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Topic: Are You Still A Teenager In Love?
Twintidbits24's photo
Wed 04/20/16 05:51 AM
I like the idea of internalising the karma principle Twin !:thumbsup:

Also, how about if we allow our inner beauty to be coupled with our intuition? Hopefully by now we are instinctively better at filtering out the people who are around us for the wrong reasons glasses


Of course Peggy we should always have it within us together with that inner beauty, as our intuition serves as our guide in deciding for What, Where, Who and When...it is our inner voice and most of the times it speaks the truth...:wink: :thumbsup:


So true Twin :)

I am getting better at recognising my inner voice now . It is helping me alot! :smile:


Way to go Girl :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Twintidbits24's photo
Wed 04/20/16 05:53 AM


do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager? All bright-eyed, confident,.and full of hope ?


do still immerse yourself in that euphoric sensation, what gives you that feeling of hope and unbridled excitement after all these years?


Absolutely 100% I've learned that Being prepared for heart break or expecting it, doesnt make it hurt any less. It only attracts moe of the negatives. Some think I'm an idiot for this but I will go in with no fear of the bad and offer immediate trust until it's been ruined. I'll gladly welcome 1000 heartaches if that's what it takes to find the one who keeps it safe.


Go For It Man!!!:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 06:58 AM


Growing up, people would call young love 'puppy love'
thereby diminishing its theoretical impact.

Well I am here to tell you, it is all the same.
I felt exactly (at 8 years old) as I do now when it
comes to love.

Same feelings, giddy, breathless, yearning, fearful,
exuberant, nauseated..all the same when love is
in the room.

Is there a ..jaded version?
Probably.
But for me, I go all in, past be damned :-)


This is me...
I don't have a stop button if I love I love completely an without reservations.

That is why I don't do it very often...



I dont mind being that vulnerable , but for me it has to be for a guy who is very special in ways that I hold dear to my heart
smitten .

As it turns out, I dont meet that kind of guy often. laugh

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:22 AM

I love,
with my heart and soul.
Thank you, Peggy.
Nice topic.



Thanks Lu :smile:

I sensed that you would love whole heartedly like that.

Very admirable indeed flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:31 AM

Passes note in Study Hall


Would all the girls in this thread start blushing if I read your study hall note out loud Beach? :wink:

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:38 AM








do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager?

Of course.
The process is the same whether I'm 13 or 130.

do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager?
does the cloud of past disappointments prevent you from fully enjoying that yummy warm glow of your early stage of love?

No.
But andropause/menopause does.

"Cloud of past disappointments" is what people use to rationalize to make something the fault of someone else.

I also am not as excited/scared to drive as I was the first day of drivers ed., and it really has nothing to do with the "cloud of past disappointments" from speeding tickets, or accidents, or crappy drivers.


what gives you that feeling of hope and unbridled excitement after all these years?

Testosterone, dopamine, adrenaline, and serotonin.






No offense Tom, but I really can't envision you being giddy or excited about anything :tongue: laugh


Oh I think he does, but only in times of emergency, where all the testosterones, dopamines, adrenalines and testosterones will run giddy and shoot up like a fireball....bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



... Or maybe that side of him only comes alive for that special lady in his life... Not lame spectators like us :tongue: laugh


I beg to disagree Peggy, we are no lame spectators, we are actually the lively ones...and we can kick horses too :wink: ....but then I don't want to make any challenge..... coz he might dare...Lolzzzz laugh laugh laugh :banana:
Talking is passive and not actually being a participant being with a person is the criteria not intellectualizing about all ramifications..



Lighten up Sybaritic guy flowerforyou

Twin and I are joking around , as people do in these threads from time to time.

Tom himself uses sarcastic wit in his responses from time to time as well

That's what makes the forum so fun and refreshing . :smile:



Ha Ha Ha Ha....Right On That Girl!!!...He is so seriousssszzzzzz....Lolzzzz....I agree on every word you've said...Couldn't have said it any better...laugh laugh laugh


I think I might start telling a knock -knock joke every time he posts a comment from now on just to get him to loosen up a little :tongue: laugh

kimmy9812's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:44 AM
Yes

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:58 AM


do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager? All bright-eyed, confident,.and full of hope ?


do still immerse yourself in that euphoric sensation, what gives you that feeling of hope and unbridled excitement after all these years?


