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Topic: Is it so wrong
blond1e62's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:25 AM
That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:28 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sun 05/15/16 11:33 AM

That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.




I agree ... who is abusing you ... becouse of ... there is a good expression to each his or her own ... ok now where can I find them :smile: flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:28 AM
wrong has become subjective in todays culture


if one defines every individual as the same within a race, that is racist at the least, however

,,differing levels of racism and their impact,, are another discussion altogether

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:34 AM

That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.


If you want to punish yourself by dating an Englishman, then go for it. laugh

blond1e62's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:35 AM
Thanks for replies. Sick of abuse off those I don't seek. Way I see it racism goes both ways

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:38 AM

That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.


I don't understand this who is abusing you??? People in your inbox?? Who cares...
Strangers on the street???
Family members??
Colleagues?

Who and why does it matter why would it even come up???


I personally think you maybe limiting yourself and anymore with so much dna mixed up who is White English males..Are you getting a DNA sample to make sure??

But I think honestly it is what ever floats your boat.
No explanations needed.

blond1e62's photo
Sun 05/15/16 11:40 AM


That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.


If you want to punish yourself by dating an Englishman, then go for it. laugh


No punishment in dating Englishmen after all its men like you who I don't seek and your reply states why. Sour grapes off foreign men...says it all your not my sort so you have no hope.

Only punishment would be dating something that's a turn off. English men are not that. Or are they scammers/ visa seekers.

Jacksonne's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:06 PM
Taking first into consideration the fact that your happiness is what matters the most, I'd sincerely say I find nothing wrong with that.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:21 PM
Every woman has the right to decide who would or would not make a good boyfriend for her.

Some women decide that an Englishman would be better.
Some women decide that a Scotsman would be better.

no photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:22 PM

That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.



Whatever doesn't turn you on, doesn't turn you on. I find it completely ridiculous and childish, that people can't respect your preferences.

msharmony's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:22 PM
and some decide a 'good' man or 'strong' man or 'man of integrity' would be better

without regard to what racial dynamic that man belongs to:wink:

msharmony's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:23 PM


That I myself choose only to date white English males only as other races do absolutely nothing for me.

I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse.



Whatever doesn't turn you on, doesn't turn you on. I find it completely ridiculous and childish, that people can't respect your preferences.



disagreeing doesn't mean disrespecting

Jimmy_roy's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:34 PM
I really don't know what the discussion is about, she like englishmen let her have her preferences why further discuss. Not sure why the post is been posted noway

nomidxb's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:40 PM
Agreed with jimmy

msharmony's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:43 PM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 05/15/16 12:44 PM

I really don't know what the discussion is about, she like englishmen let her have her preferences why further discuss. Not sure why the post is been posted noway


that's the issue

it was POSTED
as a question even,, 'is it wrong?'

people post for responses

,,kind of how it works

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:43 PM

Agreed with jimmy


Me, too.

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:54 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sun 05/15/16 12:55 PM
op I am sure just wanted it out there ...
everyone has a right to their own opinion ... and maybe all those going after her from her profile will stop ... good luck with that she might just have to block them lol but she has the right to a topic just as others do ... boring to some or not ... or just letting all of the English men in the forums ... know she is available...:smile:

msharmony's photo
Sun 05/15/16 12:55 PM

op I am sure just wanted it out there ...
everyone has a right to their own opinion ... and maybe all those going after her from her profile will stop ... good luck with that she might just have to block them lol but she has the right to a topic just as others do ... boring to some or not ... or just letting all of the English men in the forums ... know she is available...


I agree, we put our 'preferences' out there in our profiles,,

in the forum , we introduce discussion topics,,,


no photo
Sun 05/15/16 01:47 PM
I love these pecking order threads.
I really don't know what the discussion is about, she like englishmen let her have her preferences why further discuss. Not sure why the post is been posted


Because:
I can surely make my own choice who and what I date with out the abuse....Sick of abuse off those I don't seek...its men like you who I don't seek and your reply states why. Sour grapes off foreign men...says it all your not my sort so you have no hope.

So:
- guy gets rejected. feels emotional pain. get's revenge by lashing out and inflicting emotional pain in return.
- Girl receives emotional pain. Girl either gives it back to guy and finds it not fulfilling enough to overcome her pain as well as offer a positive reward, or guy ignores her so she can't reciprocate.
- girl in pain then goes to online internet forum in order to vent because she can't have her revenge, veiled as seeking out replies to a rhetorical question.
- stand in for unavailable guy posts response and receives the punishment meant for another.
- emotional normalcy and social hierarchy is achieved.

Or IOW go to any zoo and watch monkeys.
One will hit another, and then that one will run off and hit another one, who will run off and hit another one, down the social ladder until the person at the bottom just sits and takes it.

That's why
the post is been posted

They get posted all the time.
Just the other side of the coin to the lyrics:
"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

If you can't punish the one that hurts you, hurt the ones you can find and hurt without them being able to really do anything about it.
...I was never a songwriter.

UrMissingLib's photo
Sun 05/15/16 01:55 PM

I really don't know what the discussion is about, she like englishmen let her have her preferences why further discuss. Not sure why the post is been posted noway
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I totally concur with you....and as a compliment, you so well bring out a quality stipulated in your profile.

My take...... This thread has turned to be personal and draws attention to self rather than the subject matter. Can we please let whatever happens in the inboxes remain what it is....personal and private? I respect the lady's preference or taste but please let's not be drawn to referee a match held in the inbox. I think I saw a caveat in the posting rules.....

For records, scammers and fakes cut across all races. I had a nasty inbox incidence with a UK guy. He apologized later but not before I politely made him face his ugly ghosts! Character is the mark of a good man. It does not reside in racial genetics. Oh, no!

With all due respect..... offtopic oops

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