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Topic: honesty
pkh's photo
Thu 03/27/14 02:42 PM
The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.

TracySmiley's photo
Thu 03/27/14 03:03 PM
Thanks for the venting. For me it has been 7 years and though I am initially reserved, I can be very direct. People in person are often shocked by my honesty.

pkh's photo
Thu 03/27/14 03:06 PM

Thanks for the venting. For me it has been 7 years and though I am initially reserved, I can be very direct. People in person are often shocked by my honesty.
thanks for sharing. I really don't care what anyone thinks that's who I am if my honesty offends them so be it

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 03/27/14 04:48 PM
Well, I've had people on here telling me that I talk about ex partners too much and someone even made a sarcastic remark once about how it's like I'm trying to get free therapy but f**k them. I come here to talk about dating and relationships and not just to take cheap shots at people.

pkh's photo
Thu 03/27/14 04:51 PM
Well I say what I feel and someone sent me an email saying maybe I was a little to sensual in my statements. Well thats me I make no apologies

no1phD's photo
Thu 03/27/14 04:52 PM
.. 6 years. like that is 1 year 2 years. 3 years 4 years 5 years 6 years...hmm.. I knew I should have bought.. stock in a battery company..lol..jk.. you know I'm just playing pkh...flowerforyou

pkh's photo
Thu 03/27/14 04:54 PM

.. 6 years. like that is 1 year 2 years. 3 years 4 years 5 years 6 years...hmm.. I knew I should have bought.. stock in a battery company..lol..jk.. you know I'm just playing pkh...flowerforyou
lol jokes I can take and smile along with you it's rude emails not so much

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/28/14 07:47 AM

The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


I respect honesty, I'd rather hear too much than not enough to take your words into consideration.

If no one has picked this up about me yet... I detest liars.
It's an unforgivable sin to me.:angry:

pkh's photo
Fri 03/28/14 07:58 AM


The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


I respect honesty, I'd rather hear too much than not enough to take your words into consideration.

If no one has picked this up about me yet... I detest liars.
It's an unforgivable sin to me.:angry:
well I got an emsil about a comment I msde in one of my podts saying I was saking for trouble. Msybe dhe wad right. I sometimes say things before I should

pkh's photo
Fri 03/28/14 07:58 AM
Im so hating this phone

gibbs1602's photo
Fri 03/28/14 08:30 AM



The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


I respect honesty, I'd rather hear too much than not enough to take your words into consideration.

If no one has picked this up about me yet... I detest liars.
It's an unforgivable sin to me.:angry:
well I got an emsil about a comment I msde in one of my podts saying I was saking for trouble. Msybe dhe wad right. I sometimes say things before I should

Im so hating this phone rofl - I had to add this because I giggled at the statement after trying to understand what you had written :-)

Seriously though - I always feel that my speech or writing is too direct and/or rude and/or offensive, but my best friends value my honesty! to hell with what some other arbitrary person thinks - vent, and add another topic smile2


teebee79's photo
Fri 03/28/14 08:42 AM



The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


I respect honesty, I'd rather hear too much than not enough to take your words into consideration.

If no one has picked this up about me yet... I detest liars.
It's an unforgivable sin to me.:angry:
well I got an emsil about a comment I msde in one of my podts saying I was saking for trouble. Msybe dhe wad right. I sometimes say things before I should

If you said something YOU feel unsure about, then chalk it up to " Ok, I made a mistake there" and move on from it, BUT
I wouldn't take criticism from someone whose OPINION is I said something wrong!
You are a GROWN A$$ woman... you say what you wanna say... of course, within the confines of Mingle Rules and Regulations ohwell

no photo
Fri 03/28/14 09:12 AM
Edited by Feistygal on Fri 03/28/14 09:14 AM

The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


Don't feel bad. A lot of us are pretty direct. We don't mean to be insensitive, and we sure hope we don't embarrass or hurt others' feelings. But when we read some of the questions people ask in the forums, we realize there is no other way to answer those questions but honestly and directly. If that is too sensual, then so be it.

You are a fantastic woman! Don't apologize for being who you are.

pkh's photo
Fri 03/28/14 09:48 AM


The one thing I am is very honest. There's been some threads posted lately and I have given my honest opinion sometimes I speak before I think. I have not been with a man in 6 years ( really didn't have to share that) but my point is when a question is asked I answer honesty sometimes it may be a little to sensual but that's me that's who I am what I feel what I would do. if you can't be honest then don't answer. Ok done venting.


Don't feel bad. A lot of us are pretty direct. We don't mean to be insensitive, and we sure hope we don't embarrass or hurt others' feelings. But when we read some of the questions people ask in the forums, we realize there is no other way to answer those questions but honestly and directly. If that is too sensual, then so be it.

You are a fantastic woman! Don't apologize for being who you are.
ty thing is I didn't even no this lady

no photo
Fri 03/28/14 10:24 AM
I have seen many of your answers and find you to be a caring and compassionate person. So don't give someone on this site the power to hurt you. Most likely, the problem lies with him or her. We can't see into anyone else's life here, and who knows what really lies behind what they post?

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/28/14 10:28 AM



You are a fantastic woman! Don't apologize for being who you are.
ty thing is I didn't even no this lady



Ugh... That makes it worse!! Who the hell is she to judge you!:angry:

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 03/28/14 10:29 AM
Sadly, some Humans do not want honest feedback whenever they ask a question or present an argument. ohwell

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/28/14 10:34 AM

Sadly, some Humans do not want honest feedback whenever they ask a question or present an argument. ohwell


Honest feed back is one thing (( Dave)) to tell someone, that maybe they shouldn't have said that... is overstepping

no photo
Fri 03/28/14 11:29 AM

Thanks for the venting. For me it has been 7 years and though I am initially reserved, I can be very direct. People in person are often shocked by my honesty.


I know that feeling..

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 03/28/14 11:37 AM
Honesty is a great thing.....when done tactfully

I've known some very rude people, and they chalk it up as "well just being honest" when in reality they could have said the same thing in a different way that didn't require them to be rude.

Honesty is not an excuse for being rude in my opinion.

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