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Topic: Sleeping with someone on first date?
BeautyBrownEyes Joined Sat 05/17/14 Posts: 167	Sat 08/23/14 06:02 PM
lol jim

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Sat 08/23/14 06:03 PM
Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date? Absolutely!

jimmorrisoncutthroat Joined Thu 07/10/14 Posts: 246	Sat 08/23/14 06:04 PM
Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said, 1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else. 2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed.... also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided. guess who's out of mingle jail..

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Sat 08/23/14 06:06 PM
Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said, 1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else. 2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed.... also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided. Well said Miss Blondey

jimmorrisoncutthroat Joined Thu 07/10/14 Posts: 246	Sat 08/23/14 06:10 PM
Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said, 1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else. 2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed.... also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided. guess who's out of mingle jail.. interesting.. i like the way u think...Lol

jimmorrisoncutthroat Joined Thu 07/10/14 Posts: 246	Sat 08/23/14 06:16 PM
Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said, 1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else. 2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed.... also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided. guess who's out of mingle jail.. smiling an angelic smile and winking .. welcome back.. p.s i cant sleep

Erwin73 Joined Wed 03/05/14 Posts: 18	Sat 08/23/14 10:01 PM
Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date? That totally depends. It will never be the intention for me going into a date, but if there is that mutual spark and sexual attrection, why not? If it feels right, do it. But safe!

Blade256 Joined Sat 08/16/14 Posts: 1	Sun 08/24/14 02:01 AM
Mmmm sexy I like your response

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sun 08/24/14 02:08 AM
Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said, 1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else. 2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed.... also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided. thank you for summing up my thoughts exactly, but I think some hold sex up on a really high pedestal, and if either if the parties have this view than at least one would have to compromise. but that brings me to an answer for bbeyes, I don't think that me 'waiting' has anything to do with respect and understanding at least not in the way you think. what I would do though is "respect" her views and "understand: that she is probably not a good match for me and I'd still move on.

bobspock Joined Mon 05/05/14 Posts: 13	Sun 08/24/14 02:12 AM
if we both like each other, of course. this is not the dark ages where you go around mumbling about religion and imaginary rules of conduct. you get horny and you are with someone you like, go for it.

Kimchin123 Joined Mon 08/18/14 Posts: 2	Sun 08/24/14 07:39 AM
You're very cute

joeyy66 Joined Sun 08/24/14 Posts: 6	Sun 08/24/14 07:54 AM
Sure...lol

joeyy66 Joined Sun 08/24/14 Posts: 6	Sun 08/24/14 07:58 AM
I'm always ready...;) LOL

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Mon 08/25/14 03:37 PM
i do all the time much fun n no weird feeling after

Heavensplygrnd Joined Tue 08/26/14 Posts: 5	Tue 08/26/14 02:20 PM
and yet wat if u only get him 1ns and 2 morrow he is gone take it as it *** as long as u enjoy it and not regret it

Heavensplygrnd Joined Tue 08/26/14 Posts: 5	Tue 08/26/14 02:21 PM
and yet wat if u only get him 1ns and 2 morrow he is gone take it as it *** as long as u enjoy it and not regret it

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 08/26/14 02:38 PM
Eight out of ten cross dressers agree.....first date sex is soo much better with a condom.

iamralphomalza Joined Thu 08/28/14 Posts: 5	Thu 08/28/14 02:43 AM
Liked that post of yours. Add me up

larsonc Joined Fri 06/20/14 Posts: 2377	Thu 08/28/14 09:56 AM
My first dates usually end up like this ...

colourfulanderson Joined Tue 08/26/14 Posts: 1	Thu 08/28/14 11:30 AM
Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date? its nt right to sleep with anyone on a first date