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Topic: This scenario.
Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:01 AM
Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:06 AM

Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

Well ... marriage hasn't been consummated yet ... File for divorce? Hahaha.
Alternatively ... poke out the bridesmaid's eyes, kick the groom in the nuts and storm off in a huff?

But then again, I wouldn't have that problem, cos I wouldn't have bridesmaids.

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:08 AM


Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

Well ... marriage hasn't been consummated yet ... File for divorce? Hahaha.
Alternatively ... poke out the bridesmaid's eyes, kick the groom in the nuts and storm off in a huff?

But then again, I wouldn't have that problem, cos I wouldn't have bridesmaids.


But it was not his fault.
She randomly did this...

no photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:14 AM
Even though it would be a bit inappropriate I wouldn't do anything.


blah..blah..'s photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:21 AM
i'd tell her to wait til the wife was asleep :wink:











i'm joking! smile2

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:22 AM



Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

Well ... marriage hasn't been consummated yet ... File for divorce? Hahaha.
Alternatively ... poke out the bridesmaid's eyes, kick the groom in the nuts and storm off in a huff?

But then again, I wouldn't have that problem, cos I wouldn't have bridesmaids.


But it was not his fault.
She randomly did this...

Sure, but he can do something about it, can't he? In a nice, polite way of course.

I don't like fighting over a man with another woman. I expect my man to deal with attention from other women the right way. I shouldn't have to fight them off, he's the one that should make clear he's involved, and very happily so.
Basically it's a matter of trust. If I'd have to worry about my man and other women ... he's not the right one for me.

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:26 AM

i'd tell her to wait til the wife was asleep :wink:











i'm joking! smile2


It is your wedding night lol.
And btw the bride is sitting beside the groom, it is photo session time.

blah..blah..'s photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:26 AM
then i'd whisper it laugh

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:27 AM




Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

Well ... marriage hasn't been consummated yet ... File for divorce? Hahaha.
Alternatively ... poke out the bridesmaid's eyes, kick the groom in the nuts and storm off in a huff?

But then again, I wouldn't have that problem, cos I wouldn't have bridesmaids.


But it was not his fault.
She randomly did this...

Sure, but he can do something about it, can't he? In a nice, polite way of course.

I don't like fighting over a man with another woman. I expect my man to deal with attention from other women the right way. I shouldn't have to fight them off, he's the one that should make clear he's involved, and very happily so.
Basically it's a matter of trust. If I'd have to worry about my man and other women ... he's not the right one for me.


So you would let him deal with the situation then. :smile:

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:29 AM

then i'd whisper it :laugth:


Gawd, why don't you just invite her into the marriage bed? slaphead

blah..blah..'s photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:33 AM
probably wouldn't fit haha

in all seriousness, i would probably just say something like "that's her place" or laugh it off
i would presume or at least hope that you have a good rapport with the bridesmaids and that anything like that could be seen as harmless fun.

1onlyaname's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:39 AM
the bridesmaid would be my wife's best friend correct? I would be thinking hmmm is my wife testing me? I just keep my hands in my pocket make sure she had nothing to report.

zookeepersson's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:40 AM

Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

This has actually happened to me I just put my arm around her and smiled for the photo not only at the wedding but she continues to sit in my lap every chance she gets shes only just stop sleepin with me in our bed I dnt see as inappropriate tho my
Wife wasnt sittin in my lap at the same time (FYI) she is nw my ex wife lol

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 03:47 AM


Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

This has actually happened to me I just put my arm around her and smiled for the photo not only at the wedding but she continues to sit in my lap every chance she gets shes only just stop sleepin with me in our bed I dnt see as inappropriate tho my
Wife wasnt sittin in my lap at the same time (FYI) she is nw my ex wife lol


Hi. It happened at my wedding lol.
I pushed her off gently and said "What are you doing?"

tulip2633's photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:03 AM
I would quietly sneak off and get a slice of cake. Return to the scene and shove it in her face. Then run, of course.

rofl

zookeepersson's photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:07 AM



Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

This has actually happened to me I just put my arm around her and smiled for the photo not only at the wedding but she continues to sit in my lap every chance she gets shes only just stop sleepin with me in our bed I dnt see as inappropriate tho my
Wife wasnt sittin in my lap at the same time (FYI) she is nw my ex wife lol


Hi. It happened at my wedding lol.
I pushed her off gently and said "What are you doing?"

hi lol :) I waz waitin for the lady brigade to reply in horror Before I revealed the bridesmaid was our 3 yo daughter

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:21 AM
I had an inkling. It was too bizarre.
And the woman was a guest,(also a friend) not a bridesmaid.waving

Ladywind7's photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:23 AM

I would quietly sneak off and get a slice of cake. Return to the scene and shove it in her face. Then run, of course.

rofl


Ha ha,
Note to self, never get on Tulip's bad side unless I want cake.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:25 AM





Ok, so you have just got married. (Yep you)
A bridesmaid sits on the grooms lap during photo session time.
Men...what would you do?
Women...what would you do?

Well ... marriage hasn't been consummated yet ... File for divorce? Hahaha.
Alternatively ... poke out the bridesmaid's eyes, kick the groom in the nuts and storm off in a huff?

But then again, I wouldn't have that problem, cos I wouldn't have bridesmaids.


But it was not his fault.
She randomly did this...

Sure, but he can do something about it, can't he? In a nice, polite way of course.

I don't like fighting over a man with another woman. I expect my man to deal with attention from other women the right way. I shouldn't have to fight them off, he's the one that should make clear he's involved, and very happily so.
Basically it's a matter of trust. If I'd have to worry about my man and other women ... he's not the right one for me.


So you would let him deal with the situation then. :smile:

Well, I'd expect him to, yes. If he wouldn't, I don't know what I'd do. Depends on the context. How she's behaving, how she ended up there etc.
And since bridesmaids are supposed to be close friends ... she'd definitely get deleted from my Book of Friends.
(Been there, done that, not on my wedding though).

But I seriously doubt I'd marry a man if I didn't know he could and would deal with such things the right way.

no photo
Thu 08/27/15 04:29 AM
well there are two voices in my head telling me what to do


:angel: keeps telling me behave it's just her and her best friend funning with you so make like it's nothing


and then

pitchfork keeps telling me that it's just her and her best friend funning with you so play it to the hilt

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