Everytime, I know a guy. They are all after sex. At first they talkmok and when they start talking dirty, I'm disappointed. But there's one who never really mentioned sex in our conversation but he suddenly disappeared. Urgghhh;-(

Hang in there you have to weed out a garden before you get the flowers. Good luck in your search.

Hello !!!!!are U there???

"why can't guys stop talking about sex in this site?"

Onlyme20, Mingle2 is the Internet equivalent of an international nightclub. Plenty of people here think only of satisfying their every fleshly desire.

there are a few women that are the same way... i really don't get why people want to sex through a computer, seems silly to me...

but keep trying, there a couple of guys that will have a decent convo with you

Yeah I get you, but there are some nice guys on here
good luck

I get why young simpletons ( or old simpletons send sex requests)
I delete them and move on.

What pisses me off, and i'm sure you as well, Onlyme20, the ones you take the time to talk to, who are nothing but sex talk!

Those are the ones I want to punch in the face... and I'm generally not violent!

Example: Perfect sweet looking, 46 year old man. Says, Hello Tee, My name is ( blah blah) I would like to get to know you

email him back ( then its): " Hey, do you like oral sex, i'm great at oral sex"

There should be a button that will punch someone in the face!

When a woman starts out with sex talk i just send them a kick in the butt.but some weman thing thats just some kined of rednick four play. You gota love them gals from kentucky..LOL..

Why date if you don't want to do anything. You can do that alone.
It's leading us on.

To be fair (or hopefully fair at least), it's natural for men to behave like this. A male thing. I don't think they mean to offend you. It's just that men tend to be more dominant, from way back when.

no, it's not... it's called self control, and these stupid guys have none of it... where else can a guy ask for sex and not get slapped besides the internet?

If you live in Scotland and don't just want to talk about sex, PM me.

^^This.

hmm,, no one talks sex to me here,,lol

but then, I am pretty choosy in which emails I respond to and there is more often a request for phone number or email address,,,,which is an automatic discard,,,,

and like dodo said, this is an area like a bar, some people come for 'hook ups' and some come just for the company or conversation,,,,,

but there is just ALOT more of those people in one place and there is much less of the PRESSURE compared to those places where people must approach you face to fact,,,

Loads of places actually. Never been slapped by a woman in my life.

Sorry. You're right. I was being very naive there.

.
.. I talk pretty to you all the time
. my feelings are hurt now.
.. and I thought we had something special going on...

awww,,u r certainly special

seriously though, there is the subtle, playful, flirtiness some are expert at

and then there are those with no finesse who are just blatant and directly inquiring about sexual anatomy ad habits,, etc,,

I think the op maybe experiencing the latter,,,

or the email of just the shlong dangling freely...

So, the op doesn't want to get all kinky and sexed up.

Cool, if you're just looking for a BBF or sincere, committed relationship.

Just read the ops profile.

Proud of you for being a responsible young woman.