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Topic: Where are the honest guys
Totalremedy's photo
Mon 01/11/16 11:08 AM
Are their any real honest men out there?
So many scammers so many fakes they are making it so difficult to trust anyone

pkdahi's photo
Mon 01/11/16 11:20 AM
DON'T KNOW HOT OR NOT BUT NOT A FAKE

ADESOJI18's photo
Wed 01/13/16 01:21 AM
Will like to chart it u in secret

ebaymoni's photo
Wed 01/13/16 01:25 AM
Is it possible to get a good lady here?

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 01/13/16 01:56 PM

Are their any real honest men out there?
So many scammers so many fakes they are making it so difficult to trust anyone


Of course there are honest men somewhere out there. Just don't expect to find any in Washington, D.C.

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Thu 01/21/16 03:15 PM
pilipino here..

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Sun 01/24/16 11:47 AM
O'm here

mightymoe's photo
Sun 01/24/16 11:50 AM
i think i saw an honest guy in Miami once, but it turned out it wasn't a guy...

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Mon 01/25/16 01:27 AM
Yecchh! I hate scammers!! They always leave a foul taste in one's mouth! You ain't gonna get that from me, though. I'm real as real gets, definitely NOT FAKE.

Cbsgirl69's photo
Wed 03/16/16 11:06 AM
It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

garydray's photo
Wed 03/16/16 01:54 PM
hello

Kathyzee's photo
Wed 03/16/16 03:04 PM
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It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it's not that difficult to find out if ur chattin with a scammer r not. In most cases their profile alone gives them away explode There r so meny clues in their profile to look for...
They will say things like
-"I'm John by name"
-"I'm a god fearing man/woman".
-Their English is so broken down n weak.
-They almost always say that the r "widowed.
--And say they in the Military .
-90% Say their lookin for marriage.
Those r just a few clues to look for in a scammers profile. But I must say that lately some hav managed to come up with a somewhat "normal " lookin profile shocked noway But it only takes a few of their dumn questions to know if your chattin with a scammer r not :laughing:
Hope that somewhat helps your dealing with a scammer r not smile2
As for the "fakes" well that's a whole other ball game :laughing:

Jaan Doh 's photo
Thu 03/17/16 03:08 AM

Where are the honest guys



They're all in church
:laughing:

Parmalee30's photo
Thu 03/17/16 08:46 AM

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It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it's not that difficult to find out if ur chattin with a scammer r not. In most cases their profile alone gives them away explode There r so meny clues in their profile to look for...
They will say things like
-"I'm John by name"
-"I'm a god fearing man/woman".
-Their English is so broken down n weak.
-They almost always say that the r "widowed.
--And say they in the Military .
-90% Say their lookin for marriage.
Those r just a few clues to look for in a scammers profile. But I must say that lately some hav managed to come up with a somewhat "normal " lookin profile shocked noway But it only takes a few of their dumn questions to know if your chattin with a scammer r not :laughing:
Hope that somewhat helps your dealing with a scammer r not smile2
As for the "fakes" well that's a whole other ball game :laughing:

I find this interesting. So you are saying that what is true for some is true for all?
All Beagles are dogs, and all dogs are Beagles? Did I hear that correctly? :0)
Look, it's a dating site and unfortunately there are some unsavory characters in the pool. It exists on every site. If you were to ask the hard question...Why are they on the sites? Logically, because that's where the marks are. Too many are too desperate to find attention and love that they are willing to shell out money for more of it.
I live here in the US, I work here, was born here, educated here, and been all over "here".
The difficult part of this online thing, for men, is that sooo many ladies are so incredibly apprehensive and cautious, due to the possibility of being scammed, that the good and real guys float right by. I am all for watching out for pitfalls and covering bases, but deciding someone is a scammer because their profile doesn't fit the right compartment is kind of ridiculous.
"Why do bank robbers rob banks? That's where the money is." (Unknown bank robber)
That's my take on the subject.

