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Topic: I feel women don't have choice
Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Wed 01/14/15 09:20 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 01/14/15 09:27 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. This ^^ surprises me...Women have been asking men out for decades...We understand the fear of rejection men "were" expected to endure and we are willing to share it with you...It's called equality....

Redbutterfly098 Joined Tue 08/19/14 Posts: 2761	Wed 01/14/15 09:36 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. I am raise up in a society of conservative people. When I meet the man I love before I notice that he is ashame to say what he want to say. What i did is I kept on joking with him through text teling him I like him...I love him! Then one time when we meet he seriosly ask me to repeat what i say on text.hehehe

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Wed 01/14/15 09:50 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Why the broad generalization of women? Are you waiting for a woman to ask you for a date?

DavidCommaGeek Joined Thu 01/08/15 Posts: 537	Wed 01/14/15 10:45 AM
I have seen enough profiles on various dating sites, of women why say they're "not afraid" to go after the men they're interested in, or invite him out first, or pay for dinner on the first date, etc. All I can say is that it hasn't happened to me yet. Not legitimately (bots and scammers have contacted me first - just got one this morning). Quite a few women are willing to take things to the next step once I've sent some sort of nudge/wink/smile/opener, but I haven't yet been contacted by a woman first, who was actually interested in dating or a relationship.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 01/14/15 10:53 AM
I think women do ask men out. By now this is pretty much a non issue. some women still prefer men to ask them first and that is fine too. some men prefer to do the asking. it is an individual thing where there is no right and wrong.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 01/14/15 10:55 AM
I have seen enough profiles on various dating sites, of women why say they're "not afraid" to go after the men they're interested in, or invite him out first, or pay for dinner on the first date, etc. All I can say is that it hasn't happened to me yet. Not legitimately (bots and scammers have contacted me first - just got one this morning). Quite a few women are willing to take things to the next step once I've sent some sort of nudge/wink/smile/opener, but I haven't yet been contacted by a woman first, who was actually interested in dating or a relationship. Some things are best left unsaid David...

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 01/14/15 11:09 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. I have asked guys out; they said no. End of story.

bsisay17 Joined Wed 01/14/15 Posts: 2	Wed 01/14/15 01:47 PM
For me I think I will not take a girl if she ask me seriously. It could be I have Stone Age thinking

bsisay17 Joined Wed 01/14/15 Posts: 2	Wed 01/14/15 01:47 PM
For me I think I will not take a girl if she ask me seriously. It could be I have Stone Age thinking

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 01/14/15 01:53 PM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Because,some put an age old rule...."woman asking a man out=loose"!!! And then,Mr will,actually,not take her seriously....

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 01:44 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. This ^^ surprises me...Women have been asking men out for decades...We understand the fear of rejection men "were" expected to endure and we are willing to share it with you...It's called equality.... It is very rare to see women asking men out apart from the fear of rejection they feel the men will just use abuse and dump them but it's not true in all cases

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 01:49 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Because,some put an age old rule...."woman asking a man out=loose"!!! And then,Mr will,actually,not take her seriously.... That's not true.. Then men asking women out are also loose if you want to put it that way, both men and women are equal in all ways especially emotionally so women should go for what they like and stop waiting for it to come to them

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 01:50 AM
Pfft .. I have no problem asking men out .... Feeling in my pocket and switching on my taser .. Laughing Nice one... Keep it up babe

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 01:51 AM
For me I think I will not take a girl if she ask me seriously. It could be I have Stone Age thinking Yeah I think you have Stone Age thinking... This is the 21 century buddy the jet age.. so change

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Thu 01/15/15 02:42 AM
I think most of them don't verbally( may be wrong).. but they do with their eyes.. that's really the only signal you need.

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 02:57 AM
I think most of them don't verbally( may be wrong).. but they do with their eyes.. that's really the only signal you need. Yeah do always do it indirectly but it's that okay?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Thu 01/15/15 03:15 AM
I think most of them don't verbally( may be wrong).. but they do with their eyes.. that's really the only signal you need. This ^^^^^

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Thu 01/15/15 03:15 AM
I don't know about indirectly. I don't ever remember indirectly getting " the eye"... not that I noticed anyway. I just base it on my experience of actually getting it directly.. that's usually enough for me.

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Thu 01/15/15 03:25 AM
I think most of them don't verbally( may be wrong).. but they do with their eyes.. that's really the only signal you need. This ^^^^^ true...that's when us women have some urges....