggage from past experiences. Remember that everyone is a product of their environment and you can never say why a person is so judgemental unless you truly get to know them - it could just be that they suffered before. But heres the cool thing about people like that, when you meet someone judgemental, show them that their pre notions of people are wrong, be the person that breaks down the walls and they will never forget that

Totally agree! :-)