I've read this somewhere:

"Expect less from others and more from yourself. Your achievements will make you happier more than any person ever could."

Sounds good to me. How about you?

Any taught...? :-)

Sometimes another person is what makes you the happiest person alive. I have been there. Even with my own success and achievements I was not completely happy until I met and had a relationship with that person.

I know what you mean. I have been there too. Not expecting to be there again. :-)

Hello , ONJ! Good to see you!

Whichever way, choose the route that best suits you at the moment. Things change, and nothing is stagnant. So, what does not work today, may work tomorrow. God bless!

So good to see you again Ame!

this reminded me that I am in control of myself and not others..I have embraced many beautiful memories in my life, but the one I admire the most was when I met him..

I understand. I met someone too and spend over 20 beautiful years of life together. I wish both of you all the best and to have many, many years of creating beautiful memories together.
It is vary rare. Cherish it.

Have always heard that until your happy with your self, someone else cannot make you happy...

And it is true. :-)

thank you..
(((ONJ)))

So happy for the 2 of you and the other new couples here too! Hope we have more and more success stories here....

So good to see you too....missed you in the forums!

I missed you too! (((HUGS)))

It seems to be great advice before meeting another person,

while being with another person,

and after leaving a relationship with another person.



Like texasgal said/alluded to: "Ya gotta love yourself, before[/during/after] someone else can[/will/did]!"

I believe I understood what you meant to say.

Life is a learning process and everything changes over time, however some principles and basic standards still remain and pass the test of time and all the changes one can go through.

Lowering them means betraying yourself. If you betray yourself, there is no love. For yourself or others.

Sounds good to me!!!!!!

Thread Title: What do you think about it?

My Answer:



He has more hair than a Melmacian.

He does indeed Dodo!

it seems it cannot be missed that to strive for excellence of self achievement, not expecting others to be as one self, be quite totally the opposite in many and most cases than the words of "love your self"...

seems "love your self" was quite possibly the most harmful notion ever phrased into human words and accepted by many of a modern mentally ill world...

love your self.

it cannot be missed the words "love your self", adopted most for the self guide, so always spoken of most as the self guide, create all the following attributes...

self-centeredness,

egomania,

egocentricity,

self-interest,

selfishness,

self-seeking,

self-serving,

self-regard,

self-love,

narcissism,

self-admiration,

vanity,

conceit,

self-importance;

boastfulness

and few not mentally ill would deem these traits as any excellence.

but rather the opposite of all excellence.

peace

@davidben1

Please try to be simple and direct when replying to me, IF you are replying to me ...?
Sometimes the way your express yourself is very difficult for me to understand since this is not my first language.
Thank you! :-)