Kathyzee's photo
Thu 03/17/16 09:45 AM


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It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it's not that difficult to find out if ur chattin with a scammer r not. In most cases their profile alone gives them away explode There r so meny clues in their profile to look for...
They will say things like
-"I'm John by name"
-"I'm a god fearing man/woman".
-Their English is so broken down n weak.
-They almost always say that the r "widowed.
--And say they in the Military .
-90% Say their lookin for marriage.
Those r just a few clues to look for in a scammers profile. But I must say that lately some hav managed to come up with a somewhat "normal " lookin profile shocked noway But it only takes a few of their dumn questions to know if your chattin with a scammer r not :laughing:
Hope that somewhat helps your dealing with a scammer r not smile2
As for the "fakes" well that's a whole other ball game :laughing:

I find this interesting. So you are saying that what is true for some is true for all?
All Beagles are dogs, and all dogs are Beagles? Did I hear that correctly? :0)
Look, it's a dating site and unfortunately there are some unsavory characters in the pool. It exists on every site. If you were to ask the hard question...Why are they on the sites? Logically, because that's where the marks are. Too many are too desperate to find attention and love that they are willing to shell out money for more of it.
I live here in the US, I work here, was born here, educated here, and been all over "here".
The difficult part of this online thing, for men, is that sooo many ladies are so incredibly apprehensive and cautious, due to the possibility of being scammed, that the good and real guys float right by. I am all for watching out for pitfalls and covering bases, but deciding someone is a scammer because their profile doesn't fit the right compartment is kind of ridiculous.
"Why do bank robbers rob banks? That's where the money is." (Unknown bank robber)
That's my take on the subject.

Yes you did hear that correctly. And as I said, I can't speak for everyone. I can only give my opinion and what I've come to be believe to be true when dealing with scammers. I read ur profile and it says ur new to this site. (Welcome to mingle2 Parmalee :smile: ). Well I've been on this site longer then I care to share lol. And it did take sometime before I was able to decipher who was actually on here for all the right reasons and who was a scammer. And in every single email I received from a scammer did in fact hav one or more, if not all of those clues I listed on a scammers profile. Now I'm not sure how it looks on your side of the site., but I personally know how it goes down on this side. So I personally follow what I've noticed when deciding if I'm dealing with a scammer or not. And I pat myself on the back for being 100% correct each time. And I also give a GREAT BIG PAT ON THE BACK TO ALL THOSE WOMAN that are being "cautious".
flowerforyou bigsmile waving

Kathyzee's photo
Thu 03/17/16 09:49 AM


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It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it's not that difficult to find out if ur chattin with a scammer r not. In most cases their profile alone gives them away explode There r so meny clues in their profile to look for...
They will say things like
-"I'm John by name"
-"I'm a god fearing man/woman".
-Their English is so broken down n weak.
-They almost always say that the r "widowed.
--And say they in the Military .
-90% Say their lookin for marriage.
Those r just a few clues to look for in a scammers profile. But I must say that lately some hav managed to come up with a somewhat "normal " lookin profile shocked noway But it only takes a few of their dumn questions to know if your chattin with a scammer r not :laughing:
Hope that somewhat helps your dealing with a scammer r not smile2
As for the "fakes" well that's a whole other ball game :laughing:

I find this interesting. So you are saying that what is true for some is true for all?
All Beagles are dogs, and all dogs are Beagles? Did I hear that correctly? :0)
Look, it's a dating site and unfortunately there are some unsavory characters in the pool. It exists on every site. If you were to ask the hard question...Why are they on the sites? Logically, because that's where the marks are. Too many are too desperate to find attention and love that they are willing to shell out money for more of it.
I live here in the US, I work here, was born here, educated here, and been all over "here".
The difficult part of this online thing, for men, is that sooo many ladies are so incredibly apprehensive and cautious, due to the possibility of being scammed, that the good and real guys float right by. I am all for watching out for pitfalls and covering bases, but deciding someone is a scammer because their profile doesn't fit the right compartment is kind of ridiculous.
"Why do bank robbers rob banks? That's where the money is." (Unknown bank robber)
That's my take on the subject.

Yes you did hear that correctly. And as I said, I can't speak for everyone. I can only give my opinion and what I've come to be believe to be true when dealing with scammers. I read ur profile and it says ur new to this site. (Welcome to mingle2 Parmalee :smile: ). Well I've been on this site longer then I care to share lol. And it did take sometime before I was able to decipher who was actually on here for all the right reasons and who was a scammer. And in every single email I received from a scammer did in fact hav one or more, if not all of those clues I listed on a scammers profile. Now I'm not sure how it looks on your side of the site., but I personally know how it goes down on this side. So I personally follow what I've noticed when deciding if I'm dealing with a scammer or not. And I pat myself on the back for being 100% correct each time. And I also give a GREAT BIG PAT ON THE BACK TO ALL THOSE WOMAN that are being "cautious".
flowerforyou bigsmile waving

