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Topic: older women, younger men
farooq4321 Joined Tue 10/28/14 Posts: 1	Sun 11/09/14 08:10 AM
i think it does if the man is old mature enough

tenchisnake Joined Thu 07/10/14 Posts: 1	Sun 11/09/14 05:59 PM
Why not....If there is attraction, it can work.

starbellie1979 Joined Sun 11/09/14 Posts: 15	Sun 11/09/14 10:24 PM
Personally I like my men to be older. I just feel weird dating younger guys. But to each their own. I don't see anything wrong with it and anything's possible.

dashing_dude24 Joined Sun 11/09/14 Posts: 1	Mon 11/10/14 05:39 AM
i do not know ..lets try hehe :D

bettver Joined Sun 11/09/14 Posts: 9	Mon 11/10/14 06:24 AM
It can work - a lot depends on the level of maturity of the people involved.

Tm007141 Joined Thu 10/23/14 Posts: 12	Mon 11/10/14 09:24 AM
Like everything else, if the two people are adults why not? I dated a woman 10 yrs my senior for over a year

mcchris19 Joined Mon 11/10/14 Posts: 1	Mon 11/10/14 06:07 PM
it sure works and it also depends on what they both want

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76360	Mon 11/10/14 07:35 PM
It all depends on the ones involved.. It will work for some and not for others... Youngest I have dated is 12 years younger and well that is once I got in my 50's..only lasted 6 months but it had nothing to do with age... Before that they were always older then me.... Heck I figure if you get a long with them and they treat you good don't worry about the age.. It is all in how they treat you and make you feel....

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Mon 11/10/14 09:48 PM
Does older women, younger men work out in the long run? the ones that I know of didn't work out. In each case it was the guy who ended it. Don't really know what to read into that. I read that the young guy was finished using the older woman and went on to something else.

raj1104 Joined Sun 03/25/12 Posts: 2	Tue 11/11/14 02:41 AM
i love to date olderwomen

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Tue 11/11/14 02:56 AM Edited by sybariticguy on Tue 11/11/14 02:57 AM
There seems to be a fallacy in our thinking here in the US in that we judge relationships by their longevity rather than their quality. In contrast, the French judge a relationship by its quality and what is being shared by the two people involved and that relationships need a variety of issues to prosper and just having shared time may be less than sufficient. Given the average person is now married three times you have to consider that quality and its lack may be a force in why relationships need to end. Not all relationships are meant to be lifelong just as friendships can last a short while or a whole lifetime but what seems to be most propitious is the quality of the experience not its duration.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 11/11/14 02:58 AM
It all depends on the ones involved.. It will work for some and not for others... Youngest I have dated is 12 years younger and well that is once I got in my 50's..only lasted 6 months but it had nothing to do with age... Before that they were always older then me.... Heck I figure if you get a long with them and they treat you good don't worry about the age.. It is all in how they treat you and make you feel.... Yes, true .. but still .. what the heck do you talk about? 12 yrs younger than me is 36.. what I notice with people that age is that they think they got it all worked out, but that they don't get a lot of deeper things, simply because they still lack life experience .. I would not be able to live with that .. If someone constantly doesn't get things, me .. not what I want in a partner .. sex is another issue but a LTR, nah .. 5 yrs younger is sort of where I draw the line ..because of the mental click ..

fmc2c Joined Mon 09/15/14 Posts: 2	Wed 11/12/14 10:35 PM
i like older ladies and i'm 38.

Ljubavnik17 Joined Mon 11/03/14 Posts: 1	Thu 11/13/14 02:05 PM
Does older women, younger men work out in the long run?

shahul95 Joined Sun 11/02/14 Posts: 1	Fri 11/14/14 06:53 AM
Hii..how yo

lowflyingangel Joined Tue 07/17/12 Posts: 2	Fri 11/14/14 08:01 AM
Dated younger men for the last 20 years (10 yrs diff the most) needless to say never ended up working out - I am attracted to them more because I am a youthful soul but....going to try closer to my age SIGH

multisynce Joined Sat 11/08/14 Posts: 1	Fri 11/14/14 08:05 AM
I think so .my photo is really bad but im 44 years old and my problem im look alot younger than i really am (honestly )I havnt dated anbody close to my age in years theyt have all been 10 to 15 years younger.but i really have a thing for older plus size women there is just smthing about an older women to that is really comfortable .Not taboo, but kinda nurturing and warm.

Sonushahkkc Joined Fri 11/14/14 Posts: 1	Fri 11/14/14 12:49 PM
Yes of course

ikaruz07 Joined Fri 11/14/14 Posts: 4	Fri 11/14/14 04:24 PM


navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 11/17/14 10:20 AM
INdeed in my 20s I dated one such male in his twenties,, already the man of his household of no father and younger siblings,, he paid bills, looked after family and took care of business,,,, ,,he had an issue with possessiveness, but that's not age exclusive,, in my experience my present peers (in their 40s and 50s) remind me quite a bit of him,, My niece dated a man in his mid 20s. Seemed like a solid guy; had a good job; adopted her daughter, and had a child with her. Then suddenly out of the blue; he decided to have an affair. He divorced her and is paying no child support and is with another woman. He also has another woman in another province that he is not paying child support to. Yeah; a fine example of a mature 20 year old.