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Topic: I feel women don't have choice
Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Thu 01/15/15 03:37 AM Edited by Maxisu on Thu 01/15/15 03:52 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. More seriously...I have a different take on this...and I'm also old fashioned. I am old fashioned in that way...Spartacus old fashioned....he needs to be a strong and powerful fighter !!..Like I see myself a princess and you need to be the most brave, smart, witty, idealistic, fair knight that fights and WINS over all the other contestants and in return you got my loyalty and I know I need someone stronger than me. Soo...I don't have a problem asking a guy out or making contact but that wouldn't be for romance. I'm no competition for aggressive girls as the guys that fall there are too weak for me...and the very shy guys...well it ends up in frustration and communication problems on both sides....(it happened once and although I didn't want to brake his heart I still did). ....the only downside of the Spartacus fighters...usually those guys charm most every girl...lol...but ..as long as I get enough attention to have no doubts I'm good...

Stainlessjoseph Joined Sun 09/07/14 Posts: 52	Thu 01/15/15 04:41 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. More seriously...I have a different take on this...and I'm also old fashioned. I am old fashioned in that way...Spartacus old fashioned....he needs to be a strong and powerful fighter !!..Like I see myself a princess and you need to be the most brave, smart, witty, idealistic, fair knight that fights and WINS over all the other contestants and in return you got my loyalty and I know I need someone stronger than me. Soo...I don't have a problem asking a guy out or making contact but that wouldn't be for romance. I'm no competition for aggressive girls as the guys that fall there are too weak for me...and the very shy guys...well it ends up in frustration and communication problems on both sides....(it happened once and although I didn't want to brake his heart I still did). ....the only downside of the Spartacus fighters...usually those guys charm most every girl...lol...but ..as long as I get enough attention to have no doubts I'm good... Wow.. Very intriguing but this is not Spartacus, so in this present time what will be your substitute for Spartacus since men don't get to fight to prove their strength

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Thu 01/15/15 05:07 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. More seriously...I have a different take on this...and I'm also old fashioned. I am old fashioned in that way...Spartacus old fashioned....he needs to be a strong and powerful fighter !!..Like I see myself a princess and you need to be the most brave, smart, witty, idealistic, fair knight that fights and WINS over all the other contestants and in return you got my loyalty and I know I need someone stronger than me. Soo...I don't have a problem asking a guy out or making contact but that wouldn't be for romance. I'm no competition for aggressive girls as the guys that fall there are too weak for me...and the very shy guys...well it ends up in frustration and communication problems on both sides....(it happened once and although I didn't want to brake his heart I still did). ....the only downside of the Spartacus fighters...usually those guys charm most every girl...lol...but ..as long as I get enough attention to have no doubts I'm good... Wow.. Very intriguing but this is not Spartacus, so in this present time what will be your substitute for Spartacus since men don't get to fight to prove their strength ooh...trust me from the mails I get there ARE still lots of fighters...ha,ha...and one of them really managed to win me over...little by little...(that's the exciting thing in the process) (of course I mean most in a metaphorical way...although now...hmm wouldn't mind seeing them all fighting shirtless with just a little of leather covering them)

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Thu 01/15/15 05:11 AM
It doesn't matter who asks who out, just take that chance before someone else asks her? If she says no, she says no, but if she says yes, well done and best of luck!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 01/15/15 11:08 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Look dude. Those chicks in porno's who just grab a man's privates and take control of him?.....Yeah.....those chicks are not real.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 01/15/15 11:10 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Look dude. Those chicks in porno's who just grab a man's privates and take control of him?.....Yeah.....those chicks are not real. I beg to differ.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Thu 01/15/15 11:35 AM Edited by tanyaann on Thu 01/15/15 11:36 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. Look dude. Those chicks in porno's who just grab a man's privates and take control of him?.....Yeah.....those chicks are not real. I beg to differ. We wimmins have our moments. ;)

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 01/15/15 11:41 AM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. I think its preference,, some women prefer to be asked. Some women prefer the man to initiate an expression of interest. When it comes to relationships,, there are just too many people to feel like I have to 'go for it'. I am ok enough on my own to wait. But there are plenty of women who will ask as well. I dont think its about a lack of choice. I think choice is specifically WHY some do and some dont.

subn Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 9	Sat 01/17/15 06:15 PM
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subn Joined Sun 10/12/14 Posts: 9	Sat 01/17/15 06:15 PM
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tamitateo Joined Sun 12/21/14 Posts: 822	Sat 01/17/15 06:49 PM
I have seen enough profiles on various dating sites, of women why say they're "not afraid" to go after the men they're interested in, or invite him out first, or pay for dinner on the first date, etc. All I can say is that it hasn't happened to me yet. Not legitimately (bots and scammers have contacted me first - just got one this morning). Quite a few women are willing to take things to the next step once I've sent some sort of nudge/wink/smile/opener, but I haven't yet been contacted by a woman first, who was actually interested in dating or a relationship. Some things are best left unsaid David... Love the new pic pretty lady! ok lets explain this to the men one more time, at least for me, biology, the egg does not chase the sperm at least for this girl, maybe I was born in the wrong century but I like to be chased, it is my weakness, oh well.

leggykelly Joined Wed 01/07/15 Posts: 3	Sat 01/17/15 07:24 PM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. I think its preference,, some women prefer to be asked. Some women prefer the man to initiate an expression of interest. When it comes to relationships,, there are just too many people to feel like I have to 'go for it'. I am ok enough on my own to wait. But there are plenty of women who will ask as well. I dont think its about a lack of choice. I think choice is specifically WHY some do and some dont. It's almost as if women were individual human beings, with their own wants, needs, desires and personalities. What a radical notion.

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sat 01/17/15 07:46 PM Edited by m3k4y on Sat 01/17/15 07:47 PM
If I have the money to pay for the expenses in our date ..I would. .why not?? Lol

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Sat 01/17/15 07:54 PM
Why is it so difficult for a woman to ask a man out? Why do the women always wait for men to ask them out even if they like the man they still won't confront the man... Is it that they don't have their spec of man.. I think it's wrong to like something and don't go for it. I think its preference,, some women prefer to be asked. Some women prefer the man to initiate an expression of interest. When it comes to relationships,, there are just too many people to feel like I have to 'go for it'. I am ok enough on my own to wait. But there are plenty of women who will ask as well. I dont think its about a lack of choice. I think choice is specifically WHY some do and some dont. I'm still waiting for msharmony to ask me out.