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Topic: Do people really read your profile first before sending you
Kiwikween's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:20 PM
Hello :smile:
Newbie here..just wondering if people really do read your profile first before sending you a message?
I've had a few enquiries BUT the answers to the question is in my profile frustrated
Also what is the general opinion of the dating site? what

mikey5360's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:23 PM
This has been discussed off and on quite regularly and it seems that a large number of members don't bother reading profiles before they send messages.....
crazy I know and very frustrating and time wasting....

The site is very good and it works....like all dating sites though...be careful and stay safe....drinker

m3k4y's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:26 PM
It's a must..but some don't bother...it's fun in here..so good luck and enjoy. .flowerforyou

Kiwikween's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:26 PM
Thanks for your response waving

mightymoe's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:33 PM
why? anyone can type anything they want, so it's not really a big deal...

justme659's photo
Wed 01/07/15 08:36 PM
I think that 8 out of 10 viewers to my profile do not take the time to read the profile before writing. I figure that they like to look at the pictures and make up the story they think that fits... like a picture book. JMO!

Kiwikween's photo
Wed 01/07/15 09:04 PM
Yip anyone can 'type' and its not a big deal either spock but the main objective of my query was 'read' sad2

Kiwikween's photo
Wed 01/07/15 09:06 PM
:laughing: like a picture book..ahh I get it now..that makes more sense than any thing else :laughing:

mightymoe's photo
Wed 01/07/15 09:17 PM

Yip anyone can 'type' and its not a big deal either spock but the main objective of my query was 'read' sad2


ok, then read the profiles, i don't care either way... you ask then argue??? whats the point of that? people lie about everything, might as well read a childrens fairy tale... good luck to ya, have fun reading...

Rock's photo
Wed 01/07/15 09:18 PM
Profiles have words?
Say it isn't so! shocked

jacktrades's photo
Wed 01/07/15 09:38 PM
I always read the profile before I email because I want to know if there are any common interests.I like mingle because I like to talk with people in different places but as far as locals I guess it depends on the population of your location.

Amelinng's photo
Wed 01/07/15 10:13 PM
Welcome, Kiwikween! flowerforyou flowerforyou

I guess it is true some people don't read the profiles at all.... cos' their messages to you will reveal that they are ignorant of even whereabouts you are, how old you are, and etc etc., all that we have listed down there. Either that......or they can't read, or arrogant like some of the posters here are! But let not that deter you, cos' there are lots of decent real men out here too......nice people, really!

Good start...jump into the forums! And stay safe!

no photo
Wed 01/07/15 10:16 PM
People read my profile very carefully

zzzippy56's photo
Wed 01/07/15 10:33 PM
Edited by zzzippy56 on Wed 01/07/15 10:51 PM

Welcome, Kiwikween! flowerforyou flowerforyou

I guess it is true some people don't read the profiles at all.... cos' their messages to you will reveal that they are ignorant of even whereabouts you are, how old you are, and etc etc., all that we have listed down there. Either that......or they can't read, or arrogant like some of the posters here are! But let not that deter you, cos' there are lots of decent real men out here too......nice people, really!

Good start...jump into the forums! And stay safe!


Welcome to mingle....flowers
Hello amelin.....flowers
Thank you for the compliment....waving
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Amelinng's photo
Wed 01/07/15 10:42 PM


Welcome, Kiwikween! flowerforyou flowerforyou

I guess it is true some people don't read the profiles at all.... cos' their messages to you will reveal that they are ignorant of even whereabouts you are, how old you are, and etc etc., all that we have listed down there. Either that......or they can't read, or arrogant like some of the posters here are! But let not that deter you, cos' there are lots of decent real men out here too......nice people, really!

Good start...jump into the forums! And stay safe!


Welcome to mingle....flowers


Here is a good example of one of those real, decent and nice men here in Mingles! But he is taken....laugh laugh laugh

:thumbsup: Hi Zippy! flowerforyou flowerforyou

DavidCommaGeek's photo
Thu 01/08/15 06:31 PM
I read a profile if the woman actually has something to SAY... but I'm pretty selective in my search process to begin with, so I only get to a dozen profiles in a search session. That's not too many to read through.
A lot of profiles - men and women - just have one or two lines, or a short list of things they're looking for and offering. That's not really sufficient to get my interest. I'm looking for at least one good paragraph. (This is also helpful to show whether or not she can spell and use grammar and punctuation correctly, which is a pet peeve of mine.)
Even if a profile does catch my interest, usually I'll only send a smile/wink/nudge/whatever, as an expression of interest. Then it's up to her to take a look at my profile and see if the interest is mutual.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 01/08/15 06:34 PM

Hello :smile:
Newbie here..just wondering if people really do read your profile first before sending you a message?
I've had a few enquiries BUT the answers to the question is in my profile frustrated
Also what is the general opinion of the dating site? what


This website is not strictly a dating site. It is a socializing site.

JUTEBOX80's photo
Thu 01/08/15 06:48 PM
ONLY IF RESPOND TO NUDGE

ladyof3's photo
Thu 01/08/15 07:19 PM

Yip anyone can 'type' and its not a big deal either spock but the main objective of my query was 'read' sad2


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 01/08/15 07:24 PM

Hello :smile:
Newbie here..just wondering if people really do read your profile first before sending you a message?
I've had a few enquiries BUT the answers to the question is in my profile frustrated
Also what is the general opinion of the dating site? what


Generally yes if there is something to read in the profile to read

Depends on how much time I have to spend rereading to find the answer if I missed it the first time reading it.

It is a dating site, called mingle2

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