Absolutely 100% I've learned that Being prepared for heart break or expecting it, doesnt make it hurt any less. It only attracts moe of the negatives. Some think I'm an idiot for this but I will go in with no fear of the bad and offer immediate trust until it's been ruined. I'll gladly welcome 1000 heartaches if that's what it takes to find the one who keeps it safe.


Wow...

Its rare to hear a man say something like that and it's admirable.

I dont think there is a wrong or right, or good or bad way for falling in love.

I think as with most things in life, it is about realistically understanding the costs involved , and deciding if it is worth it or not.

I think it is awesome to hear a man say that its worth it. :smile:

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 07:59 AM

Yes


Good for you kimmy and welcome to mingle! flowerforyou

ErotiDoug's photo
Wed 04/20/16 09:19 AM


* Are You Still A Teenager In Love?

** A Pirate no more.
** The majority of buccaneers love sailing almost as much as they love their treasure.


smooched

BHawkins's photo
Wed 04/20/16 02:47 PM



do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager? All bright-eyed, confident,.and full of hope ?


do still immerse yourself in that euphoric sensation, what gives you that feeling of hope and unbridled excitement after all these years?


Absolutely 100% I've learned that Being prepared for heart break or expecting it, doesnt make it hurt any less. It only attracts moe of the negatives. Some think I'm an idiot for this but I will go in with no fear of the bad and offer immediate trust until it's been ruined. I'll gladly welcome 1000 heartaches if that's what it takes to find the one who keeps it safe.


Wow...

Its rare to hear a man say something like that and it's admirable.

I dont think there is a wrong or right, or good or bad way for falling in love.

I think as with most things in life, it is about realistically understanding the costs involved , and deciding if it is worth it or not.

I think it is awesome to hear a man say that its worth it. :smile:



Well thank you! I'm mostly considered foolish for being this way but it was a conscious decision I made a few years ago. I knew I had to stop wanting and hoping ....& start earning and deserving. It's made me welcome the risks and feel good about all of them, which was unexpected...so even if I ultimately don't end up with what I've sought, it is SO worth it knowing I'll never become bitter, jaded or scared. I'm glad to see that someone actually respects my mindset. :rose:

Loveangle90's photo
Wed 04/20/16 03:37 PM
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peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 08:13 PM



* Are You Still A Teenager In Love?

** A Pirate no more.
** The majority of buccaneers love sailing almost as much as they love their treasure.


smooched


Aaaaawwww...flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 08:22 PM




do you fall in love now , the same way you did as a teenager? All bright-eyed, confident,.and full of hope ?


do still immerse yourself in that euphoric sensation, what gives you that feeling of hope and unbridled excitement after all these years?


Absolutely 100% I've learned that Being prepared for heart break or expecting it, doesnt make it hurt any less. It only attracts moe of the negatives. Some think I'm an idiot for this but I will go in with no fear of the bad and offer immediate trust until it's been ruined. I'll gladly welcome 1000 heartaches if that's what it takes to find the one who keeps it safe.



Wow...

Its rare to hear a man say something like that and it's admirable.

I dont think there is a wrong or right, or good or bad way for falling in love.

I think as with most things in life, it is about realistically understanding the costs involved , and deciding if it is worth it or not.

I think it is awesome to hear a man say that its worth it. :smile:



Well thank you! I'm mostly considered foolish for being this way but it was a conscious decision I made a few years ago. I knew I had to stop wanting and hoping ....& start earning and deserving. It's made me welcome the risks and feel good about all of them, which was unexpected...so even if I ultimately don't end up with what I've sought, it is SO worth it knowing I'll never become bitter, jaded or scared. I'm glad to see that someone actually respects my mindset. :rose:


Very much so ! :smile:

jacktrades's photo
Thu 04/21/16 12:19 AM
Yes I do still feel like a teenager when I fall in love,the feeling just sweeps over me and I focus on her totally,there is nothing like it, the chance for something real in our lives is what makes us human.

peggy122's photo
Thu 04/21/16 01:54 AM

Yes I do still feel like a teenager when I fall in love,the feeling just sweeps over me and I focus on her totally,there is nothing like it, the chance for something real in our lives is what makes us human.


That sweeping feeling is addictive for sure Jacktrades.

johankhan1's photo
Thu 04/21/16 01:34 PM
its just a untold fillings

johankhan1's photo
Thu 04/21/16 01:35 PM

Yes

peggy122's photo
Thu 04/21/16 01:37 PM

its just a untold fillings



Very true johan :smile:

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