Have you ever did everything for that special person and after you lose your job they tell you they never loved you what do you in this case? How can you forget this person after everything u did money,food,shelter, car. After 8 months living together they tell you I love you but not in love and left you with nothin?

I can not say i know how you feel i can say that i have felt the pain of the heart hitting so far rock bottom it feels as if it hit all your other organs 500 mph while being ripped out forgetting them it will happen eventually i wish i could tell you it will happen fast and in some cases it does it all depends on the circumstances before and after. I know the fact that he said he was not in love with you is killer but to also feel used as a pawn for his own benefit, my advise is just keep your head up look for a new job talk to friends and family just bc he ruined his life with you does not mean yours is your life continues and its up to you to trust yourself to not let this person do this to you again once your back on your feet with life comes exsperience sometimes we learn the most from the most ****ed up situations if you ever need to talk i can be here for you just let me know and ill send you my email best of wishes

Trade up....never down . That's Kenny F****ng Powers code & my code too! Be happy it didn't take another 8 for him to stand before you as 10 pounds of $hit in a 5 pound bag

Personally I know it feels hurting when you think you've tried giving your best all along and it just didn't seem enough.
Some men could be very callous. They live for the moment and are very quick to forget the royal treatment you gave them.
But then, dating the wrong person could get all these excesses to your door steps; don't you think?

Thank you so much u made me feel a bit better

This going to sound kind of flippant given I know this is a painful betrayal but the very best thing you can do is tell this person "Thank You very much for getting the hell out of my life." Then turn and serenely and calmly put your shoulders back, eyes squarely on the horizon and walk away.

Everything you gave this looser you can get again and by not letting him hold you down you will find another job and probably get it faster than you did with him like a ball and chain around your neck.

You are young and eight months seems like a really long time but in a few years you will realize it is just a blip, a little detour that really did not mean that much on the road map of your life.

I am sorry that you are sad if I could I would give you a big old Grandma Hug . Hang in there. This too shall pass and Spring is near.

You're welcome my lady.

All I can say is that he didn't love you for real. He just used you for his pleasure and needs. Make your self busy and always keep this into your mind that he is not deserving for you.

Yup i know what that feels like. Your heart feels like what butter feels like when a hot knife goes thru it. It hurts being used in a way that a person can end up hating themselves & feel worthless especially after you give your entire self & love and life for them....

Guy's a jerk. You dodged a bullet. Count your blessings.

I just let her go ad start a new lyf