Topic: Mutiple Wives
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Tue 03/17/15 05:39 PM
More wives = more problems

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Tue 03/17/15 05:50 PM
I watched both shows of The King And I and it was neat how even with all his wives, the king fell in love with one woman he thought he could never have and said he knew then how one could love just one woman.

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Sun 03/22/15 02:36 PM
Don't believe in it..won't be apart of it.

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Sun 03/22/15 03:26 PM
I really find it fascinating how more Western Societies are so complacent about Women who'll service more than one Man, and Heaven-forbid those same Women will oblige absolute fidelity of one-Man with themselves.

Such complacency makes sure the Abortion Clinics never stop pouring blood, and countless second-rate Mistresses never get the rights of inheritance with their bastard children, as the first-come-first-serve, Wife.

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In Islam, (In Contrast) all Women recognize that fact that the children whom they raise have absolute rights of inheritance from the one Husband whom they may jointly share.

Every Wife's child is hers, and her Husband's... Case Closed !

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So, who's society is more IMMORAL ? spock

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Sun 03/22/15 06:24 PM

I went to a church here that says that is okay. They said if we went to a culture that a man had alot of wives which wife would we say is not his wife? And who gives us that right? I think alot of guys that can't love just one woman feel the need to have many "wives" I mean the ones who keep the same women for years and try to hide it from the others like the insurance salesman who had all the happy wives who met eachother on t.v. and he made them all happy even though he broke the laws here marrying them and they did not find out about eachother until his funeral. I say if the women do not mind sharing why not? I saw a film about a place in Africa they are so short on women it is a custom to have alot of men to one woman and if the men can get such a wife they do anything to please her. Kind of cool. If he or she can make the spouses happy, why not? True, for certain offices it said the husband of one wife... too many wives can be hard to have time for and please sometimes. But I see nothing wrong with it, just personally I do not like sharing.


I have seen many churches, that was NOT a Christian Church. That was/ is a Cult.
Letvitican Law/ Judeo Christian..
Is anyone you have sex with you are married to (excluding raping a virgin- who is deemed totally innocent).

If you disagree with their teaching.. RUN & cut all of them out of your life.
:angel:


On a comical note-
Why not more than one husband?
All virgins, covered head to toe, & walking behind you in blissful silence

rofl .
Hhaa. Or that's just my fantasy.


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Sun 03/22/15 06:38 PM
I have the same fantasy. There was an award winning foreign film about a woman who had 3 husbands I've yet to see, "Me, You, Them" (2000) directed by Andrucha Waddington. I love men because they have always been so kind to me. I used to be bullied by women. I am cool with both but I always get a warm feeling when it comes to sweet, kind men. I don't want to choose just one husband if I like/love more than one man at the same time. But it's only a fantasy so don't get excited. Lol

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Sun 03/22/15 06:52 PM

I have the same fantasy. There was an award winning foreign film about a woman who had 3 husbands I've yet to see, "Me, You, Them" (2000) directed by Andrucha Waddington. I love men because they have always been so kind to me. I used to be bullied by women. I am cool with both but I always get a warm feeling when it comes to sweet, kind men. I don't want to choose just one husband if I like/love more than one man at the same time. But it's only a fantasy so don't get excited. Lol


I definitely will check out that movie. Thanks.
And you may want to check. Cultural Anthropology-non literate groups.
There was or perhaps still is a group that if a woman marries she marries all his brothers also & is head of the house. But all her children are " the men's family ". There have been a few groups like this in history.

And now we are way... offtopic

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Sun 03/22/15 07:00 PM
I like our topic better. laugh rofl

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Mon 03/23/15 07:49 AM
i believe that those who agree with the idea of one man having more than one wife , should agree with the idea of one woman having as many husbands ...

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Mon 03/23/15 07:53 AM
there is another Facet to it!
Multiple Mothers-in-Law!laugh

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Mon 03/23/15 08:02 AM
.. all I gotta say is..
nothing wrong with multiples at all.
.:angel:

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Mon 03/23/15 12:53 PM


I believe that those who agree with the idea of one man having more than one wife, should agree with the idea of one woman having as many husbands ...



And who's kid is she carrying, Mister Fox ?

Will 'You' be subsidizing and supporting and leaving an inheritance to the 'Other Guy's' kid ? spock

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Mon 03/23/15 03:54 PM
Edited by Estelle79 on Mon 03/23/15 04:02 PM

I really find it fascinating how more Western Societies are so complacent about Women who'll service more than one Man, and Heaven-forbid those same Women will oblige absolute fidelity of one-Man with themselves.

