Topic: Is this site BS and full of fake people
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Tue 06/09/15 07:44 PM
Most times I like someone or they massage me they deactivate there profile before I can respond.Begining to think this dating site like most others has mostly fake users and scammers generated by the site itself. Getting really tired of this on dating sites. Paying them money doesn't seem to hel either. Get more respomses, but most seem to be scammers trying to get money from you.

Datwasntme's photo
Tue 06/09/15 07:53 PM
they are every where you go
this sight wouldn't get anything out of making scammers
there are real people on here as well
but its just like real life , there are fake people out there as well

keep your head up
if you dont look you will never find
<shrug>
mingle gives you the option
but its up to you to walk through the door

best wishes on your hunt

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Tue 06/09/15 08:11 PM
Thanks for the reply and I'm trying my best. I've had many people on here. Say that they loved me and couldn't wait to be with me as soon as possible. Leaned to weed them out as scammers eventually. Now I'm way more carefull. Just wish it wasn't such a pain. Thanks for the pick me up . One must keep trying in hopes that something real is out there.

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Tue 06/09/15 08:41 PM

Scammers are the bane of this site.
If you report them as you encounter them you can help rid
the site of them.

Upper right of their photo, 'Report This User' on every
profile is the way to report them.

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Tue 06/09/15 08:55 PM

Most times I like someone or they massage me they deactivate there profile before I can respond.Begining to think this dating site like most others has mostly fake users and scammers generated by the site itself. Getting really tired of this on dating sites. Paying them money doesn't seem to hel either. Get more respomses, but most seem to be scammers trying to get money from you.

What I do is ask a question to them about my own profile, but I phrase is in a way their program they use to interpret English to what ever they speak can't cut the mustard (just like that part of my text) they can't figure out slang lol. So when they write back to me it's so far off what I asked it's amusing. Then I report and block them.

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Tue 06/09/15 08:58 PM
Unfortunately, I know just how you feel. I know there are real people on any dating site, but also many scammers and game players. One thing I do like about online dating sites is that you can weed out what you don't want without the hassle of meeting someone in real life and without paying for a date or get hooked up with someone who is super possessive. Although there have been a couple meetings I came up with a sudden migraine! LOL

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Tue 06/09/15 08:58 PM

Most times I like someone or they massage me they deactivate there profile before I can respond.Begining to think this dating site like most others has mostly fake users and scammers generated by the site itself. Getting really tired of this on dating sites. Paying them money doesn't seem to hel either. Get more respomses, but most seem to be scammers trying to get money from you.


yea, so whats your point? if your going to let others dictate your life on here, then they won... getting mad and crying about it on the forums isn't going to help any...

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Tue 06/09/15 08:58 PM
You know you can get them in real life too.

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Wed 06/10/15 10:55 AM
If it makes you feel better by trying to deny rejection, then I'll play along, and pretend it's the website's fault. Or I'll tell you straight, that the website isn't responsible for how people behave. You can't expect certain types to just suddenly jump at the chance of wanting to be with
you. Attraction has to be mutual.

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Wed 06/10/15 11:58 AM
I'm real and I know alot of other real people in here... But I'm in the forum where the real people interact... Come on in and get known..slaphead

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Wed 06/10/15 12:10 PM
When I first joined mingle, I was bombarded by scammers and fakes.
So I started hanging out in the forums, where I met a lot of good people.
I really didn't have any expectations of finding romance.
Well...sometimes you find something when you aren't looking.happy

SuzQ66's photo
Wed 06/10/15 12:14 PM
Closing my eyes now, to make sure I don't peek, and hope it sneaks up on me too!

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Wed 06/10/15 07:36 PM
The first thing I want to note is that we'd never consider sabotaging our own business with fake or scammers accounts. That will not lead to longevity.

Next, I want to make it clear that we're upgrading our defenses against fakes right now. The results might not be obvious overnight, but this smarter system will pay dividends soon.

Whatever you decide with regard to this site, Nordman33, we hope you find what you are looking for.

Liexa's photo
Wed 06/10/15 07:39 PM
I do believe that there are still good people in here.

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Wed 06/10/15 08:40 PM
Thanks to all for your response, except for one. Think we all know who that is. Good luck to all of you and hope you find what you are looking for.

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Wed 06/10/15 08:48 PM

Most times I like someone or they massage me they deactivate there profile before I can respond.Begining to think this dating site like most others has mostly fake users and scammers generated by the site itself. Getting really tired of this on dating sites. Paying them money doesn't seem to hel either. Get more respomses, but most seem to be scammers trying to get money from you.
If youre not gonna hang around the forums, try this....look at the "Who's Online" section. Follow it for a few weeks...learn whos real from your area and signs on regularly. Its a start, good luck.

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Wed 06/10/15 09:11 PM
dont think i met a real chick on here yet, except people in the forums.