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Topic: Are women at fault???
mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 01:29 AM
Edited by mikaxel80 on Wed 01/27/16 01:35 AM
Many people think when couples argue and break up, it is the woman's fault without understanding the whole situation. But when you closely examine the situation, you always find the fault on men (Sorry my fellow men but thats the hard fact). Sometimes when my friends come to me what to do with their quarrel with their GFs after hearing all the facts and talking to the girlfriend in question (since theee are always two sides to a story) i most of the time make them break up and once in a while i make them reconcile one another.
So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault. Men just provoke them to do or say something wrong
Remember I am not a shrink.
Hey share your insights

RustyKitty's photo
Wed 01/27/16 05:34 AM

So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault. Men just provoke them to do or say something wrong
Remember I am not a shrink.
Hey share your insights



Rubbish, is my insight.. it takes two

bobbob1234's photo
Wed 01/27/16 05:37 AM
It takes to to make a relationship work, only difference is men want to see their lady smile and that lady knows exactly how to work her man and get what she wants.
In reality, the lady actually chooses her man in the end.

steelmonte's photo
Wed 01/27/16 05:39 AM
My ex-wife used to start a row on purpose to push me away if she felt close.

Work that one out.

TMommy's photo
Wed 01/27/16 05:40 AM
Edited by TMommy on Wed 01/27/16 05:41 AM
coping mechanism developed in childhood
push anything away that feels too close, too loving, too good


for it cannot really be true or last



oh and as for OP's point that women are right 99 percent of time



not saying I am right..on this

but I am pretty sure you are wrong bigsmile

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:13 AM


So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault. Men just provoke them to do or say something wrong
Remember I am not a shrink.
Hey share your insights



Rubbish, is my insight.. it takes two

Good for you but who controls the man?

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:17 AM

My ex-wife used to start a row on purpose to push me away if she felt close.

Work that one out.

I am sorry buddy but sounds like she didnt want to marry you. But after how many years of marriage did that happen?

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:20 AM

coping mechanism developed in childhood
push anything away that feels too close, too loving, too good


for it cannot really be true or last



oh and as for OP's point that women are right 99 percent of time



not saying I am right..on this

but I am pretty sure you are wrong bigsmile

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:23 AM
So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault.




What a sense of humor!

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:24 AM
Edited by mikaxel80 on Wed 01/27/16 06:26 AM

coping mechanism developed in childhood
push anything away that feels too close, too loving, too good


for it cannot really be true or last



oh and as for OP's point that women are right 99 percent of time



not saying I am right..on this

but I am pretty sure you are wrong bigsmile

OK. Let me correct myself. Didn't mean 99% of all women. I meant 99% of the women i know
BTW TMommy are u anti live or what? coz sounds like u scared of sthg

steelmonte's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:25 AM


My ex-wife used to start a row on purpose to push me away if she felt close.

Work that one out.

I am sorry buddy but sounds like she didnt want to marry you. But after how many years of marriage did that happen?


The whole 25 years, even on the honeymoon. Now she's with a new guy he will get it and I won't.

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:29 AM



My ex-wife used to start a row on purpose to push me away if she felt close.

Work that one out.

I am sorry buddy but sounds like she didnt want to marry you. But after how many years of marriage did that happen?


The whole 25 years, even on the honeymoon. Now she's with a new guy he will get it and I won't.

Poor guy!!! Doesn't know what he is into

steelmonte's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:32 AM
That's what i told him the day before he came and got her things.

He has only seen the good side so I told him the bad is as bad as the good is good.

He stared at me, his mind spinning.

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 06:42 AM

That's what i told him the day before he came and got her things.

He has only seen the good side so I told him the bad is as bad as the good is good.

He stared at me, his mind spinning.

And????
You know what they say. Love is blind.
Wonder who said it

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/27/16 07:10 AM

Many people think when couples argue and break up, it is the woman's fault without understanding the whole situation. But when you closely examine the situation, you always find the fault on men (Sorry my fellow men but thats the hard fact). Sometimes when my friends come to me what to do with their quarrel with their GFs after hearing all the facts and talking to the girlfriend in question (since theee are always two sides to a story) i most of the time make them break up and once in a while i make them reconcile one another.
So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault. Men just provoke them to do or say something wrong
Remember I am not a shrink.
Hey share your insights



Honestly after reading this I can understand why your not a Shrink~~~slaphead

People break up for many different reasons.. and it can not be blamed all on one sex or the other...