Parmalee30's photo
Thu 03/17/16 11:25 AM



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It's so hard to tell .. I hate that too. I find that it's hard to get to know someone because you don't know whether are a scammer or not

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it's not that difficult to find out if ur chattin with a scammer r not. In most cases their profile alone gives them away explode There r so meny clues in their profile to look for...
They will say things like
-"I'm John by name"
-"I'm a god fearing man/woman".
-Their English is so broken down n weak.
-They almost always say that the r "widowed.
--And say they in the Military .
-90% Say their lookin for marriage.
Those r just a few clues to look for in a scammers profile. But I must say that lately some hav managed to come up with a somewhat "normal " lookin profile shocked noway But it only takes a few of their dumn questions to know if your chattin with a scammer r not :laughing:
Hope that somewhat helps your dealing with a scammer r not smile2
As for the "fakes" well that's a whole other ball game :laughing:

I find this interesting. So you are saying that what is true for some is true for all?
All Beagles are dogs, and all dogs are Beagles? Did I hear that correctly? :0)
Look, it's a dating site and unfortunately there are some unsavory characters in the pool. It exists on every site. If you were to ask the hard question...Why are they on the sites? Logically, because that's where the marks are. Too many are too desperate to find attention and love that they are willing to shell out money for more of it.
I live here in the US, I work here, was born here, educated here, and been all over "here".
The difficult part of this online thing, for men, is that sooo many ladies are so incredibly apprehensive and cautious, due to the possibility of being scammed, that the good and real guys float right by. I am all for watching out for pitfalls and covering bases, but deciding someone is a scammer because their profile doesn't fit the right compartment is kind of ridiculous.
"Why do bank robbers rob banks? That's where the money is." (Unknown bank robber)
That's my take on the subject.

Yes you did hear that correctly. And as I said, I can't speak for everyone. I can only give my opinion and what I've come to be believe to be true when dealing with scammers. I read ur profile and it says ur new to this site. (Welcome to mingle2 Parmalee :smile: ). Well I've been on this site longer then I care to share lol. And it did take sometime before I was able to decipher who was actually on here for all the right reasons and who was a scammer. And in every single email I received from a scammer did in fact hav one or more, if not all of those clues I listed on a scammers profile. Now I'm not sure how it looks on your side of the site., but I personally know how it goes down on this side. So I personally follow what I've noticed when deciding if I'm dealing with a scammer or not. And I pat myself on the back for being 100% correct each time. And I also give a GREAT BIG PAT ON THE BACK TO ALL THOSE WOMAN that are being "cautious".
flowerforyou bigsmile waving

Being cautious I understand completely. But you can't honestly tell me that each and "every" one is a scammer....can you?
"Not all dogs are Beagles" ....in essence, not all emails that state "my name is John ..." Is a scammer. :0)
Again, the main point is why would the scammer be here in the first place? And why would they target ladies such as yourself? Per your "assessment" that is quite a working sample to reference....and draw from.
Yes, I am new to this site, but not new to online....how it looks on my side (tried and true) those not looking for the highway hook up are the first to suggest it. Those that live (all their lives) in the rural areas of KANSAS enjoy regular walks on the beach, and those wanting monogamy and authenticity actually have various back-up plans with the click of a mouse. So, the game runs both ways.
I am not trying to defend the scammer, I am speaking for myself (not a scammer), but at the same time I do know, with certainty, that all dogs do evacuate their bowels regularly. :0)

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Thu 03/17/16 01:34 PM
We do all have to be cautious I have chatted with quite a few scammers online too many to count I'm afraid and it does really get difficult to trust someone we have not yet met but we have to carry on regardless and not let these scammers win and hopefully each of us will find that special person and be as happy as can be just be careful both male and female good luck :four_leaf_clover:

Gino069's photo
Thu 03/17/16 05:06 PM
you may add women to the subject title.....us men have to deal with scammers to. hate it and veey annoying. Had to deal with one this week. some tips to recognize

lot of them are staying in Ghana or Nigeria, for business or family.
they all have lost their parents at very young age, and are raised by uncle, aunt, grandparents
they have only pics with them alone, never wirh friends etc..

if you feel its to good to be true, pull the plug


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Thu 03/17/16 05:12 PM
there are many honest men of course. i do not believe that are not any.
i had many chat friends here, i mean normal friends. no problems about them at all. maybe i was lucky.

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