Topic: List 10 Can't Stands (Traits You Prefer Not To Deal With)
BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:43 PM
List 10 Can't Stands (which traits on which you'��d prefer not to compromise. Things you would not want to put up with in a relationship. Therefore, you would not rather be in a relationship with that person. These will be different for everybody. I will start :smile: (Don't list more than 10, because no one is perfect, and more than 10 would really be too many. There is no perfect person, if you wait around for the perfect person, you will be alone, because no one is perfect) .

Smoking
Drinking like a fish (socially/occasionally is ok with me lol)
Impulsive spending
Being unorganized
Uncleanliness
Procastination
Rudness

:smile:

Mickey_long's photo
Tue 03/24/15 08:24 PM
For me, I would have to say:
Drug use
Lying
Cheating
Stealing
General dishonesty
Over jealousy
Being overly passionate about what I consider to be stupid **** (like clothes on a dog. If dogs were meant to wear clothes, they would have thumbs and dress themselves...)
Frivolous spending
Irrationalism
And finally, poor decision making...

That all being said, I'm not your normal 23yo man. I have been very successful in life because I don't put up with bull ****.
-Mickey

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Wed 03/25/15 02:50 AM

For me, I would have to say:
Drug use
Lying
Cheating
Stealing
General dishonesty
Over jealousy
Being overly passionate about what I consider to be stupid **** (like clothes on a dog. If dogs were meant to wear clothes, they would have thumbs and dress themselves...)
Frivolous spending
Irrationalism
And finally, poor decision making...

That all being said, I'm not your normal 23yo man. I have been very successful in life because I don't put up with bull ****.
-Mickey


Great post Mickey! Very mature for your age then... you're on the right track!

You have some real good ones here. Oooohhhh and especially cheating ... oh another great topic that brings to mind ....

"How do you feel about unfaithfulness; and how would you handle it if it happened?" I'll go start that topic/new thread! drinker cheers!

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 03/25/15 03:08 AM
I'd prefer someone who doesn't have a list.

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 05:04 AM

I'd prefer someone who doesn't have a list.


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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:31 AM
Narcissist (NPD)
overly logical & rational (living from the head)
too flirty
drug use
Star-sign Virgo. Should compute, but found out by trial and error it doesn't.
poor hygiene
arrogance
Anger issues
Victimizing him/herself
no motivation or passion for whatever



panchovanilla's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:44 AM
Listswhoa
I don't even make a shopping list.
I refuse to be a hostage to my lists.
So...no lists.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:50 AM

Listswhoa
I don't even make a shopping list.
I refuse to be a hostage to my lists.
So...no lists.

See ... you gotta love Taurus! No lists, no BS, no ruts. Well, I don't like ruts ..


panchovanilla's photo
Wed 03/25/15 09:02 AM


Listswhoa
I don't even make a shopping list.
I refuse to be a hostage to my lists.
So...no lists.

See ... you gotta love Taurus! No lists, no BS, no ruts. Well, I don't like ruts ..



I'm always "in rut"


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MadDog1974's photo
Wed 03/25/15 09:03 AM
I can understand the reluctance to make a list, but we all have certain traits that we expect and traits that are unacceptable. If we don't have a list, even if it's just a mental checklist that we don't think about until someone crosses that line, then we have no standards at all. I'm not sure I can think of 10 right now, but here are some deal breakers for me.

Dishonesty
Excessively clingy
Intolerance of disagreement
Disrespectful
Shallowness

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 09:28 AM
No wonder your single OP.
sounds like a job interview.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 09:53 AM



Listswhoa
I don't even make a shopping list.
I refuse to be a hostage to my lists.
So...no lists.

See ... you gotta love Taurus! No lists, no BS, no ruts. Well, I don't like ruts ..



I'm always "in rut"


blushing rofl blushing

Lol... the other meaning of the word come to mind when I clicked "Post reply"...
Again, typical Taurus thing shades

Rock's photo
Wed 03/25/15 10:10 AM
A list of will not tolerates ?

Where would I even begin ?

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