There are different ways they operate.. You ve got to learn more by searching on google...and I believe that is why most of the white here resist some blacks.. Lol... Its really worth it.. Moreover , I got an information recently... About transferring of money into account and they would ask the woman to send the money down to them... They would make u love them and have so much trust in them to that level of not turning down their request.. They would ask for your info.... Especially your bank account.. They would have scammed another woman .. And ask the woman to send the money to your own account...you would be the one to send the money down to them... And when you get caught... They would deny you and stop chatting with you.. While you would be the to face the judgement... U might live the rest of your life paying the debt... Please me watchful and more sensitive...

I'm gonna tell you the truth about me.. I used to be one of them before.. But I had never collected any stuffs from them.. Cause I'm a human being... And I don't really know the way the people I'm chatting with lives over there..I believe some of the them still struggle to carter for their needs and to enable the family live fine.. I have this fEelings of never taking any thing from anyone ... I believe God exist.. And I'm a christian.. Then,all I did .. Was just to chat and have fun.... Nothing more .. I never demanded of anything from anyone.. But later on.. I discovered I'm ruining the man's picture I was using... I had to stop it and seek for forgiveness from God.... Though, I never had it in mind to scam anyone.... And I would never do such...

You are a woman.
So you know how it feels to be vulnerable.
You know what is worst than the OP?

I just have known today, that apparently the picture that you
posted in good faith for the first time in public
was used on another site just few days ago?

Talk about how people could play with others pictures?

Why?

I just found out today that from someone I trust and have very high opinion with , instant message me that it is all ready out there, nothing can be done..

and when I googled my username..I am reported for abuse.
why?
I even block instant messages who's profile doesnt come from the forum after few weeks of being polite.
Why?
When I only send 2 instant messages for 2 guys in my first day and it is my first mingle poem because I see in his profile he doesnt have a job.The other is a line of a song to scream.

Why?
When even if they are from the forum,and I received their instant message i told them promptly who is my mingle crush.
Or logged out after exchanging few words so as not to encourage.
Why?
When I have never ever send FIRST an instant message to ANY MALE HERE IN mingle..except:
1. On my first day (2 guys)-and that was it, it stop that very day.
2. To someone I have an issue in the forum because of songs.
3. To an administrator when I committed a mistake on the forum topics.
4.. Yesterday to someone I cleared out with something.
All instant messages are FORMAL and NO ROMANTIC ISSUES ARE INVOLVE.

So why would someone report an abuse, when I never use the instant message for any romantic issues.How evil.

Why?

I wish I have just been scammed than this.. at least I could blame myself, I am an idiot for believing the guys words? but this..I cant even do a dam@! thing..

I wish I was scammed miss than this.



It is evil.

Sorry you got dumped.

There are lots of people getting hurt cause of these people...

Yes I just blocked 4 people they were all fake. Your right they only want conversation threw email. No live conversation that is because there not an american. There probably all in the same room in nigra.

Most of them are not americans and if you study your messages from them you will find out that they do not speak the american language correctly. They leave out words like it, is, and they do not realize we are not stupid we know our own language,

Another dead give away is most of them (the men scammers) their wife died. Their raising a child my them self.

That's not quite fair. My lady passed away. I most definitely am not a scammer...

I am facing the same problem..now ..this guy trying to scam me.

I totally agree with you.. They are scammers.. I HV been approach to supply food, money for web cam chat ..under wears clothing.. Please beware

Fakes and pervs are different than scammers JMO

Too many people online play different mind games for various reasons. Truth always comes out, but they waste so much time making meeting people online so time consuming, so exhausting... not fun at all, leaving one question if it is worth an effort.
I like forums.
That's what made me come back to Mingle.

I so agree with you.

IMO..
Scammers...
They have one agenda to get into your wallet and make a quick buck doesn't matter what they have to say or do. The want the money

Fakes...
Are people that are afraid to be who they really are for what ever reasons.
Hence, fake pictures, fake lifestyles, etc...

Perverts
Well that one is self explanatory..

Agreed. And, if I may add, there are those who do not really want to meet, but enjoy endless chats.
When it comes to meeting in person they withdraw from communication or turn out to be no shows.
I do not understand what's in it for them. What kind of a pleasure do they find in that mind game?

On this note, though, if a woman's profile is entirely those things/qualities/people she is NOT interested in, it turns guys (me) off instantly. It's a complete shut-down. So if you want to ATTRACT males/people, instead of just scare away potential scammers, tell us what you DO want, as well. Give us something positive to work with.

Yeppers. Too many assume fakes are scammers. If they aren't trying to get money, then not scammers. This is the internet. Lots of fakes but doesn't mean scammers

Then again...I would think with all of the reports on scammer, people would know to not send money

Since there is a report system already in place, this thread is locked.

Upper right on every profile, you will see 'Report This User.'
That is how to report anything suspicious.

soufie
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