Such complacency makes sure the Abortion Clinics never stop pouring blood, and countless second-rate Mistresses never get the rights of inheritance with their bastard children, as the first-come-first-serve, Wife.

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In Islam, (In Contrast) all Women recognize that fact that the children whom they raise have absolute rights of inheritance from the one Husband whom they may jointly share.

Every Wife's child is hers, and her Husband's... Case Closed !

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So, who's society is more IMMORAL ? spock


Interesting point there.
Although even if the man and woman are married there is no proof of who the father really is unless you do a DNA check (only the woman can know if she only slept with her husband).

I agree that women in western society have lost their rightful place. And this loss is cloaked in feminism, but the kind that is anti woman. In the west women are forced to go out and work because of this false feminism. And yet still are left with all the childcare and housework at home. Then when the man cheats it's because she was too tired or unattractive for sex..

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Mon 03/23/15 03:57 PM
i cant even keep a girl friend let alone multibl wives, thats to funny.

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Mon 03/23/15 04:35 PM



Interesting point there.
Although even if the man and woman are married there is no proof of who the father really is unless you do a DNA check (only the woman can know if she only slept with her husband).

I agree that women in western society have lost their rightful place. And this loss is cloaked in feminism, but the kind that is anti woman. In the west women are forced to go out and work because of this false feminism. And yet still are left with all the childcare and housework at home. Then when the man cheats it's because she was too tired or unattractive for sex..




Yes, these prerequisites predate DNA testing.

In the Quran it forbids the dismissing of a older or less attractive wife for a new one.

It's important to note that if that older of less attractive wife doesn't what to resume being intimate with her husband despite his willingness to render all marital-dues... He can still have another wife who'll co-operate.

Just-so-long as all wives involved including the earliest have rights of inheritance to both themselves and their children.

Last-but-not-least, 'ANY MAN' having an affair with a married Woman is fully entitled to the Death-Penalty, along with her.

That is why the oldest Ecclesiastical definition of Adultery always includes a Married Women.

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Mon 03/23/15 04:40 PM
I think a man should have more than one wife because what happens when one gets pregnant... he has to look elsewhere. And he has to do it secretly too or he could lose half his stuff. Women have to understand that a man has needs.

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Mon 03/23/15 04:48 PM
In reply to red6mist...

The fact of the matter is just because a lone-wife is pregnant isn't an excuse for finding another. :laughing:

For the propose of mere conjugal relations a pregnant woman can still have relations with her husband till less than a month from full-term.


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Mon 03/23/15 04:49 PM
Women have needs too. Like we need a man who will go to work and support us. Running the streets and running after another woman/women is not looking for a job.

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Mon 03/23/15 04:55 PM
The main reason a Man should be predisposed to marrying another Woman is that he simply loves each and all Women for their-own merit.

I freely admit that each of the Women in my life are Women whom I love for each-their-own reasons.

Is that so Evil ? spock

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Mon 03/23/15 04:56 PM


I really find it fascinating how more Western Societies are so complacent about Women who'll service more than one Man, and Heaven-forbid those same Women will oblige absolute fidelity of one-Man with themselves.

Such complacency makes sure the Abortion Clinics never stop pouring blood, and countless second-rate Mistresses never get the rights of inheritance with their bastard children, as the first-come-first-serve, Wife.

******************************************************************************************************************************************

In Islam, (In Contrast) all Women recognize that fact that the children whom they raise have absolute rights of inheritance from the one Husband whom they may jointly share.

Every Wife's child is hers, and her Husband's... Case Closed !

******************************************************************************************************************************************

So, who's society is more IMMORAL ? spock


Interesting point there.
Although even if the man and woman are married there is no proof of who the father really is unless you do a DNA check (only the woman can know if she only slept with her husband).

I agree that women in western society have lost their rightful place. And this loss is cloaked in feminism, but the kind that is anti woman. In the west women are forced to go out and work because of this false feminism. And yet still are left with all the childcare and housework at home. Then when the man cheats it's because she was too tired or unattractive for sex..


" Then when the man cheats it'd because SHE was too tired or unattractive for sex "


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

You won't win any "Western" women or Euros with that thinking...
Men cheat because they want to or they think they can or will get away with it. No other reason.
Blaming the woman/ wife is just too funny & too much of a convenience
People are responsible for their own behaviour & actions.