I'm here for some weeks now and I find this really annoying. Every mail I get, is scam.

I have met lots of people from here, actually.
Never met a scammer though.

The logic is, do not ENGAGE them in any way,
report them, forget them.

Don't worry ... I find out what they are pretty soon.

It's just ... I'd like to meet real people here

Enjoining the forums is the ticket :-)

Okay .... I see ;-)

Met about a dozen scammers here. You are right Soufiehere, block and ignore....

About a dozen? That's nearly the daily amount.
That might happen, because I live in Germany and those scammers who want to make us believe they live in the USA think, that someone frome Europe is easier to convince, that they really come fron the States.
I don't know, it's just what I guess

The Keyword is Met, I have only "MET" one in person (on this Site), she was a fisherperson and kayaker and she came up and camped the weekend with me, she found someone soon after but is free again and plans to come up to my shrimp camp when they start running. The secret is lots of similar photos and interests, and both ours photos were date stamped so we knew what to expect. No intimate encounter, just a nice fireside conversation, meal, a few drinks and a wonderful paddle in the wilderness and weekend together. The second one I met on the internet spent a whole summer playing in Alaska with me after only knowing each other one month. IT WORKS! JUST BE CAREFUL AND VERY PICK WHO YOU MEET!!

Didn't met them in person, only on line. They really do their best they could to let you fall for them and they ask you for money before even meeting them.
They really thought they can outsmart most women here. LOL Some were afraid and deactivate their account some thick face are still around.

Losers and they screw it for kind hearted real people.

And yes I have met some very nice people from here.....so yes it just takes time like in the real world...good luck....

To be fair, I do met nice people here too. Thats the reason why I reactivated my account.

After a few of the scammer emails, you will know right away that they are scammers. Usually you can tell by the way they talk and the spelling of some words. Just delete and move on. We all get them at one time or another...

I have been lucky enough to meet a few people (men and womem) from here. They were all very nice and I had no problems.

The forums are the way to go. Scammers do not seem to spend much time there for obvious reasons.

There are lots of real people here. Just make an effort and see what happens!

I've met four people from this site...None of them were scammers, but all of them were (and are) super people and good friends....

And then there are the real people we share enough to know they are real!

Happy New Year Leigh!

Thank you ((((((Joe)))))) ...Happy New Year to you and your "other" half! ...

Yes, but look at the posts you have. I have a couple thousand on another site and have quite a few friends on there, most that I really know have come from get to gathers we have a few times a year at Old Town and the beach here in Florida (think my profile says Alaska..there only four months when it is warm).

have met half a dozen really nice people here and am dating one now have also met my share of scammers but they give themselves away

I get a lot of scammers..and young horny little fellas...but I actually get a lot of mail from "real" men as well..unfortunately not any within 200 miles that I would share any interests with...a lot of wonderful gentlemen too far away...but all is good.. I have a great time playing around in the forums...and even though the men I've been attracted to are distant...I have had some pleasant chats with a few..hugs and happy thought to all..