Ohh and in Reality there is three sides to the story his,hers & the truth..... Most of the time one always leaves out some of the critical details.......whoa

To even say that 99% of the women are always right.. if this is according to your theory's then it could be 100% of the time we are right that you are wrong~~~:thumbsup:


mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 07:20 AM


Many people think when couples argue and break up, it is the woman's fault without understanding the whole situation. But when you closely examine the situation, you always find the fault on men (Sorry my fellow men but thats the hard fact). Sometimes when my friends come to me what to do with their quarrel with their GFs after hearing all the facts and talking to the girlfriend in question (since theee are always two sides to a story) i most of the time make them break up and once in a while i make them reconcile one another.
So 99 percent of the women are always right and never at fault. Men just provoke them to do or say something wrong
Remember I am not a shrink.
Hey share your insights



Honestly after reading this I can understand why your not a Shrink~~~slaphead

People break up for many different reasons.. and it can not be blamed all on one sex or the other...

Ohh and in Reality there is three sides to the story his,hers & the truth..... Most of the time one always leaves out some of the critical details.......whoa

To even say that 99% of the women are always right.. if this is according to your theory's then it could be 100% of the time we are right that you are wrong~~~:thumbsup:




I like u T. You really made me laugh. From where i am and the ladies i encounter prove that they are right.
BTW didnt say all the women in the world . the 100% i said are the ones i know

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/27/16 08:39 AM


I like u T. You really made me laugh. From where i am and the ladies i encounter prove that they are right.
BTW didnt say all the women in the world . the 100% i said are the ones i know

Actually if it is the women you know that they are right that much of the time..

All I can say is that all of the women you know I feel sorry for the guys they are with.. The women sound controlling and think things should always go their way.. It does not work that way..

It also seems that the women you know does not know how to communicate with the guys they are with... For if they did know how they would not have to go tell their friends everything and would work things out with the one they are with..

Many times by involving others in your personal problems only causes more problems..

Besides if they are that bad and they can not talk to them then it is time to move on...waving And find someone that you can talk to...

mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 08:58 AM



I like u T. You really made me laugh. From where i am and the ladies i encounter prove that they are right.
BTW didnt say all the women in the world . the 100% i said are the ones i know

Actually if it is the women you know that they are right that much of the time..

All I can say is that all of the women you know I feel sorry for the guys they are with.. The women sound controlling and think things should always go their way.. It does not work that way..

It also seems that the women you know does not know how to communicate with the guys they are with... For if they did know how they would not have to go tell their friends everything and would work things out with the one they are with..

Many times by involving others in your personal problems only causes more problems..

Besides if they are that bad and they can not talk to them then it is time to move on...waving And find someone that you can talk to...

I agree with all the things you wrote. Relationships are based on communication and then the others continue. If you dont have it then......
I believe relationship problems are only solved through the two people involved. Not anyone!!! Yet some fools don't know or ignore it. These kind of people must not have any kind of relationship!!

no photo
Wed 01/27/16 09:11 AM
Hey share your insights

On what?

Here's what you're saying:
"I know some people. When they have arguments I get involved and make them break up. The women are always right."

So...insight = "a deep understanding of a person or thing."

You give absolutely no information regarding the people you are referring to.

The only information you give about yourself is, at best, you put yourself in the middle of the relationships of others.

Not a lot of room for insight.

Just speculation.

I found this absolutely hysterical, though:
after hearing all the facts and talking to the girlfriend in question (since theee are always two sides to a story) i most of the time make them break up and once in a while i make them reconcile
...I believe relationship problems are only solved through the two people involved.

I can speculate that you pay a lot of lip service to higher ideals than you actually practice or understand.



mikaxel80's photo
Wed 01/27/16 09:24 AM

Hey share your insights

On what?

Here's what you're saying:
"I know some people. When they have arguments I get involved and make them break up. The women are always right."

So...insight = "a deep understanding of a person or thing."

You give absolutely no information regarding the people you are referring to.

The only information you give about yourself is, at best, you put yourself in the middle of the relationships of others.

Not a lot of room for insight.

Just speculation.

I found this absolutely hysterical, though:
after hearing all the facts and talking to the girlfriend in question (since theee are always two sides to a story) i most of the time make them break up and once in a while i make them reconcile
...I believe relationship problems are only solved through the two people involved.

I can speculate that you pay a lot of lip service to higher ideals than you actually practice or understand.




You are right! Its pure speculation
lemme ask u one thing. Is it wrong when your friend asks you to do something on his/her relationship?

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