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Topic: How do you initiate making out/sex to another girl? (lUghs a
sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:07 PM
Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:32 PM
I think if you are truly ready then the way will be clear. Even being shy you have to feel like the time is right. Do NOT rush into anything you are not ready for.

If you are ready a private and very simple statement of your thoughts and asking the person you desire if they want to participate should be enough. People can not read your mind.

Someone dumps you because you don't have sex then you are lucky because they are not for you. They are only about their own needs and wants and you really don't matter.

I would caution you to not rush into such a special experience just to get it over with. It is a gift you only can truly give as a first one time. Make it worth remembering. You will for a life time.

mightymoe's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:33 PM

Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...

no photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:47 PM


Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:48 PM
Thank you sweetie xx I'll keep that in mind

sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:49 PM



Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

I think it's rude and sexist towards other men to be honest -- but you always have that one in a crowd I guess...

no photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:53 PM




Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

I think it's rude and sexist towards other men to be honest -- but you always have that one in a crowd I guess...


Moe is just being Moe. I can double guarantee he is not really like that....ummm.....at least I don;t think so lolflowerforyou laugh

no photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:53 PM




Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

I think it's rude and sexist towards other men to be honest -- but you always have that one in a crowd I guess...


Moe is just being Moe. I can double guarantee he is not really like that....ummm.....at least I don;t think so lolflowerforyou laugh

sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:54 PM
Edited by sweetiepeachie on Thu 06/11/15 05:55 PM





Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

I think it's rude and sexist towards other men to be honest -- but you always have that one in a crowd I guess...
:

Moe is just being Moe. I can double guarantee he is not really like that....ummm.....at least I don;t think so lolflowerforyou laugh


Omg laugh

2469nascar's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:56 PM
just smack her on the azz,and say come and get ya some of this,works every time,,no not really,,

no1phD's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:56 PM
I usually kiss them long and passionately !and just run a hand on down their hip ..pulling them (her )firmly into you

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 06/11/15 05:59 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Thu 06/11/15 06:01 PM
Maybe he is just speaking man speak and has a point.

Maybe you are making it more complicated than it is. It would not end the world if you did just kiss someone you at least thought was interested. Especially if they asked you out on a date. If they are in your personal space a little "test" peck on the cheek will give you and idea if "making out" is on their mind also.

Since not all women want a lover relationship you might want to sound out if that kind of relationship/advance would be welcome.

I live in a mixed community and treat everyone the same so I have occasionally just refused politely; no problem.

sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 06:11 PM

I usually kiss them long and passionately !and just run a hand on down their hip ..pulling them (her )firmly into you

love that sounds perfect actually haha! Maybe if I'm confident one day I'll do that!

sweetiepeachie's photo
Thu 06/11/15 06:13 PM


Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


Hiya Sweetie,
Maybe honesty is the best policy?
Simply take your girlfriends hand in yours,
Look her right in the eyes and tell her you would love to be intimate but you would like to take things slow because you feel a little shy? And embarrassed.
Let her know you're VERY interested and maybe because of your shyness you may be giving out the wrong impression.

If the feeling is mutual she is sure to understand and not rush you or dump you?

Good luck Sweetie

smile2 waving


You are so sweet!
I don't have a girlfriend yet, but I've known this is a common factor with my past relation ships, and I personally think so far this is the best advice. I will definitely keep this in mind for when I'm in a relation ship next. flowerforyou
Thank you so much,
You're a lovely person! Xx

mightymoe's photo
Thu 06/11/15 07:35 PM



Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical


yall know you like it...:angel:

mightymoe's photo
Thu 06/11/15 07:45 PM






Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


think like a man, just reach out and get some...


Oh this is so typical

I think it's rude and sexist towards other men to be honest -- but you always have that one in a crowd I guess...
:

Moe is just being Moe. I can double guarantee he is not really like that....ummm.....at least I don;t think so lolflowerforyou laugh


Omg laugh

your a woman, you know what you like when you want sex from whoever, just use that "backwards", or towards the woman you want to rub tacos with...

mightymoe's photo
Thu 06/11/15 07:47 PM


Hello so as the title says.
I'm really shy in all my relationships and I don't know how to initiate to make out because of it. Or to even initiate to go further. It's really embarrassing for me because I don't want them to think I lose interest as my ex girlfriend dumped me for not having sex..
How do I initiate it?


Hiya Sweetie,
Maybe honesty is the best policy?
Simply take your girlfriends hand in yours,
Look her right in the eyes and tell her you would love to be intimate but you would like to take things slow because you feel a little shy? And embarrassed.
Let her know you're VERY interested and maybe because of your shyness you may be giving out the wrong impression.

If the feeling is mutual she is sure to understand and not rush you or dump you?

Good luck Sweetie

smile2 waving


i agree, the direct approach is the best way... or just grab a handful and brace for the slap... if no slap. your in...

mightymoe's photo
Thu 06/11/15 08:18 PM

Tell her she has something on her lips .. Brush your finger tenderly across her mouth .. Then lean in and kiss her love love


i think there's something on my lips...drool drool drool

Awatersign's photo
Thu 06/11/15 11:18 PM


Tell her she has something on her lips .. Brush your finger tenderly across her mouth .. Then lean in and kiss her love love
:laughing:

i think there's something on my lips...drool drool drool

mikey5360's photo
Thu 06/11/15 11:58 PM
once knew a guy that just asked....
anywhere.....any time.....
Damn.....his strike rate was...well....exceptional...ohwell
oops couldn't hurt Op...

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