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Topic: relationship can be replaced
michaelwells's photo
Sat 09/05/15 10:27 PM
Sometimes in a relationship people ge too comfortable and they forgot they can be replaced

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Sat 09/05/15 10:32 PM
Then that relationship is not a healthy relationship. I would not feel comfortable being with some one who thought I was replacable.

Thats just my thoughts any way.

TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sun 09/06/15 01:37 AM
Edited by TyphoonMk1b on Sun 09/06/15 01:45 AM
Everybody is replaceable.

Everybody. Just ask your Boss.
He thinks you are too expensive? Too unreliable? Not good enough? Too opinionated? Not fit for the Position?

He will blow your relationship to pieces and replace you for another Relationship with a different worker, for a number of reasons{excuses?}, during or after your trial Period.

Not the same? Think again.

While each and everyone of us is unique, we offer "standard" things that are not unique: care, affection, sex, time, money, intelligence, experience...

Those are not unique to a single person - look down the path of your past and you might agree with that.Many people have cared for you {but no longer do?}, and many more will.

While your relationship with them was unique, eventually the Relationship changed, and they were replaced.

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Sun 09/06/15 02:35 AM
The only irreplaceable people are your children. Everything else can be replaced, including spouses, partners, employees, employers... Actually, children can also be replaced in this age of multiple marriages. sick

Parents. Parents cannot be replaced. Actually, if your parents get remarried...

Okay, I ran out of irreplaceable people.

Yes, everyone is replaceable. Like Rambo said, we are all expendable. Suck it up, buttercup.

Hold on, you can't replace yourself. Actually, plastic surgery, sex changes...

Yes, we are all replaceable. sick

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Sun 09/06/15 06:20 AM
Replaceable take place when people take things for granted.

Hate it! grumble

TMommy's photo
Sun 09/06/15 06:31 AM
if you think of people like an assembly line or batteries then yes as one dies or you get tired of it..ditch it and on the next

if you believe such things

of course this would discount the unique combination of nature/nurture, genetic inheritance, personality, quirky sense of humor, strengths and weaknesses that bundled all together add up to this person and ONLY this person but hey....what do I know :wink:

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Sun 09/06/15 06:40 AM

Everybody is replaceable.

Everybody. Just ask your Boss.
He thinks you are too expensive? Too unreliable? Not good enough? Too opinionated? Not fit for the Position?

He will blow your relationship to pieces and replace you for another Relationship with a different worker, for a number of reasons{excuses?}, during or after your trial Period.

Not the same? Think again.

While each and everyone of us is unique, we offer "standard" things that are not unique: care, affection, sex, time, money, intelligence, experience...

Those are not unique to a single person - look down the path of your past and you might agree with that.Many people have cared for you {but no longer do?}, and many more will.

While your relationship with them was unique, eventually the Relationship changed, and they were replaced.


There is a line between replaceable and irresponsibility especially when the topic of children come up. People are not toys.

Yes some jobs go through employees often others keep on to them for many years. Not all people think alike.

saicy25's photo
Sun 09/06/15 06:44 AM
ppl get too confortable nd forget that they cannot be replaced ppl dat cannot be replaced are blood family

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Sun 09/06/15 06:53 AM

ppl get too confortable nd forget that they cannot be replaced ppl dat cannot be replaced are blood family


True. A strong family is important.

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Sun 09/06/15 07:22 AM

Sometimes in a relationship people get too comfortable and they forgot they can be replaced


I agree that we all are replaceable. It depends on one's reason why he or she wants you to be replaced, it could be because your level of commitment with your partner is not that strong and you are not willing to work things out so you look for an option. Maybe you are not deeply attached to the person anymore , you no longer value the things you shared together and the feelings died down because of being too comfortable you haven't noticed that you have already neglected each other's need., slowly and gradually the connection has diminished without your knowing.A relationship should be nurtured with love, constantly showing it everyday in many ways to feel each presence.


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Sun 09/06/15 09:36 AM
Sometimes in a relationship people ge too comfortable and they forgot they can be replaced

This is only true if you see a (romantic) relationship as an extension of your own ego, all about you; their purpose in life being to provide you with your desired relationship.

h1i3m4e5l's photo
Sun 09/06/15 10:09 AM
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TyphoonMk1b's photo
Sun 09/06/15 10:22 AM
Come to think of it...
My father was never replaced.

Thank God.
That drunken, horny, drugged up Hippie would�ve done no good to me.
I wonder if he could�ve been replaced by an equally bad example.

Same for my mother.
When during pregnancy you keep drinking so bad that the newborn suffers from withdrawal, you should not be replaced.

In fact if that applies, you should apologize to the Trees that tirelessly produce oxygen that you consume and waste away.
and then you should simply apply the logical consequences,
go home, sit in a corner and stop consuming that valuable oxygen.

Mine kept on wasting her life away for another 5 years.
Glad she was not replaced either.

and that�s that for Sunday mass.

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Sun 09/06/15 02:33 PM
Would you like to exchange sob stories about how you've been wronged by your parents? We are all flawed. We need to do the best we can. We may fail at parenting and even at life, too. You don't really know the kind of emotional and mental anguish your folks suffered throughout their lives. Not everyone has good coping skills and they mess up their lives and that of their children. Just be happy that you are still here and can do better. I have been through anguish myself but I don't like to judge my folks and talk crap about them on a public site.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 09/06/15 02:37 PM
Who knew love could be easily thrown away hmmmmm

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 09/06/15 02:44 PM

Sometimes in a relationship people ge too comfortable and they forgot they can be replaced

I am going to take this a step farther...

Everything in life can be substituted for something else.
The key is to always remember how valuable and precious each thing is.

I believe no love can be replaced since you will never get that love back again it is unique as the two people that it grew between.

So therefore a relationship can NOT be replaced it can be substituted but it will not be the same it can't be. Not the same people or items.


I have to wonder if this thought came to you as you were brushing your teeth and were telling yourself it was time to replace it with a new one..jkflowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Sun 09/06/15 02:48 PM
even children move on and others enter our lives

the priority we have at any given time to anyone can change,,, because none of us exist alone, and there are too many types of relationships and people for anyone to have to feel an OBLIGATION to accept whatever one they may currently be involved with,, if its harmful or hurtful to them

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Sun 09/06/15 03:39 PM

The only irreplaceable people are your children. Everything else can be replaced, including spouses, partners, employees, employers... Actually, children can also be replaced in this age of multiple marriages. sick

Parents. Parents cannot be replaced. Actually, if your parents get remarried...

Okay, I ran out of irreplaceable people.

Yes, everyone is replaceable. Like Rambo said, we are all expendable. Suck it up, buttercup.

Hold on, you can't replace yourself. Actually, plastic surgery, sex changes...

Yes, we are all replaceable. sick
..hmm.. everybody but me lol

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Sun 09/06/15 03:39 PM
If you're in a relationship & you think of your partner being replaceable & all that sht then U need to get yo head outta yo azz & realize that you are not with the one you truly desire....
Personally, if my hearts into something i never see things like they can be replaced ect & as things happen in life ..people come & go this & that there will always be things that will always have that sentimental value & are irreplaceable...well at least for me

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Sun 09/06/15 03:41 PM
I'm irreplaceable because I'm one of a kind" unique" .. like a snowflake..
..:banana: :angel:

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